A few days ago, he chatted with a friend. He accidentally mentioned his mother and mother-in-law. The attitude of life of the elderly on both sides after his family gave birth to a child made him feel a little: I would rather marry a slave than a younger sister!
Let’s listen to what my friend said.
My mother was born in a wealthy family. She has never had to worry about food, clothing and money since she was a child. She only valued the value of the product itself, and she didn't care about the price. As for my mother-in-law, she was born in a poor family and suffered all her life. After marriage, I lived with my mother-in-law for five years and felt very deeply.
When I gave birth to the boss, I called confinement nanny . My mother helped me. Whenever I encountered anything, my mother was willing to discuss with the confinement nanny. I hope that the confinement nanny can try her best to take care of the mother and the child, and I don’t have to worry about anything else. My mother has handled her relationship with her confinement nanny very well. She is very comfortable in our house and her wife has recovered very well.
When I gave birth to the second child, I called the confinement nanny and helped with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law couldn't stand the confinement nanny, so she stared at the confinement nanny all day long, and said bad things about the confinement nanny in front of her wife, thinking that the confinement nanny was a servant. To maximize the 5,000 yuan of hiring a confinement nanny, the confinement nanny often criticizes her and makes trouble for her children and their wives at night.
Before the age of two, our whole family had not had a good sleep. When buying vegetables, they chose the cheapest ones in the entire market. As a result, they bought too much and couldn't finish them. In the end, they had to wait until they broke down before throwing them away. My wife has to go out if she has something to do, but my mother said, "Don't worry about the child, you can go and do your child." My mother-in-law said, I don’t care about the child, please don’t let me go. After all, I agreed, and the phone came after I left, either saying that my head was a headache or that my feet were hurt. Anyway, there are all kinds of psychological imbalances. My mother-in-law works hard but doesn’t complain, complains a lot, and loves to care. She often ends up working hard but doesn’t get any benefits.
In the past reality, two families were clearly in the same period and in the same environment, but their family was getting poorer and poorer. Our family was not bad overall. I could feel that the influence of my family was completely different from my wife’s thinking inertia. When any problem arises, my family’s thinking inertia is how to solve this problem. Who is the blame for my wife’s family?
There is a saying that goes: I would rather marry a slave from a big family than a sister from a small family. What does it mean?
is the slave of the big family, and he is knowledgeable, well-educated, and generous. However, although the ladies in small families are caring for each other, they are scheming, stingy, and do not understand etiquette, so the ladies in small families are not as good as slaves in large families.
Good daughter-in-law can prosper for three generations, and can also destroy three generations. Find an open-minded wife, and you will benefit from this woman even if you take care of your children and grandchildren. Therefore, families will prosper for three generations. On the contrary, three generations will be destroyed by narrow values and passed down from generation to generation.
Do you think my friend is right? Everyone is welcome to discuss together!
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