The mental journey of getting rid of the flattering personality
In fact, I have a sense of ruthlessness in my personality. I have a strong sense of competition since I was a child. My parents have given me a lot of freedom and will not require obedient and well-behaved. Even so, why do we still gradually develop a kind of flattering personality? Later I realized that it was precisely because I was pursuing perfection too much.
The perfection in interpersonal relationships is to be liked by everyone. I put a shackle on myself, so I was afraid of conflict, and I thought about others in advance, and I didn’t dare to express myself casually. I suffered some great losses until I was nearly 30 years old. I began to reflect and learn in the collapse of my three views.
found that society has another set of rules for women. It is not easy to detect when I was young, and they all simply hold the goal of studying hard. They began to differentiate after graduating from undergraduate studies. "Girls are not easy to find a partner after taking the postgraduate entrance examination and doctoral studies." It seems that The main direction of girls is is . How to marry a good family, and then : gentle , virtuous , dedication...
But men can be encouraged to pursue their ideals and careers as always. When my self-awareness gradually awakens, I no longer stick to perfection in interpersonal relationships. If becomes a person who fully complies with social discipline, will lose self, , etc. and will lose self. Now I have learned to Let go of my obsession , I began to express myself freely, When I have a cowardly personality and bad luck, I will use moxibustion to improve it!
Moxibustion can remove evil and strengthen the positive, resist disease and evil , on the other hand, can drive away evil and eliminate evil , , to boost positive energy, At the same time, moxibustion can improve the body's self-healing ability. In fact, all the worries of human come from interpersonal relationships. When you are in a bad mood, negative energy will be generated. These negative energy will consume your energy and make us feel low! So often moxibustion can also increase your courage. Now, I have learned to reject with confidence and refuse others, and can actively alienate some circles that make me feel consumed. is great to be myself simply!
