Introduction:
32-year-old Zhao Sisi received a wedding invitation from her friend, and her mother asked her again: "Have you taken time to go on blind dates recently? Look at how old you are. If you don't marry yourself quickly, your dad and I don't want to go out during the New Year and the Holidays." My mother always talked about Zhao Sisi's marriage problem very seriously, but Zhao Sisi felt that she was in good condition, beautiful, tall, and had a good job. She could earn 7,000 yuan a month, but she just didn't want to marry.
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Everyone has different views on marriage. Some people think that getting married is happy. After getting married, they have their own home, husband and children, and they are no longer lonely people in this world. But some people think that marriage is a shackle, and after getting married, they cannot live the life they want, especially after getting married, women will be tied to housework and children. Which woman does not need to have children after getting married? Once they have children, their lives will change greatly.
For Zhao Sisi, marriage represents shackles. The reason why she has not gotten married is because she feels that once she gets married, she will lose her freedom and have to have children. It is better to be single. If you want to travel, go travel and buy whatever you want. You don’t need to think too much about it. Single can dress yourself up well, and you don’t have to be tired of your family at all. Once a woman gets married, she will never be able to live a good life again. Many girls and friends around Zhao Sisi would go shopping with Zhao Sisi to buy clothes before getting married. After getting married, they couldn't buy clothes once a year. Every time they wanted to ask them to come out to play, they always said that they wanted to take care of their children and couldn't leave.
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The thing that scares Zhao Sisi the most is that after marriage, they usually have to have children. Giving children is a hurdle for women, and raising children is even harder. Many women not only gain a lot of weight after giving birth, but they can't lose weight, but they can't continue to work because no one helps them take care of their children. In order to raise their children, they have to be by their children all the time, have to give up socializing, and become housewives with no money at their hands. These are things that women must experience after marriage. Zhao Sisi doesn't want to experience, so she never wants to get married.
But she doesn't want to get married. She is willing to be married. Her parents are not willing, and relatives and friends are not willing. Everyone is urging her to get married from time to time. Zhao Sisi understands that one day she will have to get married before she can explain to her relatives and friends. Whether to get married or not is never her own business. If she must get married in this life, then Zhao Sisi hopes to find a man who truly respects her wishes and is willing to be good to her. Zhao Sisi's willingness to get married is that she can get married and be with each other, but she has to be DINK together, because Zhao Sisi is unwilling to have children. How can she be considered good to Zhao Sisi? In Zhao Sisi's eyes, being good to her means giving her all the material things.
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Although Zhao Sisi's marriage requirements are different from those of others, Zhao Sisi thought she was good-looking and had a good job, and maybe she could find a suitable partner through blind dates, so Zhao Sisi took the pace of blind dates. During the blind date, she told the other party: I will accept DINK if I marry. In addition, if you love me, you must not lose material things, I want all of these. The man who went on a blind date with Zhao Sisi had a good impression of Zhao Sisi, thinking that Zhao Sisi looked good and had a good income, but when he heard Zhao Sisi say that I would marry me, he accepted DINK, the man immediately denied Zhao Sisi in his heart and said to her, "Don't waste my time."
Zhao Sisi was also a little unhappy when she heard the impatience of the blind date man. Her own conditions were not bad, and her parents were both in good health. She just wanted DINK after marriage, and asked the man to provide a house, car, and pay a salary card. Aren't these all the basic requirements for her husband after marriage? A blind date man is also a straightforward person. He bluntly criticized Zhao Sisi: "You say you want a house, a car, and a salary card, which is the basic requirement for a woman after marriage. Why don't you say that having a child after marriage is the basic requirement for a man for a woman?”
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Zhao Sisi defended herself: “If you really love me, then you will be willing to marry me, you will respect my wishes and accept what I think of Dink. "The blind date man said: "No man doesn't want children after getting married. If you want DINK, don't get married. If you want DINK, don't think about having marriage protection and not willing to have children. If you want marriage, don't want marriage to provide you with material protection for a house, car, and salary card, and you are unwilling to lose your freedom in marriage. If you want everything but are unwilling to give or sacrifice, then how can you get married? "
Zhao Sisi thinks that the idea of blind date men is too selfish. Do you say that if you want Dink, you shouldn't get married? Do you want Dink to ask your husband to buy a car and a house and pay a salary card after marriage? Zhao Sisi thinks that if you want Dink, you can get married. As long as you meet the right person, the requirements you make are reasonable.
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blind date men advised Zhao Sisi to be more practical. Don't think that Dink will go through once and for all, and will live a relaxed life than those who have children. Since you have already reached the stage of blind date, be more pragmatic. Find a suitable person to get married. They are already 32 years old. Getting married early and having a child early will save you regretting it when you get older. The blind date men hope that Zhao Sisi will change their minds. Everyone is old Not young anymore, don’t think about being an illusory Dink, it’s right to get married early and have children early.
Zhao Sisi did not receive the love of a blind date man. She always insisted on her own opinion: if the man she met really loves her, then she would not mind that she wanted Dink’s heart. The opinions analyzed by the blind date man are all pragmatic, related to real life, but have nothing to do with love. Seeing Zhao Sisi’s obsession with her, she didn’t want to spend time with her, so the two of them parted ways. Zhao Sisi felt that as long as she continued to go on blind dates, she could always find a man who meets her requirements.
Conclusion:
32-year-old Zhao Sisi wanted to get married, but she didn’t want to have children, and she also had a house, a car, and a salary card. Is anyone really willing to agree to her these requirements?
