Zhou Huajian sang in the song "Friends go together for life, those days are no longer there, a sentence, a lifetime, a life of love, a glass of wine."
In the relationship between friends, we often feel that we have a deep relationship with each other, and our way of speaking is a bit unscrupulous, and we often ignore the other person's feelings and hurt each other.
I always feel that your relationship is so good, and the other party will definitely not care. Even if you have told you, don’t make such jokes, you don’t care. There is no barbecue that cannot be solved.
"The person who hurts you is often the person with the best relationship" Some words and things are like a pistol, sometimes they unknowingly shoot bullets into the hearts of friends.
In fact, everyone has a psychological bottom line. Once they touch the bottom line of their friends, it may cause an irreversible situation.
So no matter how good the relationship with friends or how strong the relationship is, some words and some things cannot be touched.
Friends’ family jokes cannot be made
When Xiaoli was a child, there was an uncle in the village who played well with her father always joked, saying that she was not her parents’ biological child, but was abandoned on the street. Because her house happened to be very close to the street, she had already gone to kindergarten at that time, and she understood the meaning of such words, so she really believed it.
While the family was not paying attention, I wrote a letter seriously about to run away from home. And as soon as her parents say something bad about her, she will be extremely sad, thinking that this is all evidence that she is not her biological child. Later, her parents learned about this and almost started fighting with his friend.
So, friends are joking, and you must not make jokes about each other's family. (Especially the ignorant child who just started to be ignorant)
Friends can joke with each other, but they only don’t joke about their family. Some people even treat their friends’ parents as their own, and there is a limit to jokes.
A good friend's partner should be distanced
I have a kid named Xiao Gao who returned to his hometown during the National Day holiday and told me about a fight with a good friend.
Xiao Gao and his girlfriend work in the same company. Xiao Gao is in the marketing department, and his girlfriend and good buddy are in the planning department.
One day, Xiao Gao went out for work and it was already 12 o'clock in the evening when he returned home. I didn’t see my girlfriend at home, so I felt very strange. Where can I go if I don’t go home so late?
While being ready to make a phone call on the balcony, I saw Xiao Gao’s good buddy and his girlfriend get out of the car together.
At that time, Xiao Gao rushed down as soon as his head was hot, and punched and kicked his good friend. His girlfriend blocked her from the side and was pushed to the ground.
I realized that after the fight, Xiao Gao’s girlfriend’s department was also working overtime. It was almost 12 o’clock after working overtime, so Xiao Gao’s buddy sent his girlfriend home.
In the end, Xiao Gao was still a buddy who cut off his friendship.
Friends with friends and friends' companions may be just a bloody plot in the TV series, but it is better not to get along with each other alone in this kind of thing.
"Fire prevention, theft prevention, and best friend (brother)" Although it is ironic, it is not unreasonable .
Some distance between friends should be kept well, while some distances are farther away does not mean that the relationship is bad, but rather that your friendship is purer.
Integrity and money
Xiaoliang and Xiaodong are fellow villagers, junior high school and high school classmates. They have always had a good relationship and often contact each other after graduation.
One day, Xiao Dong and Xiao Liang were chatting on WeChat and wanted to borrow 2,000 yuan from Xiao Liang. The reason is that Xiao Dong Xin recently got a girlfriend and spent a lot of money and wanted to borrow some money to use it urgently.
Xiaoliang felt that Xiao Dong could make a girlfriend, so he was happy for Xiao Dong, so he transferred 2,000 yuan to him. Xiao Dong said that he would pay back the money as soon as he paid the salary.
Several months passed in a blink of an eye, and Xiao Dong did not say that he would take the initiative to repay the money. Xiaoliang was not relieved, and felt that the other party was nervous and did not ask for money.
As the epidemic goes on, Xiaoliang's work is not stable, and his life is gradually getting stressed. I remembered that Xiao Dong still owed him 2,000 yuan, so I mentioned this to him.
Dong Xiao first said that he had no money these two days, and said he would give it to you in two days. But his WeChat Moments show off his life of big fish and meat every day. Later, I kept looking for various excuses and not paying back the money. In the end, even my WeChat friends were blocked.
Once friendship involves money, it often becomes more difficult to deal with. The relationship between people is maintained by integrity. If you break the contract again and again, you will destroy not only your friendship, but also your reputation.
Finally, how many friends can a person truly have in his life? Please cherish this hard-won friendship.
