I don’t know how many times I said it, but I said that ballroom dance cannot be danced, because there are too many cases of ballroom dance, so I can’t tell how many there are at all, but there are still many elderly people dancing. Why? Why can’t you do something else? Other things can exercise. Other things are also good. Why don’t you do something else?
Just like in the article, this aunt has something happened to me now, and now she has returned to her own family, and she knows that she cannot dance ballroom dance, and at this time she realizes that she is too late to make the mistake. I hope this case can bring everyone's attention. If you can stop dancing, try not to dance ballroom dance. The 59-year-old aunt cried: The water of ballroom dance is too deep. She dances ballroom dance for three months and has no family.
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59-year-old aunt Wu:
I was wrong. Now I know that I really can't dance ballroom dance, but what's the use of saying this now? It's too late. I have lost everything about me, including my family. No wonder so many men want to dance this dance. So that's the case. Those men dance with you for purpose. If you don't dance, this won't happen. Just like I am so naive now, I can't control the deep water of this pool.
The water for ballroom dance was too deep, which hurt me, but it was too late. I hope that through my personal experience, everyone can pay attention. My son told me: You go back to your hometown to hide for a while. After a few days, my dad won’t be angry or wait until he stops me in this matter. You will come back then. If you stay here again, I think my dad will tell you this matter or ask you, and it depends on how you answer.
means that you answered the question, or something discovered by your dad, you will definitely be kicked out by your dad. In order to avoid your tragedy and for yourself, you can only let you go back to your hometown to hide. I can only cry when I hear my son say this. Who can I blame for this ending now? Although I don’t want to do this, what can I do?
If it weren't for me dancing ballroom dance, would I have happened to this? The water for ballroom dance is too deep and I can't control it at all, let alone I can't control it. I think everyone can't control it. There is a saying that is, those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black. No matter what kind of person you were before, once you go to ballroom dance. Then there is a very likely situation where these tragedies will happen, just like what I am forced to go back to my hometown to escape.
I told my son: It seems that I can only do this at the moment, but when I go back, can my dad really forgive me? Then you can say something nice for me. I don’t want to lose everything, let alone lose this family. When I heard me say this, my son got angry. My son angrily told me: Why did my dad and I say you to you in the past, you don’t listen. My dad helps others work. You are too free, and then you go to dance. Isn’t it good to dance other dances?
has to dance ballroom dance. I said, if you listen, this will not be the ending now. If you want to blame the ending now, you will blame yourself. What I can do is to try my best to help you hide this matter, and then tell my dad, I hope you can accept you and forgive you, otherwise, you can wait for the tragedy and wait for everything to lose.
The more I do this, the more I cry. While my husband hasn't come back, I will escape here quickly. Who can I blame for this ending now? I came to my son’s place to retire three months ago. I didn’t want to come here. My husband and I lived well in that place because my husband worked there and I cooked at home for my husband to eat. But my son told me: I am very busy with work here, I have no time to cook or take care of the children, so you can come and help.
It was too dangerous for my child to be at home when I was not at home, and I usually don’t have time to pick up the child and get to get out of class after class. How can I refuse this? I quickly told my husband.
My husband asked me to come over after he knew the matter. My husband told me: I don’t have anything to do here. You can go to the child to help you. After all, it’s really not easy for the child. I have wanted you to go over, but you just have to stay with me. Now that the child says that, you can go over and take care of the elderly. I have worked hard all my life. Now that I am old, I should enjoy the happiness of the children and help them. After that, my husband sent me out and asked me to go to my son's place to help, which could be considered as going to his son's place to support him. That's it, I came to my son.
But after coming here, I found that I was so bored. Apart from helping them take care of their children and do housework, there was basically nothing I needed to do. Watch TV every day and play with your phone every day, I'm tired of it. What should I do if I have too many phones to watch TV and play with my brain hurt? Then I went to the park. Don’t say that I, an elderly person, would encounter this. I think many elderly people will encounter these things when they go to their children. It’s better to be in their hometown or stay with their husbands.
My child also hopes that I can find something to do by myself, otherwise I will easily get sick if I am too bored, and I feel the same way. When I went to the park, I saw many people dancing ballroom dances. I was very scared at that time. After all, this kind of dance was too close, and I only saw it in TV series. In real life, no one really saw it dancing.
At this moment, a man named Lao Zhang ran over and Lao Zhang said to me: Do you want to dance? If you want to dance, just dance with me. Anyway, I can’t dance alone. It’s too boring for me to dance alone. You dance with me. I don’t know what to say. First, I don’t know how to dance, and second, I don’t dare to dance, and then I didn’t say anything. When Lao Zhang saw that I didn’t say anything, he took the initiative to say: It’s okay, everyone dances this kind of dance, nothing will happen.
And if you don’t know how to do it, I can teach you, this dance is very simple, you can see that it’s great that we are dancing while chatting. Everyone else is like this. Don’t you want to dance with me while exercising? I was moved by Lao Zhang, and then I danced with Lao Zhang. At that time, I couldn't dance and even stepped on Lao Zhang's feet. However, Lao Zhang didn't care about me so much. Instead, he encouraged me to be brave and not be afraid of stepping on the wrong foot. It doesn't matter if I made a mistake, it's all my own people anyway.
is indeed like this. It’s all my own people who are afraid of something. Then I bravely danced with Lao Zhang. I will dance as well over time, and my relationship with Lao Zhang is getting better and better. At this moment, my child found out that I was dancing this dance with others. When I got back here, they told me not to dance anymore, because it was easy for this dance to happen. My son told me: There are many elderly people dancing this dance. Why do you still have to do this if something happens? What if something happens?
If something happens, how can I explain to my dad? So let it go. It’s good to do something else. Don’t dance too much, okay? At that time, I liked this kind of dance that was very interesting and could exercise. I didn’t listen to my child. No matter what, I didn’t listen to it, but instead criticized my child.
Since then, I have gone to dance every day. When I have time or not, I will dance with Lao Zhang. I was still very naive at that time. I thought Lao Zhang danced with me to exercise and nothing would happen. The cases my child told me had nothing to do with me. What does it have to do with me? Others just because others did not clean themselves, and I am not those people, so I will never happen.
and Lao Zhang is not those men. Lao Zhang and I are just friends, or dance partners. Our relationship is good, but Lao Zhang, who has no idea about me, would have been with others long ago if he wanted to find a wife or wanted to be with others. Why should he wait for me and give me a chance? It is absolutely impossible.
said that this is what I said, but the reality is not like this. That night, Lao Zhang came to his house for dinner. I didn't want him to come, but Lao Zhang told me that it was his birthday. He was very unhappy, so he came to his house for dinner. I couldn't refuse this, and then let Lao Zhang come in for dinner. I just thought that Lao Zhang was my good friend, and then I danced with me every day. Now he is in a bad mood, so it is impossible for him to ignore it.
When I have any problems, Lao Zhang will analyze it for me and help me. Now I can't ignore Lao Zhang's help, so I'd better let him come in and have a meal. I made a lot of delicious food for Lao Zhang to eat. Lao Zhang told me: There are so many delicious foods, how can you not have wine? Let me buy two bottles of beer as soon as possible. I said to Lao Zhang: Forget it, can you stop drinking?
Then Lao Zhang took out a bottle of drink, as if the bottle of drink was prepared in advance. Otherwise, why would he take out the bottle of drink at once? At that time, I didn't notice anything, nor did I care about it, so I chatted with him and talked about things and drank drinks. Soon my meaning became blurred. I didn’t drink, so how could I be confused? What happened?
I fainted before I could figure it out. I didn’t know what happened later. When I woke up, Lao Zhang was no longer at home, and then I lay on my bed, and I was already out of order. I don’t know what happened at all, and then when I think of those things, what’s going on in my head and why is this happening? I cried desperately, and then my child came in. My child was very surprised to see me like this and asked me what was wrong.
The more I ask, the less I know how to answer. If it weren't for giving Lao Zhang a chance, would this happen? The more I think about these, the more uncomfortable I feel, the more I feel. The more I think about these, the less I know what to do. I was wrong. The water is too deep. I just want to dance with Lao Zhang. However, Lao Zhang has such an idea. No wonder my child told me that it is easy for women who dance to happen. Now I realize that this is the case.
But what's the use of knowing this now? It's too late I lost everything about me and I lost my family. If it weren't for me giving him a chance, would this happen? To be precise, if it weren't for me to dance. This will not happen, either, I regret thinking of this. I harmed myself and ruined everything about me.
I kept seeing me crying and he probably guessed something. He didn't say much, so he asked me to go back to my hometown to hide, because my husband was coming soon. I can only go back to my hometown to hide. Who can I blame for the ending now? If I blame myself, I will blame this. If it weren’t for me to dance this kind of dance, would this happen? Thinking of this, I cried even harder, and I hurt myself.
Conclusion:
If I had known this, why would anyone blame him for the ending now? If you want to blame yourself, blame yourself. If it weren't for you, would this happen? This happened because you gave Lao Zhang the opportunity. Now the ending can only be blamed on yourself. I hope that through this case, all women can pay attention. Isn’t it good to do something else?
Other things can also exercise, why do you have to have ballroom dance? Now that something has happened, I regret it and only then can I realize that I can’t jump. What’s the use of this at this time? It's too late, so do something else, such as badminton, table tennis, basketball, etc., and exercise is not necessarily a ballroom dancer, do you understand?
