A 30-year-old woman bought a large bag of sanitary napkins for her best friend. The woman said, "I cleaned up your cabinet and found that there were many expired sanitary napkins in it, and I threw them all for you." As a result, her good friend said, "Don't touch my things casually without my permission in the future!"
woman thought that her considerate behavior would move her best friend, but she didn't expect her best friend to be angry about it. The woman wondered, "Have you crossed the line?"
" Our Year of Fighting ", Gu Qiao and Yuan Ge, the good best friend, moved together, and each had their own worries.
01. Gu Qiao's failure
Gu Qiao has only been married for a month and her husband has cheated frequently, so Gu Qiao has no choice but to divorce.
Gu Qiao has never worked after graduating from university. He is determined to be a full-time housewife. He finally got married into a wealthy family and ended up having a flash of marriage and divorce.
Not only that, Gu Qiao also owed 2 million foreign debts. In order to repay the debt, she had to go out to work. Because she had no work experience, she could only do the hard work of telemarketing and sending flyers, and was squeezed by her boss.
Fortunately, Yuan Ge is helping him, so Gu Qiao doesn't have to worry about food and accommodation. Yuan Ge is a strong woman. She is devoted to her work if she doesn't fall in love or get married.
Yuan Ge is successful in his career and looks glamorous, but she also has hidden pain that she cannot speak of. The bag of sanitary napkins that Gu Qiao bought accidentally hit Yuan Ge's pain point.
02. Yuan Ge's symptoms
Yuan Ge suffered from premature ovarian failure and had been amenorrhea for half a year, so the sanitary napkins expired.
Yuan Ge went to see a doctor and took a lot of medicine, but his health did not recover.
Doctor lets her relax and relieve stress. It is best to go to fall in love. Only by changing her life state can her health improve.
But Yuan Ge is busy with company projects and is at a critical moment when he wants to be promoted to vice president. How dare he relax?
Yuan Ge is very rational about feelings. She is not as confused as Gu Qiao, but Yuan Ge has to go to a blind date for her own health.
Yuan Ge is unwilling to tell Gu Qiao about his amenorrhea. On the one hand, he is afraid that Gu Qiao will be worried, and on the other hand, Yuan Ge has a "shamed feeling". This kind of private matter is difficult for even good friends to share.
03. Women's Dilemma
The lives of the two heroines in the drama "Our Year of Fighting" reflect the two choices of women.
all the time to rely on men and become full-time housewife, but was abandoned by men. The other party found a lawyer, but Gu Qiao did not get any property and had to repay 2 million foreign debts.
If you focus all your energy on your career, you still have to worry about getting promoted and pay raises, and you don’t even have time to fall in love.
Gu Qiao and Yuan Ge are two extremes. In fact, moving together and compensating and changing each other is a good thing.
No matter love, marriage, or career, it is not the whole of our life. All our efforts should be to make our lives better.
This is also the dilemma that many women have to face in society. How to balance their family and career is really not an easy task. Women's hard work needs to be seen by their families.
Every harmonious and stable family is the result of the joint efforts of all family members.
A woman can easily balance her family and career because she meets a husband who knows how to share the burden.
It is the support of my husband and in-laws that women don’t need to become all-around superman. A husband’s understanding and tolerance cannot be ignored. In fact, a woman’s so-called balance between career and family does not come from herself, but from the whole family. I also hope that society will be more tolerant and less harsh in women.
What do you think about Yuan Ge’s amenorrhea in "Our Year of Fighting"?
