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Whether a marriage is good or not depends on the number of times, but on whether it is clear whether the stepmother is good or not, whether it is easy to be a stepmother, not on the cold eyes of outsiders, but whether your sincerity is exchanged for true love...
01
1990, I graduated from high school and did not get into college.
was driven into the factory by my father every minute.
The factories were not that easy to enter at that time.
must be related and someone must ask for gifts.
That's it, my dad owes someone a big favor.
I feel unwilling to go back to the university.
can be limited to my dad.
"There is no door, you are a girl movie, it's already good to let you go to high school. I have given you a chance, if you can't pass the exam, don't be too arrogant."
I know my dad wants me to make money for my family as soon as possible.
I have a younger brother who burns money below.
My parents’ majesty cannot tolerate me talking back.
had to work as a female worker on the assembly line obediently.
02
In a blink of an eye, it was 1993,
My brother doesn’t study hard and is in the society every day.
My dad also wants him to enter the factory to get a worker index.
But the policy is tightened, and my dad didn't stuff my brother in it even though he ran around.
It was not until the clerk gave my dad a hint that my brother's affairs had come to light.
The personnel section chief of the cement factory died his wife and dragged her daughter to live.
drag people everywhere looking for a wife.
My cruel father, one is to curry favor with the powerful section chief, and the other is to get an indicator for my brother.
so I introduced me to this strange man.
I am one hundred who don’t want to.
My dad slapped over with a slap.
"A thing that is ungrateful, a section chief who can fall in love with a family like ours is because he has burned a lot of incense, and you still pick some of it."
"Why should I marry a divorced man? If I don't marry, I just don't marry."
No matter how hard I speak, I can't help it.
Our family is indeed in poor conditions. My father is just a formal worker, and my mother is still a family member. She is in poor health and takes medicine all year round.
After struggling for a month, I finally couldn't resist my mother's suicide trick.
I knew it was my parents who colluded and acted as a hard trick, but I still obeyed them cowardly.
0 3
The man I want to marry is Zhang Fusheng , 34 years old, his wife died,
also brings a daughter of more than 4 years old, Coco.
When the clerk introduced me to him,
he was full of joy. After all, I was a big girl who was not married.
Require a figure and look, which man doesn’t like it.
Although he is just a worker and his family's conditions are a little worse, it is not a problem for him.
My dad's humble manner really made me unable to raise my head.
Fortunately, he solved my brother's work readily.
My marriage is not in vain.
The year I married him, I was only 23 years old, and I was 11 years younger than him.
seems nothing now, but in that era, it has indeed become a gossip in the neighbors' mouths.
Someone said that I hooked up with the section chief and scolded me for being inappropriate.
also said that my parents are shameless because of my brother's treasure.
pushed my daughter into the fire pit.
In short, there are all kinds of things to say.
0 4
Raw rice is cooked and I don’t care about those gossip.
all the time just wants to live a good life and give yourself a sigh of relief.
To be honest, this Zhang Fusheng is not as annoying as I think.
is indeed as my mother said, age will hurt people.
Don’t think he is a leader in the unit, but he doesn’t put on suspicion when he gets home.
cook and laundry will not fall behind.
I naturally know how to repay, and I also take good care of his daughter Coco and love him in every way.
After all, I am only four years old and a little girl, so I can use some snacks.
is so close to me.
I bought her beautiful new clothes, comb her beautiful braids, and dressed her up like a little princess.
Since then, no one in the yard dares to say that she is a motherless child.
In my heart, Coco is my biological daughter.
But this kind of happy life has only been less than three years.
Zhang Fusheng died unexpectedly in a car accident.
0 5
His relatives called me a devastating star and said that I killed him.
I'm going to be driven crazy.
Coco snuggled in my arms, crying like a little tears.
After his father had an accident, the party involved in the accident compensated 100,000 yuan, and the unit also had funeral expenses and alimony expenses.
that era this was also a huge sum of money.
Before the money was heated up, the brothers and sisters of Zhang Fusheng's family began to look at each other.
The person who used to never ask about Coco is now trying to raise her.
so scared the child to scream.
crawled into my arms and refused to come out.
They forced me to hand over the money and wanted to force Coco to bring back to their Zhang family.
said I am not Coco's biological mother, said I have bad intentions and want to take money alone.
I know it very well.
They are not thinking about Coco, they are all interested in the huge sum of money.
0 6
My dad saw that Zhang Fusheng's backer was gone, and
made me tactful and took whoever wants the child.
scolded me for being brain-related and said that I would not let go by pulling someone else’s child.
I felt very uncomfortable after listening to his words.
Although I am not Coco's biological mother, I have been with her for more than two years after all.
His biological mother died, and his biological father died,
Those who want to support her are not good people.
I don’t care about it anymore, I’m not a human being, and even Zhang Fusheng won’t let me go.
Zhang Fusheng and death, I have been strong and not crying.
Until Coco changed his words and called me "Mom", I suddenly cried "wow".
suddenly, I seemed to have the courage to have a big fight with those "relatives" who rushed into my house.
While crying, waving with a knife, scaring them away with a mighty momentum.
I held Coco hard in my arms and said with heartache: "Coco, in the future, we are dependent on each other for our lives. Mom protects you. Whoever bullies you again, I won't beat him to death."
0 7
0 7
That day, Coco slept particularly well in my arms.
Zhang Fusheng's unwilling relatives came a few more times.
I told them solemnly that I won’t move that money, and that money is cocoa, so no one can make a wrong idea.
It was from that day that I felt like I had changed all of a sudden.
used to be soft and weak, and he didn't even dare to watch it even if he killed a chicken.
now, he can actually wave the kitchen knife to protect the villain in his arms, and he has the determination like a female beast in his eyes.
I didn’t listen to my parents’ advice and gave up on Cocoa.
instead ran away with Coco.
In order to avoid harassment from Zhang Fusheng's relatives, I quit my job.
with Coco to Urumqi.
When my dad found out, he threatened to break my leg.
Zhang Fusheng's relatives were even more anxious and went to my house to ask for people every day.
0 8
Thanks to the leaders of Zhang Fusheng's unit,
hiding the truth that I shouldn't have told them.
I went back several times to transfer to Coco, and the unit leaders helped me.
is really touched and moved.
If it weren't for Zhang Fu's good popularity when he lived, it would be hard to say what happened between me and Keke.
I am really good to Coco, and Coco also depends on me.
The sensible child, who is sincere to her, she knows the best in her heart.
When we first arrived in Urumqi, we had no relatives.
has only a bold and bold body.
That era was not like today, and it was easy to do anything.
Finding a job is more difficult than climbing the sky, and it just happened to catch up with the policy-based laid-off wave.
House of workers has no way out.
It was at that time that I met Han Wei.
A man who is a little rude and ten years older than me.
also divorced and brought a child.
09
Han Wei is a worker and a riveter.
One-hand technical job is just that I can’t find the next one.
And I met each other because I rented it into the large bungalow of his house.
His family is a boy named Huzi, three years older than Coke.
is very powerful and unreasonable, and always makes Coco complain.
Every time before I could speak, Han Wei shook Hu Zi's butt and his feet.
"Acknowledge your mistake, give your sister a mistake, you are a man, why are you a hero in front of a woman?"
I burst out laughing.
"He is a half-year-old child, what do you know?"
I pulled Hu Zi over and asked Keke to shake hands with him to make peace.
Maybe it was because I had lost my maternal love for too long, and Hu Zi suddenly became particularly "fascinated" by my warmth.
He ran to my house to play and had dinner together. I never care about
more than one chopstick.
But Han Wei refused, he said that one mouthful would give him more food.
will give me money whenever I say.
Just be angry if you don’t want it.
I had to follow him, and sometimes I made some delicious food and left him a bowl.
1 0
At that time, I could only take on some small private work.
Make gloves and sew quilt covers for people, which are all urgent tasks to rush the construction period.
Sometimes I don’t sleep at night, and I just work for a few all night.
In the morning, I have to make breakfast for Coco and send her to school.
is really tired, but I am also very pleased, especially when Coco calls me and my mother, I feel warm in my heart.
We have been safe for more than a year.
Zhang Fusheng's relatives found us.
's aggressive look really seems to be trying to eat people.
Han Wei blocked the gate of the courtyard, his voice as if it was thunder.
"You bully them orphans and widows and mothers, right? Tell you, I will be their backer in the future. If you want money, go to sue!"
even the tiger rush out and took a shovel in his hand.
Coco hid behind me, and his little neck was staggering, full of confidence.
1 1
One year later, I married Han Wei and we finally got a home again.
It’s just that Hu Zi has no longer the happiness he used to be.
Last time Han Wei told me that his wife ran away with someone else, and Hu Zi was always looking forward to his mother coming back.
I only understood why Hu Zi refused to call me mother, and even Keke wanted to pull his hand down, he ignored it.
To be honest, I regretted it for a while.
Regret broke the beauty of the past.
Before marrying Han Wei, Hu Zi and Ke Ke were like brothers and sisters.
can form a new home, but it has all changed.
several times, Han Wei was so angry that he wanted to hit the tiger. I stopped me.
that stubborn spirit is really like a little man.
Every day, he raised his head and rushed in and out with anger, and threw the door loudly.
every stroke shocked me very much.
1 2
I didn't have an attack, but treated him twice as well.
I clean my house every day and make delicious food for them in different ways.
Clothes and pants were washed clean, and even the red scarf was folded neatly.
This is a treatment that Hu Zi has never received before.
Han Wei is so rough, he is not so careful. Both of them often run around with oil.
Once, Hu Zi deliberately angered me, saying that I was biased towards Coco, saying that he was not my biological child, and saying that everything I did was hypocritical.
Han Wei slapped him up.
Coco suddenly became anxious and told Huzi directly that she was not my biological child either.
huzi was stunned for a moment.
Only Han Wei knew about this. I had never told Hu Zi, so in his heart, he was much worse than Keke's love.
Since then, Hu Zi is no longer so repulsive to me.
cocoa gradually got better, and the brother and sister returned to their past.
read books together, study together, and even go to and from school to and from.
1 3
Cocoa became the little tail of the tiger.
What delicious food is in Hu Zi’s pocket, I will think of leaving it for Keke;
If I find that Keke is unhappy, I will ask with concern, "Sister, what's wrong with you? Is anyone bullying you? Tell me, I'll beat him up."
At that time, my house was so warm.
We often go to West Park , and the family of four went out. I walked in front with Han Wei in my arms, and Hu Zi led Coco behind with Ke, and the picture was extremely harmonious.
At that time, I felt really happy.
Han Wei also proposed to have a child of our own.
I refused without thinking.
At that time, where conditions allowed, it was difficult for a woman to do this.
1 4
In order to improve life, Han Wei decided not to work for others.
prepare to open a machine repair shop by yourself.
It was really difficult at that time, and there was no money.
even then, I never had the idea of taking the money for cocoa.
Han Wei borrowed money everywhere and finally settled on a shop.
not many people did business in those years, and even fewer people did processing business.
Han Wei is a generous person and has made many friends.
Many customers later became good friends.
business is getting better day by day.
He expanded his scale again, rented a factory in the suburbs, and took on some finely processed work.
people are too busy, so I naturally have to help. Han Wei said that outsiders can’t believe it after all, and they have to leave the account every day.
The family has two children, food, clothing, and tuition fees, and expenses everywhere.
Han Wei is not easy to open a factory. Only when the business is good can our family of four continue.
At that time, Hu Zi was just in the second grade of junior high school and was in the sixth grade of Coco.
has to sacrifice one head.
1 5
I called Hu Zi to my side and told me: "You know the situation in the factory. Your father and I have no choice. I will try to come back early every night. Take good care of your sister and don't let others bully her!"
Hu Zi didn't speak, just nodded.
I prepare meals for them before dawn in the morning, and prepare them together with the lunch and evening.
They just need to come back and eat hot.
That year, I lost about ten pounds at once. Not only was I worried, but I also had the fatigue of getting up early and going to bed late.
huzi is very sensible and always brings cocoa when going to and from school.
The relationship between the brother and sister is getting better and better.
Han Wei praised everyone, saying that I am worried and sensible in educating these two children.
But after all, children are children. After all, they are children. After a long time away from their parents, their awareness will naturally decrease a lot.
I always thought that they just went to school with their schoolbags, just like when we were kids.
But where do you know that the transformation education is not the same thing at all.
Hu Zi did a mess in the mock exam in the last semester of junior high school.
He didn't dare to give his dad's phone number to the teacher.
instead notified me.
I rushed to school in a hurry, and the teacher slapped his head and said very unpleasantly.
I protected the tiger in one go.
teacher can criticize and educate, but we cannot say that the child is useless in front of us.
just because the grades are not good, and the child has not made any big mistakes.
I don’t know where the courage comes from, so I actually educated the teacher.
1 6
Hugi didn't speak along the way, just lowered his head, as if he had made a big mistake.
I told him that my regret in this life was that I did not get into college.
I talked to him a lot, and Hu Zi seemed to understand, and he threw himself into my arms with a wow sound.
Such a big guy shocked me.
Only then did I understand.
For so many years, no one has ever praised him, Han Wei did not, and the teacher did not.
What he lacks is the confidence and self-esteem.
And I praised him in front of the teacher with all my strengths.
This big boy was touched at once.
He promised me that he would work harder and would never give up until he got into high school.
That day, I also cried.
is a kind of maternal love, and even more a kind of understanding, and the excitement of being unwilling to be lifted up.
1 7
Since that day, I rarely go to the factory, except for large amounts of collection.
Han Wei and I had a deep conversation.
No matter how much money we make or how good the conditions we have, it cannot make up for the lack of accompanying our children.
I told him that both children were critical periods. If they missed it, we really have to regret it for the rest of our lives.
Han Wei finally understood, after all, he loves his children.
I'm back to my family.
Two children are so happy.
even walks by humming a small song.
That year, our conditions improved significantly. We paid off all our foreign debts, moved to a new home, and bought a new car.
huzi also got into high school. Although it is not the key point, it is quite good.
han Wei hugged me so much.
said that my family was full of happiness and said that I was their lucky star.
1 8
The conditions are good, and Han Wei has brought up the old things again.
want to have my own baby with me.
I still refused, and I refused without thinking.
Han Wei asked me to think clearly and say don’t do things that make me regret.
I don’t know why I am so determined, so confident, and I am sure of the happiness in front of me.
I put all my thoughts on these two children who have no blood relationship with me.
I accompanied them through the most difficult period of youth rebellion.
accompany them from ignorant children to teenagers.
Entering high school, Hu Zi seemed to have gained some clues, and had a sense of motivation and urgency.
also reminds Keke from time to time to lay a solid foundation, otherwise it will be difficult to learn.
I heard that he was like a little adult, and I felt extremely relieved.
At that time, there was no tutor, so I found the teacher's house with shame.
hard and softly beat others to accept the tiger's son.
I know Hu Zi wants to study hard, but I don’t want him to fail the college entrance examination like me, which will become a regret for his life.
1 9
Hu Zi is very smart. With the guidance of the teacher, his grades have improved rapidly.
3 years can easily pass through your fingertips.
During the days of Hu Zi’s college entrance examination, I was even more nervous than him.
Han Wei laughed at me and said that I was just about to change my admission ticket and go to the examination room.
kow giggled.
"Why are you laughing? Look at your grades, why don't you review it quickly."
I scolded her angrily.
She was not angry either, and she hugged my neck and acted coquettishly.
My daughter, there is nothing I can do about it.
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is smart, but the little guy has too many ideas.
huzi is learning hard, this is a clever and talks a lot.
The results were rising and falling, which made my heart go along with it.
20
That year, two major events in my family were Huzi College Entrance Examination and Coco High School Entrance Examination.
Fortunately, Hu Zi was admitted to university. Although he only got 211 universities, it was also very good.
Cocoa was studying locally, but even got into a key high school.
Han Wei was so happy that he said that his ancestors had smoked, and several generations of people had produced this college student.
pictures are lively, and we set up a banquet in the hotel.
Han Wei's face was flushed with excitement and toasted to the table.
The Hu Zi, who has always been unspeakable, actually expressed his gratitude to me in front of so many people.
"Mom, thank you for your care for me, and thank you for not giving up on me. Without you, there would be no me today, and there would be no happiness of my dad."
I was already in tears and couldn't speak in my sobs.
That was the first time Hu Zi changed his words and called me mom.
Han Wei hugged Hu Zi's shoulders and patted them hard.
That guy who is one head taller has indeed grown up.
"Son, you finally become sensible, dad is happy today."
21
That day, I, who usually didn't drink alcohol, took the initiative to drink two glasses of white wine.
There were two red pieces on the cheeks, and they were smirking and tears were falling in their eyes.
Time flies too fast.
In a blink of an eye, Hu Zi graduated from university.
He did not listen to Han Wei's advice and returned to Urumqi to take over the business at home.
instead chose to stay in Beijing to develop, and get married and have children there.
I am only 14 years older than Hu Zi. To be honest, my mom screamed made me a little embarrassed.
My face even blushed when his wife opened her mouth.
so Han Wei and I rarely go to Beijing to disturb them.
When we got married, we paid the down payment, hoping that they could support themselves and experience the difficulty of life.
When we gave birth, we transferred the money and asked them to choose a confinement center.
When the child was born, we paid the nanny fee and did not choose to do it myself.
I am afraid that I will ruin my relationship if I accidentally do it.
Since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. I am a mother-in-law like this, and I am even more afraid of being polite.
22
When the youngest grandson was three years old, Hu Zi and his wife were sent abroad for a year.
I packed my luggage without saying a word and was about to fly to Beijing to take care of my children.
At that time, Coco had already started working.
She also laughed at me: "After all I am, I know how to look up to my son in everything."
I held my finger on her forehead: "Damn girl, I really have no conscience."
She smiled and hugged me: "I can't even make a joke."
"Don't worry, after you leave, I will take good care of my dad. Once you take a vacation, we will go to Beijing to find you."
Coco has also grown up,
At that moment, many memories of the past surged in my heart.
I will never forget the scene where she leaned in my arms and called me mother...
23
2016, Keke got married.
Han Wei not only bought a house of his own for Coco, but also equipped a good car.
On the eve of the wedding, I took out another bank card for her.
"This is your father's original compensation. I didn't move a penny and kept it for you as a dowry."
" She suddenly cried and threw herself into my arms.
At that moment, no one knew how reluctant I was.
She is like my little cotton jacket, warming me for many years.
In the eyes of others, I raised her for the money, but I don’t care.
I don't want to explain it either.
only wants to be the warmest mother and daughter with her in this life.
2 4
In a flash, I have returned to Xinjiang from Beijing.
Koco's daughter is almost two years old.
Han Wei and I, who have always advocated the slightest water, are particularly spoiled for this little granddaughter.
The kind of spoiling that you should not give the stars to the moon, and hold them in your palms for fear of falling, and hold them in your mouth for fear of melting.
Every year, Hu Zi will fly back to celebrate with his family.
When the young grandchildren get together, Han Wei always asks his grandson to give in to his granddaughter more.
Just like when he scolded Hu Zi, he said that men should protect their little sister.
Those familiar words have actually passed twenty years.
Han Wei finished speaking, Hu Zi pinched Coco's face.
"Look, this little girl is protected by me. She can eat and sleep as strong as a cow."
Every time at this time, our family will laugh.
laughed laughing, and his eyes became wet...
Author: Xiaofeng
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