Most extramarital affairs can last. In fact, it is not that the mistress is so powerful, but that the cheating man does not want to end.
After the extramarital affair was discovered, the man who decided to go to the extramarital affair was also a cheating man.
The reason why many original wives cannot solve extramarital affair is because the direction is wrong.
thinks that mistress is the key to solving extramarital affair. He is busy tearing the mistress, but ignores the cheating man.
A cheating man wants to make trouble, and many original partners are neglected to be guarded, and they will be plotted against by the cheating man.
For example, this is the case of an extramarital affair that Blue Party handled in the last time.
The original wife Ms. Zhou came to Lan Fang for help and said that she was plotted against by her husband.
Ms. Zhou and her husband have been married for eleven years. The two were originally just ordinary classmates. After graduating from college, they started their own businesses together. Ms. Zhou’s family conditions were compared and she received most of the funds.
Her husband produces technology and the company's profit share, Ms. Zhou is more than her husband.
Because Ms. Zhou’s home is in the local business, she has more connections.
Her husband is very capable and won many awards in college. Although the two of them have experienced a period of difficult times.
But in the end the business started, and the two of them also developed feelings for each other in the process of supporting each other. Behind
is love, marriage and having children, and every step goes smoothly.
Marriage After Zhou Ms. did not retreat to the second line, and the child took care of her mother and hired a nanny.
She focused on continuing to expand the company with her husband, and even during the epidemic, she was not affected too much.
The two of them are inseparable all day long, and Ms. Zhou feels that the relationship between husband and wife should be better.
Her husband will not have the chance to cheat, and he is more at ease with her husband.
Many original partners don’t understand one thing. If a man wants to come out, you can’t defend himself.
Ms. Zhou’s husband cheated on a female college student, just under Ms. Zhou’s nose. After cheating, the man cheated on Ms. Zhou and was planning for divorce.
Last year, Ms. Zhou’s husband began to mention the need to have a second child.
said that two children can have some support, but Ms. Zhou was not willing to do so at first.
feels it is unnecessary. She is just an only child and doesn’t feel that there is anything to rely on.
But her husband kept persuading her, and she began to shake her, and the two began to prepare for pregnancy.
Ms. Zhou was pregnant a lot, and the man cheated on her and said if Ms. Zhou was busy with the company and was too tired.
also took Ms. Zhou to see a private doctor, but the doctor also said Ms. Zhou was too busy.
The body needs to be recuperated before it can get pregnant with a second child. It is recommended that Ms. Zhou give up her work if she wants to have a baby.
Ms. Zhou was unwilling to do it at first, but later she chose to compromise, got out of work, and began to prepare for pregnancy with peace of mind.
But until a few years, she still didn't get pregnant, and she began to feel a little depressed.
did not tell his husband, but went to see a doctor again. The doctor said that she was in good health and was not difficult to get pregnant.
She began to worry again whether it was her husband's problem, but she couldn't directly tell her husband that she was suspicious of her husband.
So I made an appointment for a physical examination first, and then took her husband to check it out. Her husband did not know it. The results of the
result shocked her. Her husband had birth control, which was the real reason why she was not pregnant.
Ms. Zhou is also very smart. She did not directly question her husband, nor even told him the true situation of her husband's examination.
instead began to observe her husband, and she wanted to figure out why her husband did this.
Actually, at this time, she suspected that her husband had someone outside.
The third party is still in the company and uses the excuse of having a second child to get her from the company to her home.
is to facilitate the cheating man and mistress to develop extramarital affair, so he specializes in the women in the company.
resulted in nothing. It was at this time that Ms. Zhou came to the Blue Party for help and asked me to help her analyze whether she had cheated and who the mistress was.
According to what Ms. Zhou said, Lan Fang also believes that this man cheated on him.
But the mistress is not necessarily in the company. Ms. Zhou didn’t find it better if it wasn’t a mistress hidden,
but because the mistress is not these people at all. The Blue Party suggested that Ms. Zhou follow the cheating man for a while.
shifted his eyes from the women in the company to the cheating man.
Check out those places the cheating men go to every day and whether they have contacted other women.
Because the man cheated on me didn't know that Ms. Zhou had already suspected it, so he would naturally go to see the mistress as usual.
So Ms. Zhou followed her for a few days and found a mistress, a college student.
The man cheated on him bought an apartment near the school for his mistress to facilitate the two of them to cheat.
After Ms. Zhou caught the mistress, she immediately wanted to tear the mistress and cheat on the man.
Blue side immediately stopped her, and Blue side suggested that she not alert the enemy.
Compared to tearing the mistress and cheating man, Lan Fang suggested that Ms. Zhou check the company's various accounts first.
The mistress is not an insider of the company. Why did the cheating man get Ms. Zhou out of the company?
is not for the convenience of his cheating, but obviously it is for Ms. Zhou to be away from the company, so that he can make money and seize power.
And from the point of cheating man birth control, he doesn't want to have a second child with Ms. Zhou, so he must have a divorce plan.
He is going to get a divorce, and his most worrying is definitely the property issue, which further proves that
He uses the excuse of second child to prevent Ms. Zhou from going to the company for money and the company.
So Ms. Zhou needs to first grasp the key points and see if the cheating man has transferred his property and the purpose of attacking the company.
Facts prove that Blue's analysis is correct, and the company was also done by Ms. Zhou.
All Ms. Zhou collected evidence, checked accounts, and secretly tried to persuade the company, and did nothing.
even spent money to find someone to photograph evidence of a cheating man and a mistress cheating. After finishing
, I went to show off with the cheating man, and the cheating man wanted to argue.
After seeing the big evidence, I naturally couldn't say anything. I started saying that I was confused and asked for forgiveness.
The advice given to Ms. Zhou was to divorce first, and the cheating man could transfer his property, and he could pay less or not.
Ms. Zhou can turn her property into her personal property through divorce. If the cheating man really repents, Ms. Zhou really can't bear to leave this marriage, she can remarry in the future. The property is guaranteed so that she will not be plotted against the cheating man again.
Finally, Lan Fang wanted to say that the calculation of cheating men is much more terrifying than the mistress.
A cheating man plots for his original wife, and he is always looking for his original wife's weaknesses. He takes ruthless measures to make the original wife lose both his own wealth.
So after being cheated, the original partners should not only tear up the mistress, but also pay attention to their partner. Don’t be plotted against it and don’t know it.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
