Some people say that the most hurts the relationship between husband and wife and the most hurts the relationship is not not not not love each other enough, but Cold War .
What is the Cold War?
Cold War is when the couple quarrels, the two or one of them refuses to communicate and communicate in any form. The two are obviously under the same roof, but they ignore each other like strangers.
says that there are no couples who don’t quarrel, only men and women who don’t know how to manage relationships.
In a husband and wife relationship, quarrel is something that happens to almost every ordinary couple, unless their relationship fades and doesn't care, or they have been tortured by life to even have no strength to quarrel.
The most fundamental reason why feelings become weak or careless is the lack of communication, and it is that it does not know how to manage and compromise for love. This is also the reason why many couples get separated as they walk.
If many people can be like the couple below, I think the relationship between the couple will definitely get better and better.
The husband and wife were in a cold war, and the husband took the initiative to admit his mistake and got into his wife's arms and turned into a "little puppy" in seconds. The wife smiled sweetly.
coordinates are Weifang, Shandong, a woman shared with netizens a daily life between her and her husband. In the
picture, the wife is sitting on the bed holding a pillow after a fight with her husband, sulking alone like a child, with her face saying, "Come and coax me, otherwise I will never talk to you and I will also let you hit the floor."
The husband is also very cognizable. He climbed onto the bed without saying a word, and arched into his wife's arms without saying a word, making him a very "little puppy".
The husband's attitude instantly pleased his wife. The cold war ended when the husband arched his wife's arms.
I saw my wife smiling and satisfied, holding her husband and kissing her husband, and her wife's satisfied expression seemed to have gained the whole world.
The husband's weakness and the wife's smile, the couple had already made up before they started "fighting".
A silent picture is so warm that it makes people laugh from the bottom of their hearts. Their love is hidden in the details, hidden in the hearts that neither wants to make each other sad.
This is the moment silence is better than sound!
Seeing this, many netizens were infected. Some netizens said with deep feelings: My husband will do the same. He has been in a cold war with him for two days, and he likes to act spoiled with me. He also said that he has never won in front of me and lost completely.
Netizen Shuangshuanger said: This is my wife. Every time she quarreled, she likes to ignore me. She is sulking. Looking at her aggrieved look, it really makes people feel both ridiculous and pitiful. I basically have to surrender to her after only three seconds. She is definitely my "nemesis".
Netizen Feng Huo said most of the thoughts: I am willing to bow my head first, but I am afraid that what I get is not a hug, kiss, and hold it high, but a "shadowless foot".
Author's opinion:
In real life, quarrel between husband and wife is really an ordinary thing, but most people are not good at dealing with it, especially when love becomes family affection, the cold war seems to have become a common thing.
When a Cold War broke out, some people may have the mentality of "whoever bows his head first will lose", and some people even think that bowing to their partners is a shameful thing, or they are short of each other.
It is precisely because of this misunderstanding that many people care about each other but are unwilling to "bow" for themselves. This has led to the increasingly tense relationship between husband and wife, and slowly grinding away their emotions.
In fact, what couples need the least is face, or there is no face between husband and wife, unless they no longer love him (her), otherwise if they really love someone, how could they think of any face?
And those who returned to their parents' home after the Cold War actually sent a signal to her husband: I remember to pick me up, but in fact she had already calmed down, but she just needed a step. At this time, the best step for her husband to pick her up.
From this point of view, ending the Cold War or keeping feelings warm is actually very simple: that is, one is willing to take a step forward, one is willing to stretch out his hands, one is hugging, and the other is smiling, and two hearts are together.
Finally, I wish all couples in the world love to the point of old age!
