Some people say that the appearance before the age of 30 is given by their parents, and the appearance after the age of 30 is given by themselves.
A person's face is hidden ·% of all the roads she has walked and all the joys and sorrows she has passed. There are % of the books she has read and loved.
The beauty or not of on a person's face reflects whether is happy or not. A woman is lucky or not is written on her face. Bad men will destroy your anger, and the heavy weight of life will make you grow old quickly.
There is also an idiom "appearance is born from the heart". That is, a person's appearance will be affected by her personality.
I still remember the years when I first came to Shijiazhuang, I rented a house in Zhentou Village. The landlord was a woman in her forties and fifties, but her face was full of vicissitudes, was dressed in disheveled clothes, and there was no trace of light in her eyes. You can tell at a glance that she is not happy.
Sure enough, after living for a long time, I vaguely realized that her husband cheated on him and was not at home for many years, and he was just consuming things like that. The children are all working and going to school in other places and rarely come back. She lives on the third floor and rents them on the first and second floors. The rent is enough to make her not worry about food and clothing. But her eyes were like dead fish's eyes, without any slight agility, and her face was filled with sadness. Never saw her laughing. Her misfortune is written on her face.
After many years, I still remember her face, a face full of vicissitudes and misfortune.
I think that several years ago, she was also the pearl in her parents' hands and was once the support of her children, but I don't know when it started, but her body became lifeless, just like the Xianglin Sao described by Mr. Lu Xun, "The eyeballs may be a round, indicating that she is still a living creature." It is like a dry rose, although it is not dead, but it is slowly withering. No more uselessness.
I hope each of us can be a person with clear heart and bright eyes. Even if life is given to me, I will live up to myself. Life is slow, cherish it when you go.
