My aunt is a enthusiastic person. She not only helps her relatives, but also helps those who are in trouble around her. When my aunt's daughter was in her senior year, her daughter's classmates were far away from the school, so she asked her to live in her home and eat and live with her daughter, helping her through the stressful period before the college entrance examination. Another time, a distant relative of my father came to Jilin to buy a car, and my father just told him to ask my uncle to help contact him. But he didn't bring enough money to buy a car at that time, so he found his aunt to borrow money. It was my first time meeting with him, but my father mentioned in the letter asking for help from uncle and not borrowing money. My aunt was studying and using money for money, but she had no money at all. Because I had to pick up the car at that time, I had to pay and deliver it. My aunt raised money for him everywhere at the unit, and she didn't care whether he could repay the money in time in the future. She just wanted to help him solve his urgent problem. With the efforts of my aunt, the money was enough, and the distant relative took away the car, but the money borrowed by the relative who bought the car was delayed. In the end, my father urged him many times before the relative returned the money. My aunt will not learn from her lessons when borrowing money like this. She has the heart of a Bodhisattva. As long as others borrow money from her, she will think that others will not speak unless they have no choice. So sometimes she will lend the money to others even though she knows that the other party does not have the ability to repay, to solve other people's urgent needs. Sometimes the other party really has no ability to repay, so don’t want it. Such things are found among her relatives and friends.
My aunt never fears trouble when helping others, but she tries not to bother others when she has something to do. In 1992, the doctor found that a malignant tumor had grown on my aunt's colon and needed surgery immediately. At that time, I had just given birth to a baby for more than two months. In order to avoid worrying about her, I just went to my house to see the child before the operation and said I had something to go to Changchun, without mentioning her illness or the operation. After the operation, my cousin didn't tell me the specific condition, so she said that a polyp grew on the colon of and had a minor operation. More than a year later, I saw my aunt losing weight when she was under chemotherapy. I realized what was going on. My aunt is such a person who always thinks about others and rarely considers herself.
Now, when it comes to the New Year and the New Year, my sister and my cousin, my family of nine always go to my aunt's house for a day. My aunt and uncle prepare a table of delicious food for us, and we are together happily and have a day of joy. When we look at our three families in harmony and harmony, we will have a happy smile on their faces. My aunt always said that she felt very content to live such a happy life now. She said that if there were no new China established by the Communist Party, some of her 10 brothers and sisters might have starved to death. Without the spring breeze of reform and opening up , his son would not have had the opportunity to go abroad, and she would not have the opportunity to travel abroad. My aunt is an old lady who is very willing to accept new things. After she came back from abroad, she encouraged us to take out a loan to buy a house. She said, "The policies of our country are so good now. You don't have money to borrow money from the country to buy a house. The interest rate is not high. You are really catching up with the good time." With the encouragement of my aunt, all three of us sisters bought a spacious building to live in.
Although my aunt did not catch up with a good era when she was born, most of her life has witnessed the process of our country from weak to strong. As the first generation of women in New China, she has shared a lot of responsibility for her family and indirectly dedicated herself to our society. Through her hard work and selfless dedication, her mother, my grandmother, was able to live a healthy and long life, and lived to her 80s, and saw the rapid changes in the motherland; her brothers and sisters and their children survived one difficult period after another through the help of their aunt; she cultivated two college students, teaching and educating in universities in Canada and China; she helped me and my sister come to Jilin from the distant Heilongjiang to work and develop; she was thrifty and did a good job in family logistics, so that my uncle devoted himself to work, overcome technical problems, and made due contributions to the development of the automobile industry.So, I want to say that my aunt is one of the millions of great mothers in our motherland. She embodies the hard work and wisdom of our Chinese women. She is an amazing beautiful woman.
Author's Note: This article was completed on March 24, 2008
