says that language is emotional, can give people warmth and hurt people.
is indeed, when face-to-face communication is impossible, language is the best way to express a person's true emotions. It can not only promote the relationship between two people, but also destroy a relationship.
Because of the intention, the effortlessness is in vain; because of the intention, the effortlessness is in vain; because of the true fear of being unintentional, the infatuation is afraid of being unkind.
No matter how sincere the heart is, someone should cherish it, and no matter how strong the love is, someone should interact.
If you like someone, you will lose the word on WeChat. Try not to reply like this when chatting on WeChat.
1. A "Yeah, oh, okay", the coldest
The coldest thing about the opposite sex before the relationship is probably that you share with each other passionately, and he has always responded with "Oh", "Yeah", "OK", and "OK", and a word blocks all you want to say.
"Oh", "Yeah", "Okay", it is perfunctory, it is refusing to communicate, it is not wanting to talk to you, it is boring to you, so I don't even want to add one more word to become a repetition.
When facing people you like, if you don’t know what to say in a chat, you will say “good”, “yes”, “yes”, “I know”. When facing people you don’t like, you will speak coldly and cherish words like gold, but it hurts people more than sharp swords.
Every time I reply, I will deduct one point in my heart until I get negative points. No matter how much I like the other person, I will not take the initiative or find topics to answer, so I will slowly neglect this relationship.
If the other person likes you, he will never reply to you in one word, because everyone in this world understands how complicated and uncomfortable you feel when you receive "um", "oh", and "good".
When you really let go of someone completely, you don’t cry loudly, lose your temper at the other party, and you don’t ask why the other party is so cold.
But when you want to know and get close to you day and night, you have a "oh, um, okay" response. Every time, it is a cold feeling that no matter how enthusiastic the fire is, it cannot burn the heart of an ice cellar.
2. A one-man show, sooner or later, you will get tired after acting for a long time
The most hurtful thing in love is that you want to be good to the other person wholeheartedly, and you will give your heart to the other person, and you will get a cold response.
You keep it in your heart, asking about your well-being every day, but the other party never takes you seriously. The message is replied every few days, and each reply is like a verbatim fee, very few.
You slightly act like you want to promote this relationship, sublimate the relationship, and invite the other person to have dinner, travel or watch movies. The other person either says he is busy or says he is not fun. It seems that nothing you do is right, but in the end he becomes a one-man show.
You look for new and interesting things to share with him every day and ask him for advice. He always loves to reply but ignores him.
What crushed yourself to stop contacting in the end was not those sudden trivial things, but the perfunctory things that seemed not worth mentioning in your heart.
Love is not a one-man show, but a rivalry between two people. Only when two attractive people come and go can the attractiveness of this show be deepened.
3. When the other party replied "Yeah, oh, okay", reply
like this. If you are unwilling to give up, if you want to try again, when the other party replied you "Yeah, oh, okay", you can try to respond like this: "What I like always say to me, what should I do if you say I'm going to do?"
If the other party replied "You ask yourself", "How do I understand" or "Oh", it proves that the other party is not interested in you, please let go decisively.
Anyone who likes you a little bit will understand what you mean.
For people who have no feelings for you, no matter how much they like you, no longer disturb you, and no longer please you even if you still want to get close to you.
Others don’t need you. You must learn to regain your enthusiasm and leave politely, but you cannot pick up your phone, send messages you shouldn’t send, and make calls you shouldn’t.
No matter how much you like others, you don’t need to be redundant. If you pursue it hard, you don’t regret it. There is a saying that goes, “It’s impolite to love it anymore.” You can’t be humble and you can’t be humble and it’s hard for others.
