Abstract and love have always been the themes of artistic creation, especially literary creation. Therefore, there are so many literati and poets who write about the fanaticism and sorrow of being trapped by love and being fascinated by love.
Xu Zhimo said: "At least once in my life, I forgot myself for someone, not seeking results, not seeking companions, not seeking to have, not seeking to have, not seeking to have, not even asking you to love me, but only asking to meet you in my most beautiful years."
If everyone is like this, in the most beautiful years and encountering the most beautiful love, then don't say, then what kind of sadness is there in this world? When the eyes meet, life and death will abide by. How can I regret this life? It is precisely because the word "regret" comes out that the infatuated men and women in this world stand next to the love threshold, feeling miserable and miserable.
This is what the poison of love, what the poison of love is confusing, everything cannot be achieved by itself. It is precisely because it cannot be controlled, it is beautiful; and because it cannot be predicted, it makes people think about it and go crazy about it. Although it is not air, sunshine, or a necessity of life, it is quite like the gorgeous fireworks in the night sky, dazzling.
can be said that everyone in this world wants to see the last time. It is everyone's wish to see the blooming of love fireworks, but the premise is that not everyone can see it. Because the word love is unreasonable and cannot be followed, it means that you have tried your best to do everything you want, and the other person has no intention, it is not yours, and you will never be destined.
Many people think that love, once you meet it, try to strive for it. It is understandable to work hard, but it does not mean that this kind of effort will definitely have results. If there is reason in "love" and can clearly set a bottom line for your own efforts, retreat when the efforts are fruitless and find another way, that is of course the best.
Unfortunately, this is nonsense. What can be controlled is not "love is just a kind of madness". Since it is called "crazy", it is controlled by unbearable thinking. The depth of the poisoning is heartbreaking. I can't wake up or call it out, and I'm confused.
Anyone who can understand rationally and clearly - if you work hard to the limit and still have no results, you will be relieved, especially feelings and marriage, such things that cannot be determined by one person. How great it would be, then there is no need to be sad about spring and autumn.
is precisely because you don’t know how to stop, so if you are too much, you will be asking for damage to yourself. If you are a person, you are afraid of being sad. If you always have one thought in your heart and have to get it, it will become another kind of obsession. If you hit the wall and don’t look back, it will be troublesome. Not only do you have scars, but you also have an unbearable burden on the other party.
If you hate you, you will kill you; if you love you, you will die for you. Although this extremely strong emotion can create a romantic atmosphere, how many people in this world can survive this love that can bury one's own love?
Of course, everyone will stick to something, and even if others think it is a waste of time, it is very important to this person. The importance is reality. If a person tries to control and change others in the name of love, this kind of love will become distorted.
This is not the true meaning of love. If you love others, you love them regardless of your care. You don’t give the person you love the right to choose, and you just want to have it selfishly. How can this be love? This is a dog skin plaster. Naturally, love, love is crazy possession and exclusivity. Apart from this, nothing else is probably worthy of being labeled as love.
But the problem is, this requires two-way rushing. If the love comes from wherever it goes, and the relationship between each other is destined. If it is a one-man show from beginning to end, what's the point of being a self-acted person? It’s better to just give up and keep a place to wait in your heart. Learn to fulfill what you can’t have.
As for the waiting itself, it is love, I don’t know, but it’s better than hurting yourself for it. It is natural to get it, but if you can't get it, it is also good to bless each other for a lifetime. Everyone hopes that a pair of people can live a lifetime and grow old together for a thousand years. If everyone does this, then the four words "love but not get it" may be quit.
Therefore, fate gathers and disperses, and cannot be forced. If you are too forced, it will only disturb your heart, and even if you are by your side, you will not be happy. Because no matter how humble you are, how you keep your life, how you don’t take it seriously, one day you will be scattered in the crowd.
So, don’t or ignore your true feelings, get stuck in an irrational love, and finally torture yourself to exhaustion before getting out of your way. It’s better to throw away non-love and never let it take root in your heart. Otherwise, people will go crazy when they are alive.
