I haven't seen you for a long time, old classmate, are you okay?
went to the party for the 25th anniversary of junior high school classmates with anticipation. It’s not that I’m particularly sociable, but I want to see if everyone is doing well.
Life is like a passerby. At that time, a group of young men and girls who walked out of the countryside became old aunts and uncles in a flash, and some people also rose to the seniority of grandparents.
On the day we walked out of the school gate, we were all on the same starting line, but after many years, some people went further and further, some people walked backwards, and some people stood still.
Destiny seems to be teasing us, and it seems to give us hope.
As the poet Gu Cheng wrote: "Fate is not the wind, blowing back and forth, destiny is the earth, you are in destiny wherever you go."
remembered a rule of life called "three or seven points". Usually, eating 70% full, making porridge and water... This theory is also the best way to use it in destiny.
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Three-point appearance and seven-point dress.
classmate Xiaomei is helping people with storage and beauty work.
When we went to school, we all laughed at her: "Slug."
A teenage girl, who looks 1.5 meters tall, often has snot on her face. This is not the image a girl should have.
But now she stands out. Short, but "concentration is the essence".
Speaking of the process of work, Xiaomei is very flirting and she has a good attitude towards aesthetics. What kind of shoes should be matched with what kind of clothes, what kind of clothes should be worn in what season, how to put on makeup according to weather changes, these principles are all her strengths.
There is a saying in " Break Le Li ": "If you can just do whatever you want, others will treat you with a casual attitude."
When you take your appearance seriously, you will find that you are more confident. The sunny appearance will make the people around you favor and trust you.
The reason why you are old-fashioned is that you never dress up. I don't care on the outside, and I don't have wisdom in my mind. The taste of "old-down" is obvious as soon as you open your mouth.
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Three points of luck and seven points of hard work.
Graduated from junior high school and is now a teacher from a vocational school. I guess you and I will be surprised by such a gorgeous turn.
classmate Lao Li did it. He went to Dongguan for two years and met a very friendly supervisor. Supervisor
founded a skills training class, and Lao Li resigned decisively and started the learning mode. Two years later, Lao Li appeared in the training class as a teacher.
Rather than saying that Lao Li met a noble person, he became rich himself.
In the soil, bamboo shoots have gone from scratch, and have gone through four or five years, and can only grow a few centimeters.
In the spring of the fifth year, bamboo began to break the ground and could grow more than one meter in a day.
Many people attend the party, but they envy their classmates who are doing well, or say some hateful words, thinking that their classmates are showing off themselves. You turn a blind eye to what they did and how much sweat they shed where you can’t see.
Yishu wrote in " Round Dance ": "Ten years of hard work, ten years of hard work, and full of luck, can you have a career. Don't take things too easily. Most people can only have a career, borrow it for life, and work hard for a lifetime. How many people dare to say that his job is a career?"
You only have one career, how can you compare to someone else's career?
The difference of one word reflects the huge difference in fate. Work harder and do a career, and you will find that when you work hard to a certain extent, good luck will come.
Even if you are gold, you have to polish it. Others don’t have much time and energy to look for you in the black soil.
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Three points to plan the situation and seven points to plan the matter.
The experience of classmates is very regular. Ten years after graduation, he worked in an electronics factory in Shenzhen; in the second decade, he planted and raised in his hometown. Now, he is the farmer.
Judging from Lao Zhang’s experience, I think of an archaeologist Heinrich Schriman .Since he was a teenager, he has been planning to dig out kingdoms such as Troy. But the funds were insufficient at that time.
hide your ideals, then start doing business, and make yourself a rich man. With money in hand, the work of archaeology and officially began.
Take one step at a time and look at one step at a time and look at three steps, you are the wise.
After leaving campus, many people were confused, so they only knew how to "go to work". Go wherever you have money, and you don’t consider the issue of settling down and starting a business.
A smart person sets his goals from the beginning, and every few years, there will be a qualitative leap.
plan the situation first and then do things. Life will not be messy. Therefore, every step is effective, and by the time we reach our forties and fifties, we have surpassed a large number of people.
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Three points rely on family and seven points rely on yourself.
There is a retired person who received a gift from his colleague - a bird cage.
Retired people don’t like birds, so they leave the bird cage at home at will. Every day, guests ask if the birds in the bird cage are dead? The
problem is unlucky.
Retired people had to raise a bird to block the mouth of the guest.
In fact, there are many options for bird cages: throw them away, give them to those in need, return them to those who give them, and hide them. But the retired person did not do this and was trapped in a bird cage.
In fact, our original family is the "bird cage" of fate. If you still rely on your parents’ money after leaving school and hope that your parents will guide you, you will be destined to not go far, at best, you have followed the old path of your parents.
There are always some classmates who live like a jingle when they are in their parents, but when they are in their own generation, they are rich. This is the result of "relying on oneself".
Son inherits his father's business, not the best fate. Only by doing what you like and getting rid of the troubles of your original family will you fly freely.
There are more than a dozen students in the class who settled their homes in the county town, and five students settled their homes in the provincial capital or Guangzhou and Shenzhen. Students who can keep wandering may not be doing well, but their destiny is firmly in their hands, which is another kind of success.
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The gap between people is in the "Three Seven Theory". People who can completely transform themselves can dress up, read, rely on themselves, and make far-sighted.
The twenty-five years after leaving the school gate are the golden period that changes destiny, and it will slowly end.
If you are really troubled by fate, don’t be confident. You have to go through a few times before you know how powerful you are.
years old, I know pine and cypress , and I will see the true knowledge over time.
: Grasp the time, just grab the straw that saves life.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
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