Many people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too difficult, and I feel it deeply. In recent years, our relationship has become worse and worse. However, my husband later made a move and our relationship became better.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, and conflicts are frequent
My husband is a career crazy and he is almost inseparable from home. After giving birth, it is better to say that it is living with my mother-in-law than living with my husband. Our family hired hourly work to do housework, and my mother-in-law was responsible for taking care of the children. But every day after get off work, my mother-in-law immediately threw the baby to me and said that her waist was sore. Over time, I felt that my mother-in-law pretended on purpose.
Every time I buy online, she will also say something. We are so stinky at home. When she was videotaping with my husband, she always complained: "It's too tiring to take care of the baby, and it hurts everywhere." Every winter, she would go back to her hometown for a while, saying that she had a back pain and could not take care of her baby.
Show the world to relieve pain, there are many changes
However, the situation this year is a little different. After the cooling down, she didn't go back to her hometown, nor did she say she was so painful and tired, and she was in a good mood. One day my husband came back from a business trip. I asked carefully and found out that it was my husband who took her to do artificial intelligence physiotherapy in my name.
He said, "I told my mother that you asked me to take her there. The store is called Xiuyu . It is the official sponsor of the Chinese women's basketball team. There is one nearby."
So, I took advantage of my mother-in-law's mood and chatted with her. She said she was doing Xiuyu dot matrix wave Xiaotong robot and Xiuyu Super V thermal therapy. "Xiaotong's massage speed is very fast. The health consultant said that it can be pressed 15,000 times per hour. If it is manual massaged for 12 hours, it cannot be completed. It is not only fast, but also accurate, pressing my waist very thoroughly. It is also very strong from beginning to end, and it will not be heavy or light. Thermal therapy is like moxibustion, which is hot, not only the epidermis, but also the body is also hot. I went for 5 times, and my waist has been warm recently. Not only does it hurt, but my whole body is relaxed."
After a deep chat, I realized that her lumbar muscle was strained for many years, and she was really sore and not like to complain. She said, "My wife, thanks to your pain relief, otherwise my old waist will be like an injection in winter, which is too difficult." I suddenly felt a little ashamed. After all, when my mother-in-law took care of her children, I only paid attention to her complaining, but didn't notice that she was helping with the pain in her waist.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law reconciled, surprises were repeated
Now, mother-in-law goes to Xiuyu for physical therapy every weekend. As her body improves, our family atmosphere becomes more and more harmonious. Not only did she take care of her children, she also became less talkative, and occasionally cooked a few good dishes.
I will take her to the mall when I have time. Recently, I bought her a lot of new clothes and jewelry for her for a big promotion, but she was so happy! What surprised me was that my husband became home often. He said: "I used to feel stuck in the middle at home, but now it's much easier." Moreover, I obviously feel that the child has become laughing. It seems that a good family atmosphere is too important!
shows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a compulsory course for family happiness. Give each other more effort and fewer requirements; give each other more greetings and fewer complaints; give you more care and less blame, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become better and more harmonious.
