Speaking of various jokes about Chinese masters circulating in the reading world, there is a master who is very famous for his remarks about "marrying a wife". He said: "If my academic ability is not as good as others, it is really a shame for me for the rest of my life, but if my wife is not as good as others, it doesn't matter. Marrying a wife is a small thing in life, and it's simply impossible to have a small thing. It doesn't matter whether my wife is good or not."
From this sentence, you can see that this Chen Yinke master is a typical person who values academics but not family. He is simply disdainful of the common things like marrying a wife, so he is about to go to "Si Zhang'er", and he is still a bachelor! Can he meet true love if he is so careless about marriage?
Old male young man Find a wife online
The story of Chen Yinke has been specifically said before. He is a famous Chinese master in my country. The academic community's evaluation of him is "the professor among professors" and "there is only one person in three hundred years".
How awesome is he? There is a story about it: When I was in Southwest Associated University , there was a very arrogant professor named Liu Wendian . Every time the Japanese army bombed, he ran faster than anyone else, and even said: I was running for Zhuangzi . When I died, no one talked about Zhuangzi! But if such a madman who cherishes his life meets Chen Yinke on the way to escape, he will immediately shout to the students: It’s nothing if I die, go and protect the national treasures!
Just such a small story is enough to prove Chen Yinke's weight.
Chen Yinke
Of course, the national treasures also make the family tired: because he has never been married. You should know that in any era, rescuing older young people is the top priority of a family. This was even more so during the Republic of China period. I wish I could not get married after the age of 25, which was a traitor. But Chen Yinke is still in his thirties and still hasn't been asking for his wife. How can his family not be in a hurry?
Then how did Chen Yinke become an older single young man? Because he has traveled to Japan to study with his brother Chen Hengke since he was 13 years old. After studying in Japan, he went to Europe and the United States to study. In the more than 20 years of dating with books, he achieved an amazing achievement of "being able to read fourteen words, speaking five foreign languages, and understanding eight languages".
After returning from Germany and teaching at Tsinghua , he never thought about falling in love with others, so he didn't dress very well. He wore a blue cloth gown in summer and autumn, and a gray robe and a blue cloth jacket in winter and spring, and a blue cloth schoolbag under his armpit. Among the professors in Tsinghua University in Suit and Tsinghua, he is also a unique "earthy" landscape.
In fact, we can also see that Chen Yinke was able to study abroad since he was a child, which is inseparable from the support of his family. It can be seen that his parents are very open, but they are still unmarried in their thirties, so the father started to be a little anxious.
But he did not put a lot of pressure on his son like other parents. He just beat and drummed and blew the wind on his son. But Chen Yinke just pretended that he didn't hear it and was happy.
Chen Yinke in his youth
But in a flash, his son was almost forty, and Dad Chen really couldn't sit still. He started to mutter in his son's ear every day, but later it simply turned into a warning and threat: If you kid are careless again, don't blame me for being rude, I will help you get engaged directly!
Chen Yinke was a little uneasy when he heard that his father was angry. After all, the old man was so old that he should not get angry because of this matter. So he repeatedly promised to put this matter on the agenda, but he still asked for some grace.
Poetry and lyrics. The two met for the first time
Although Chen Yinke asked for grace for his father, the object was not something you could meet just as you wanted. Teacher Chen himself was also anxious and became angry. Unexpectedly, a chat with his colleague changed his life.
One day, everyone chatted together. A colleague said, "Hey, I once saw a poem hanging on the wall at a female teacher's house, with the signature at the end "South Zhusheng". Don't you know who this "South Zhusheng" is?"
Chen Yinke said in surprise: "Oh, don't you even know who the 'South Zhusheng' is? He was Tang Jingsong, the chief official who volunteered to resist France during the Sino-French War in ! Could the female teacher you mentioned be a descendant of the Tang family? "
Let's explain here first: Tang Jingsong was a patriotic general in the Qing Dynasty. When the French targeted our southern border, he keenly discovered that if the French occupied Vietnam, then Guangxi would be in danger. For this reason, he gave himself the name "South Zhusheng" to express his concern for southern Xinjiang. Later, he fought side by side with Liu Yongfu and attacked the French army many times. In addition, he was the last governor of Taiwan.
Tang Jingsong
And Chen Yinke read the "Person Diary" written by Tang Jingsong very early and admired this official. Since she was destined to talk about this, Chen Yinke was also interested, so he asked his colleagues to help him contact him, wanting to visit the female teacher.
At the female teacher's home, Chen Yinke finally saw the banner written by Tang Jingsong. More importantly, he also met this female teacher named Tang Yin because of this opportunity. Chen Yinke was not wrong. This girl is Tang Jingsong's granddaughter.
Two flowers bloom each with one branch. Let’s talk about this Ms. Tang. Tang Quan was well-read since childhood, able to read poetry and painting, and able to sing and dance. He was a famous talented woman at that time and could definitely be called the new woman of that era.
Take a photo of her at Beiyang Women's Normal School as an example. Her hairstyle is the most popular hairstyle for hanging front bangs among female students in the early years of the Republic of China. Now you may not think that the bangs hairstyle is very fresh, but at that time, perm had not been introduced, and this bangs hairstyle was very popular.
Tang Yi U
Someone may ask: Ms. Tang has such a high-end and fashionable hairstyle, is she also a female student who returned from studying abroad? That's not! Compared with Chen Yinke, Miss Tang's childhood was much worse: her mother died of dysfunction, and when she was young, she had to leave the Tang family in Guangxi with her adoptive mother, that is, her biological aunt Pan.
Mrs. Pan is a Suzhou . Miss Tang first went to Suzhou, and then went north to Tianjin. Her adoptive mother later worked as a teacher at the Beiyang Women's Normal School in Tianjin, so Xiao Tangquan followed her and became the youngest student in the class.
Talented women finally got married
1 At the end of 1915, Tang Yun, who was less than 18 years old, graduated from Beiyang Women's Normal School. Although she is versatile, her family is in a difficult situation after all, and her adoptive mother’s salary as a teacher is very meager. Tang Yun still has to consider her livelihood first, so she became a teacher in elementary school.
However, she still did not give up on her dream of continuing to study. Now, the opportunity has come - at that time, women's physical education education had become popular, but there were too few female teachers teaching physical education classes. So Tang Quan won a quota for public-funded study. After continuous study, she was finally hired to teach physical education classes at Beijing female high school teachers.
In other words, like Chen Yinke, Tang Yun has been studying and furthering his studies, so he missed the best years of falling in love and getting married, and he is almost 30 years old.
If you say that life is sometimes very strange, you can't find it when you are anxious, but when you look back, the person is in the dim light of . It was because of a colleague's words that Tang Yinke met Chen Yinke.
First time, the two met in Central Park. The careful Miss Tang found that the person who walked over from afar was a little limp.However, Chen Yinke explained it very directly: he said that he had several corns on his feet, which was related to his frequent wear of hard leather shoes that were not suitable for his feet when he was studying abroad in his early years.
If you want to say that these two people are really similar. They are all blank in love, and even their life experience is similar: Chen Yinke's grandfather Chen Baozhen used to serve as the governor of Hunan. Tang Yun's grandfather was the governor of Taiwan. Both of them are descendants of famous families, and they are both simple people with temperament. They have not been infected with the bad habits of children of wealthy families at that time. Together, these two can be said to be a perfect match for talented men and beautiful women.
Chen Yinke took a photo with Tang Quan
Chen Yinke felt that this time he met the woman destined in his life, so in 1928, 38-year-old Chen Yinke and 30-year-old Tang Quan signed a long-lived agreement in Shanghai. Of course, relatives and friends are happy for their union - it is definitely a blessing in the world for talented men and women to finally get married.
How can a wife be so? What does the husband want?
But no one expected that true love is not only sweet, but also hardships. It seems that God is deliberately testing the couple. What have they encountered?
In fact, it was just a trivial matter in life at the beginning. You know, Chen Yinke is a typical scholar, and his entire life is spent on research and knowledge. As for the ability to take care of one's life... you can think of it without me, right?
Can Tang Chuang? Although they are not wealthy, they are still a scholarly family, so naturally they don’t know anything about food, such as food, oil and salt before getting married. But no matter how hard I don’t understand it, it’s better than a nerdy husband who always knocks over the oil lamp.
Chen Yinke
So, after getting married, Tang Yun began to take the initiative to learn to cook, grow flowers, grow vegetables, raise children, and coordinate the interpersonal relationships of the big family. Let me give you an example: because Chen Yinke likes to eat bread, the smart Tang Yun even made a homemade toast stand.
But the problem of waiting for the couple is even more serious.
When Tang Yun gave birth to her eldest daughter, the original cardiacitis caused her to heart disease . The medical conditions at that time were limited, and heart disease was basically a terminal illness, so Tang Yun almost died. After walking through the gates of hell, her health has not been very good.
But who would have thought that in the next few decades, this weak woman would have held up the burden of the family.
1937, the Japanese invaders launched a full-scale war of aggression against China. At that time, Tsinghua University , Peking University and Nankai University first retreated to Changsha, and then retreated south to Kunming, establishing Southwest United University . Chen Yinke's family also traveled all over the country and finally came to Hong Kong.
Later, Chen Yinke went to Kunming to teach. Tang Yun was in poor health and could not go there together. He had to stay in Hong Kong with his three young daughters alone. The couple was separated for a long time.
Chen Yinke's family
940 summer vacation, Chen Yinke went to Hong Kong to visit relatives and wanted to wait for an opportunity to rush to the UK to teach at Oxford University . Because of this, the couple can end the separation of the two places. But unexpectedly, the European war at that time caused Mediterranean to be unable to be navigated, so Chen Yinke had to temporarily stay in Kowloon and served as a visiting professor at University of Hong Kong .
Unexpectedly, after just a few days of peace, in December 1941, the Japanese army launched the Pacific War , and Hong Kong also fell. When the Japanese knew Chen Yinke's reputation, they took out 400,000 yen and forced him to run the "Oriental Cultural Academy".
Chen Yinke certainly could not agree, but his wife and children were in Hong Kong, and he could not be a literate person, so he could only leave thirty-six strategies. In the end, he fled Hong Kong with his whole family. He taught at Guangxi University and Chengdu Yenching University.
However, the unlucky thing is not over. First, Ms. Tang's heart disease relapsed while in Hong Kong. Later, she contracted dysentery on the way from Guilin to Chengdu. It took more than a month to recover. The displaced and hard work in the war environment made Chen Yinke's eyes unable to bear it.
From 1945, Chen Yinke was blind due to retinal detachment. In September of the same year, he invited him to the UK for treatment at the Royal Society of England. A first-class British ophthalmologist performed two diathermal therapy on his retina, but it still had no effect. He could only make the blurry outline of the object that could be seen in bright places.
You should know that for a person who is engaged in learning and loves books as much as his life, invisible means life is worse than death. Tang Yun was also very uncomfortable when he watched her husband live in pain every day. Although she was also sick, she released all the tenderness of women to considerate and comfort her husband. She carefully took care of Chen Yinke's diet, daily life and housework every day, and also checked information for him, recited newspapers and letters, and undertaked reply to all letters in the family.
Many of Chen Yinke's poems were recorded by Tang Dynasty. One year, the assistant left without saying goodbye. Chen Yinke was unable to attend class, so Tang Quan resolutely picked up the textbook and walked to the forum as her husband's assistant.
What else does the husband want to do if he gets like this? Chen Yinke also regarded Tang Yin as his first confidant in life. Every time he completed a book, he would ask her to write the cover.
For a period of time, in order to increase nutrition to the weak Chen Yinke, Tang Yun bought a pregnant black goat . After the ewe gave birth to the lamb, she learned to milk. Every morning, she first tied the ewe to the pillar, washed the ewe nipples, then half-squatted down, fixed the bowl to the ground, and then gently squeezed goat milk with both hands. With her physical condition, every time she squeezes a bowl of goat milk, she will feel dizzy.
Even so, Tang Yun always insisted on managing their small home seriously in troubled times. When the war was in full swing, they moved countless times, but as long as they could take a breath, she would imitate the "Apartment No. 52" where they originally lived and decorate the temporary home extremely warmly. She will use cypress to build a fence, plant two vines, plant some fruits and melons under the fence, order two rows of lentils , and build a simple morning glory stand.
On the 28th anniversary of the marriage, Chen Yinke gave his wife a poem: "Dreams and 28 autumns, and joy and sorrow. The dwarf Fang Shuo said that he would make up with white hair with a smile. "
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""mid the fourth-class love written in his life
After the liberation, because Chen Yinke has been at the forefront of various sports, Tang Yin once again stretched out his thin arms to protect this stormy home. All the explanations of Chen Yinke were written by Tang Quan, and she empathized with all the pain of her husband.
In order not to let him collapse, Tang Yun tried his best to win a breathing space for her husband with extraordinary optimism. Every time Chen Yinke celebrates her birthday, Tang Quan would write a poem. There was no melancholy in the poem, only a light wind and clouds. She would look for various opportunities to present the happiness and beauty of life to her husband.
With her care and spiritual support in life, Chen Yinke will rely on his superhuman perseverance to complete the 800,000-word writings of " Liu Rushi's Breakthrough " in the twilight years.
1962, Chen Yinke slipped in the bathtub at home while washing up, broke his right leg femur. He was hospitalized for nearly 7 months, but his bones still could not be combined. Since then, he has to stay in bed for a long time. At that time, Sun Yat-sen University equipped him with three nurses for nursing. However, after the turbulent period began, the nurse also left, and Tang Feng could only drag his sick body and do his best to take care of his bedridden husband.
On October 7, 1969, Chen Yinke passed away due to various diseases.Tang Yun did not cry. After she took care of Chen Yinke's funeral, she also carefully arranged her funeral. Just 45 days later, this new woman with both moral integrity and talent also came to the end of her life.
Some people say she is in a bad mood and has a heart disease relapse. Some people also say that she has spent most of her life relying on medicine to maintain her life. After her husband left, she had nothing to ask for. As long as she stopped the medicine for more than ten days, her life could end easily. In any case, this couple really achieved the mutual retention of life and death.
Chen Yinke and his wife Tang Yuan’s Tomb
919, Chen Yinke once explained his "five-level love theory" to his friends at Harvard : "In my opinion, love is divided into five levels: First, the highest love is like Du Liniang in "Peony Pavilion ", facing her dream lover, she is willing to sacrifice her life for her! Well... there are probably no such people in this world. Second, it is like Jia Baoyu and The spiritual love like Lin Daiyu . Third, it is the love that once pillowed with the same bed and never forgotten, just like the love between Siqi and Pan Youan in Dream of Red Mansions. Fourth, it is to become a couple, live a simple life, but the couple respects and loves each other, without any affair. Fifth, the lowest level is love that only for desires and no feelings."
If we follow this statement, his relationship with Tang Yun can only be considered a fourth-class love--este and loves each other, without affair, but this so-called "four-class love" is written by them throughout their lives, and is magnificent and superior to countless people in the world.
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