If he goes out for dinner, although he will arrive at home at 10 o'clock, you will be unable to help calling him at half past nine o'clock, or he will hold his face when he comes home these two days, and when he sees it, he may be under pressure at work, and you will be unable to help but care about him: What's wrong with you? Have you had a quarrel with your leader? Have you had any troubles at work recently?
are both women, Teacher Hu can especially understand the way many of our sisters do, but if you do this, you are actually trying to make the effort wrong, because The core need for intimate relationships for men is space .
If you say that you completely tie your personal life and personal experience to him, a man will feel stressed. If you have too much pressure, he will feel troublesome, and men are the creatures that are most afraid of troubles.
Once he feels that this relationship makes me feel suffocated, what will he be unable to help? Go and make a division, he must stay away. So this explains that in many of our marriages, women chase men and ask questions every day, and men just stay silent or escape.
In fact, men do not have as many emotional needs as women. They are relatively superficial when they have something they are interested in to do.
For example, playing games, gathering with friends, or working matters, in this state, he does not want others to disturb him.
This others include you, but as a woman here, you must understand it. This does not mean that he does not love you. What he wants is that when I have something to do, just don’t disturb me.
When I ended this matter, I can still restore the close relationship with you.
So this is the key point that many sisters have to grasp in their marriage relationship. In addition, Teacher Hu would like to remind everyone that men have two taboos, one is their social interactions and the other is their work.
If you over-bound them in these two aspects, for example, when he attends a client's dinner, you keep calling; for example, he has a friend who has not seen for a long time and comes from another place and wants to go out for a late-night snack at night, and you insist on stopping him, which will make men feel bored.
