I went to do nucleic acid when I got up yesterday morning. After I came back, I continued to read the headlines, find materials, and edit the copywriting to post a micro headline. After
is released, I will continue to look for materials, try to find a few more, analyze the incidents, and after finishing all the work, I will be ready to lie on the bed.
Then I chatted with my boyfriend in a video.
He asked me, "What are you doing today?"
I said, "I am writing an article."
He said, "How much did you write, what is the result of today?"
I said, "I am working hard, but I haven't achieved good results yet!" After
my boyfriend said, "I have something to do, we're going to fight later."
I said, "Okay, let's call later."
After the phone was hung up, I continued to read the articles, thinking about these articles, I wrote a few micro headlines yesterday, but the article was not written.
After dinner, I lay in bed to continue updating the article. Later, I found out that it was around 11.00 pm.
Looking at the 10 articles full, I called my boyfriend. I didn’t answer them for a long time and began to think he was asleep.
hesitated for a while and made a call, but he hung up.
I was a little unhappy and I sent him a WeChat message asking him why he didn't answer and why he hung up my phone.
He didn't reply to me, and after a while I called again, but I didn't answer once or twice. When I answered the phone for the third time, I asked him, "What do you mean?"
He said, "It's not interesting, I play games with my uncle and others."
I said, "So I didn't answer the phone, right?"
He said, "No, I saw that my friend didn't answer his wife's call either, so I didn't answer either."
He heard this sentence at that time, and I was really angry, and I was so angry.
I said, "If he doesn't answer, you won't answer. You are just treating me like this now. How will you treat me when you get married in the future? I am too disappointed with you. Don't talk to me, block it!" After
I blocked him with all the phone calls, WeChat, and all the methods.
I spent the whole day in the headlines and never thought about this. I kept thinking about how to write a good headline. It seems that I have learned a little more and understood a little more about the headlines.
But my boyfriend contacted me on QQ and sent me a message, but I didn't want to forgive him.
Below is my conversation with him.
I don't know how to forgive him, nor do I know if I should forgive him.
What if your boyfriend always did this, because of other things, or was busy ignoring you, not answering the phone, and hanging up the phone? What should I do with
? I really don't know if I can continue with him.
I hate his perfunctory things. I think two people must be honest when they are together, and don’t hide anything from each other. If there is anything, the two people will solve it together.
Even if he is playing a game, he can tell me why he doesn’t answer the phone?
If he does this, don’t you know that others will think too much? I wonder how uncomfortable others will be!
I really don’t know what to do, but after four years of relationship, I can’t let go of it easily.
But when faced with his perfunctory, I feel that I have chosen the wrong person and don’t know whether I should continue.
Last time I didn’t answer the phone because I drank, I didn’t tell me in advance. If you tell me, I wouldn’t think too much, nor would I get angry about it.
I had to wait until I was angry before I realized I was wrong, but this time I wouldn't pay attention to him. Let him reflect on himself.
I have been studying the headlines carefully these days, and make the headlines well, and let them talk about their feelings in advance.
Friends, do you think I can do this?
