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Women often ask men whether they love themselves. Most men answer yes, but women still ask endlessly.
Because women are insecure, they ask over and over again until they find the desired result.
The reason is that men don’t give enough love and are not obvious enough, otherwise women will not be so worried about gains and losses.
Just as Zhang Xiaoxian said: What women want is very simple, nothing more than a lot of love and a lot of security.
This is actually what most women pursue in their relationship. If a man can give her a lot of love and can help her find a sense of security and belonging, then she will definitely be devoted.
Women want to get the love of men, but they don’t understand what the love of men is like.
Some women think that if a man is willing to spend money on himself, he must love himself, right?
Some women also think that men will marry themselves after saying that they will promise themselves a lot about the future, and this is what they really love themselves.
However, the fact is that men’s love is roughly divided into these three types, and the last one is true love.
"Heart-moving" when I first met
Many people like the movie " Heart-moving ", and they feel that they are confused and heart-moving.
The beauty of first love is roughly like in the movie, green and beautiful. Think back to the throbbing and the little mood I felt when I first fell in love were the degree to which I would laugh when I recalled it.
A man’s love comes from his heart at the beginning. The feeling is wonderful, but it cannot be said with words.
If you are just in love or are having an ambiguous relationship and have these manifestations, it means that he likes you.
First of all, when he sees you, he will run towards you with a smile and then hold your hand.
or when you are playing outside together, he is not immersed in his own world, but is always taking care of your emotions and frequently looking back to see you.
Or, you can make him laugh with just one word, and you will think you are cute when you look at you.
Anyway, you can’t help laughing when you see you. Some of your small changes will make him excited, such as wearing light makeup for the first time, wearing a skirt, etc. These are all manifestations of his heartbeat.
At this stage, although the relationship between each other is not very deep, they get along very well and full of novelty.
The freshness in shallow places
Why do most loves talk very well at the beginning, but conflicts and problems will break out in the later stage?
It is because the freshness gradually disappears and gradually loses its attractiveness. There are no filters for the partner, so the flaws seen become no longer tolerant and will often remain unpleasant.
However, the freshness of getting along is not that deep, and it will still be particularly interesting to recall, and it will feel beautiful when you think about it.
When the freshness is still there, even if you just watch a movie with the other person, you will find it very interesting.
Every time I try it, I feel full of freshness. Even those clichés, as long as I talk to someone I like, I will find it particularly interesting.
In fact, falling in love is nothing more than just a few things. In addition to watching movies, having dinners, walking together, shopping together, and chatting together.
In addition to these, it is very clichéd and uninnovative.
But at that time I just thought it was very interesting and energetic, and doing these things with my lover would be particularly happy.
This is just because there is still a sense of freshness between two people, and even if you do those boring things together, it will be very interesting.
This freshness is an effective way to maintain the passion of two people, so when this freshness still exists, he will definitely love you.
There is no doubt about this. When you wear out the freshness, if he is still by your side and treats you as before, it means that you are really in love.
Never tires of attachment
There is a saying that goes like this: The real freshness is to do new things with old people, not old things with new people.
True love can withstand the erosion of time, and will not be easily defeated, nor will it be no longer interested because of time.
Even if the initial heartbeat and freshness are erased, it should be replaced by nostalgia and responsibility. You will feel that the other person's status is irreplaceable. If that person is there, you will feel very at ease.
So, true love is not a feeling, but a kind of persistence. Even if there are better and more beautiful people around you, your eyes can stay, but your heart will always be on you.
If a man really loves you, he will learn to restrain himself. Even when facing temptation, he can firmly say "no". You are there or not, both of you are the same, not just doing superficial work.
Many couples have talked for a long time, but they actually have no new feeling. Maybe they are just playing with their phones while sitting together.
But this cannot deny the relationship between two people. As long as you feel that you cannot live without each other, you are the most suitable choice for each other. In fact, this is love.
If your boyfriend is not tempted when facing a better choice, but considers the relationship between you, it means that he loves you.
After all, people go to a higher level. This is human nature. What can make them suppress human nature is nothing more than nostalgia for you.
Time and Emotional Class:
Men's love is roughly divided into three stages. The first is the heartbeat, full of expectations for you; the second is the stage where freshness remains, and you will like to experience the feeling of doing things with you; the third stage is the time when the freshness disappears, but you miss each other. Among the three stages of
, the third stage is when a man loves you the most.
In fact, a man’s relationship has always been a gradual process. When he first met, he was indeed moved by you, but this kind of heartbeat is not irreplaceable.
Until the process of getting along with each other day and getting to know each other in depth, gradually deepen your feelings for you, from liking to deep love.
When you reach the third stage, you can really change the current relationship and enter marriage.
