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is actually very interesting, I have to write it down. There are two meanings for reading here: one means that you have studied a lot of school, a high degree of education, and at least you have been to college under the national education system; the other means that you have read a lot of books of all kinds, at least calculated in a hundred books. But does this have anything to do with whether a person lives a happy life? The answer is that it is related, but you cannot just see the appearance.
looks like it is indeed many people who do not study much. They live a small life of having a house, a car, getting married and having children early, and live and work in their hometown or county towns. There is no great pressure on life, especially for rural people. This situation is even worse. On the other hand, those who study more seem to have various discomforts, their lives are under great pressure, and they bear all kinds of debts, and they are more leftover men and women. This phenomenon is very common and cannot be ignored, including myself or many people around me. It seems that the more you read, the less you feel, the more you feel, but this is obviously plausible.
Let me talk about the causal relationship between them. This is first related to the development of the times, and secondly to the choice of individuals. The so-called reading or individual education level is precisely related to the development of the times and individual choice of individuals.
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Those who read more, or those who are called talented in studying, have been selected from the layers of education mechanism and have been rising step by step, and the entire family and even themselves have given high hopes for this. The ancients said that everything is inferior, but only reading is high; the ancients also said that there are thousands of bells of millet and beauty in books. Naturally, they will naturally choose to become an enterprising person, enter the city, stay away from their hometown or hometown, and start working hard for the so-called future or a bright future.
In a strange place, everything starts from scratch. Facing the heavy pressure of life alone, you rarely have support, so it is difficult to settle down. As a result, difficulties, adversity, bad luck, etc. will come into being. This is how unhappiness comes from. The development of the times requires such people, and personal unwillingness has created such people.
I like to watch spy war dramas. Those workers of our party who are lurking in the heart of the enemy have only mission and faith. Judging from our current standards of happiness, they must be unhappy. It is a luxury, and life is always on the edge of a cliff. This is also a dual result of factors of the times and personal choices. Just like the lurker as one of the pioneers of New China, just like the young people in contemporary times choose to cross from rural areas to cities, from small cities to large cities, there is the same place between the two. That is, as the first group of people, you always have to pay a certain price, and this price may be unhappiness.
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or back to reading. Comparison is the most obvious problem. Those who lack talent or do not study hard enough will enter society early. Most of them work early and get married and have children, and then live step by step under the guidance of their parents. They envy those who work hard in the city, and those who work hard in the city often envy them. As the saying goes, you look at the scenery on the bridge, and the people who look at the scenery look at you on the bridge. The bright moon decorates your windows, and you decorate other people’s dreams. Every year, there are young people who enter major cities such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and every year, there are also people who flee from Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. this is life.
So, the more you read, the less happy you are? There is no necessary relationship, but there seems to be indirect factors that cannot be separated. Being happy or not is just a subjective feeling for the individual; the amount of reading is also an active choice for the individual. People who read a lot will be more profound and will tend to choose to strive forward. They will have richer experiences, a bigger world, and of course there will be more difficult or misfortunes at the same time. People who don’t read much may be the opposite, and will be simpler and more comfortable, because everyone has the basic guarantees of this era.
No matter what, I support people to have higher education and read more books. Because you can have the two options in the previous article, you can advance or retreat. If possible, I want to hear what you think.
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