Wang Xiaoyi told the mediator that the two brothers had separated, but his father-in-law was dealing with his wife behind his back, which made him feel very angry. The father-in-law said that he was asking her to discuss with you. Wang When Xiaoyi heard this, he immediately became angry and raised his hand to point at his father-in-law and cursed, "Shut up and say that he was so angry that he wanted to go up and beat his father-in-law ...
What's going on? What conflict does Wang Xiaoyi have with his father-in-law? Why do you dare to beat your father-in-law in front of reporters with such great resentment towards him?
All of this starts with the help of Wang Xiaoyi's wife Meng Ge. When she saw the mediator, Meng Ge said aggrievedly, The husband is working outside, but the two elder sisters beat him up when they came to their homes. The mediator asked if he was injured at that time? Meng Ge said no, but the two elder sisters and sisters are much older than her. After her husband came back, he not only did not make decisions for him, but also wanted to divorce. Meng Ge said a little sad at this time that her husband would not support him every time.
The mediator was surprised when he heard this, but Meng Ge told the mediator that it has been like this since she got married. Every time he quarreled, he would defend his parents. Every time he was wrong, he forced himself to apologize, because he felt that he was nothing wrong and he was not sorry for anyone. Every time his two elder sisters came back, they said that they were angry with their parents-in-law, and they didn't know where they were angry with their parents-in-law.
mediator asked, what do you want them to do, so that you will feel a little better. Meng Ge said, "What do you want to ask them?" They will be satisfied if they do it themselves. What is the reason why the two of them fell in love freely? In less than five years, they will reach this point?
Back to Meng Ge Po’s house, the mediator asked about the reason for being angry that day. Meng Ge said that she was washing clothes that day, and the child cried twice. Meng Ge said whose child was not crying. As a result, her father-in-law came to criticize her. She replied a few times at that time, but she didn’t say anything ugly. As a result, the second aunt passed in a short while and pointed at herself and cursed . Why did her parents feel sorry for her? She asked Meng Ge why she often angered her in-laws, and more than that, the second aunt also ran to her parents’ house to make trouble.
Even though the trouble reached this point, the matter had not stopped. That night, her husband who was working in Fujian knew about it. Wang Xiaoyi said that his parents called him that night and said he wanted to move out. Wang Xiaoyi said that he would persuade him to do so. If his parents moved out, it would be like something, it would be like being driven out by his and his wife.
Meng Ge said that she got up a little late the next day and didn't know what was going on. Her husband was already taking the high-speed rail to come back. Her two aunts wanted to take their parents-in-law to live outside. She said at that time that it was the turn of two married girls to take care of the family affairs. As a result, they both pressed and beat me. Wang Xiaoyi said that she had come back at one or two in the afternoon and felt that she had no shame to see her parents.
mediator felt that although Meng Ge was wronged in this matter, there were problems with his way of speaking, so he criticized that both his daughter and his son had the right to speak. What rights did you have to prevent your elder sister from coming here to speak? Meng Ge said that there was actually one thing that he didn't want his parents-in-law to move out. The mediator said that you knew you had this intention, but think about it, if your sister-in-law wanted to drive your parents-in-law out to live, what would your heart feel? Of course, it would be wrong for your sister-in-law to take action. They were angry because of you saying this. Meng Ge said that she would never say such things again.
The mediator asked her husband how to deal with this matter at that time. Wang Xiaoyi said that it could be said that it was not resolved at the beginning. The mediator asked him, is it right that his sister beat his wife? Wang Xiaoyi said, "No, did you have the will to hold your wife up?" So many are right? Wang Xiaoyi said one after another that he did something wrong when he didn't hold up this sky, but the adjuster asked him to apologize to his wife, but he did not apologize.
With the criticism of the mediator, Wang Xiaoyi suddenly became very excited, saying that his sister was very nice to his wife before and would not lower her head. He was excited and choked up and calmed down his mood every once in a while. After talking about this, He once told his two sisters that they should never beat their wife. Because of this sentence, both sisters cut off their relationship with him and ignored him for several months. He always valued family affection very much.
Mediator asked him why his two sisters had such a big opinion about his sister-in-law. Wang Xiaoyi was excited again and said that because the two daughters felt sorry for their parents, they couldn't understand why their sister-in-law treated her in-laws like this, and she kept crying as she said.
The mediator told him that his sister's problem is easy to solve. As long as you sit next to her, all the conflicts will be gone. But now you have to resolve the conflict between husband and wife first. Wang Xiaoyi finally lowered his head and said, "It's wrong for my sister to go to your house to make trouble, and it's even more wrong for them to hit you." I apologize to you here. Even if this matter is over, this kind of thing will not happen in the future. The belated apology made Meng Ge red in his eyes, but she still accepted .
I met Meng Ge’s in-laws downstairs. My father-in-law said that since her daughter-in-law gave birth to two grandchildren, she has regarded her as a hero, eating fish and buying pig’s trotters. She asked what was wronged? The whole family was so troubled that she could not live like this. The mother-in-law also said that daughter-in-law was tense sooner or later, and the old couple had a great opinion on her daughter-in-law, thinking that her daughter-in-law had bad attitudes and expressions towards the old couple, and lacked the most basic respect .
But Meng Ge had a big opinion on this statement, saying that he was just a knife-like and slander. When something happened, it would be fine in the past. They said that I was showing my face, and that I was the same temperament. Without knowing it, they said that they were talking about it. Wang Xiaoyi said that his wife's personality must be changed. If it doesn't change, there is no need to talk about it and divorce must be done.
The mediator also said that every time the in-laws come, Meng Ge is more enthusiastic and polite, which will definitely make her in-laws happy. When she heard the mediator’s criticism, Meng Ge immediately admitted her mistake and said that she would try her best to repair the relationship with her in-laws.
The mediator also advised the parents-in-law to be more generous to their daughter-in-law. After all, after all, after having been married for so many years, the father-in-law said directly when he heard this, she could live, and divorced if she couldn't live. If it was because of our relationship, we could cut off our relationship with our grandson and son. mediator asked him if he would be willing to live with his grandson? My father-in-law said there was nothing he could do. The couple was always angry and were trying to split up .
It turns out that old man Wang has two sons. Wang Xiaoyi is the second son, and his financial conditions are much better than that of his elder brother. So he proposed at that time that if he went out, he would not have a penny. If his elder brother went out, he would give his brother 50,000 yuan. Wang Xiaoyi also admitted this matter and said that it was really embarrassing to argue with his parents-in-law in front of the whole village. At that time, he hated him, why did he marry such a wife? .
Meng Ge said that when the land use rights were first divided, his father-in-law directly wrote the name of his eldest son, husband, and in-laws, and he told him. Wang Xiaoyi said that he was not at home at that time. When the family notified him, he didn't know. The mediator told Meng Ge that he should tell his husband, asked his husband to talk about this matter. Meng Ge said that he told him at that time, but his husband said that it was the loss of the two brothers and it had nothing to do with her. . Meng Ge said that he obviously did not treat himself as a family. She was actually fighting for a while, and even her husband was like this.
mediator also felt that Wang Xiaoyi's approach was indeed inappropriate. Wang Xiaoyi admitted that he did not communicate well with his wife when he was separated, but he said there was a reason for this. He was very excited and pointed at his father-in-law and cursed, and the scene at the beginning of the article happened.
The mediator had no choice but to take Meng Ge's parents out of the house first. The mediator criticized them for stretching their hands too long and should not get involved in the affairs of the girl's family. The water splashed by the married girl, But the father-in-law shouted, they all stepped on my girl on the soles of her feet, but the mediator said that she was willing. She was in her thirties and forties. She didn't even know how to solve this problem? The old couple was also angry and said they could live a successful life. If they couldn't live a successful life, they divorced. After that, they took the bus and left .
Perhaps it was because he vented the anger in his heart. Wang Xiaoyi seemed very calm at this time. The mediator criticized him. You want your wife to respect your parents. I have no objection, but how did you treat her parents? I just advised you not to point fingers to the elderly. Now that point fingers have become a trivial matter, I have started to do it directly. How else do you have to live? If you want to save this marriage, you must apologize to your father-in-law and mother-in-law first.
But Wang Xiaoyi said that he needed to consider it. The mediator was shocked. The mediator said that Meng Ge was wrong, but your fault was even bigger. You protect your family too much.
At this time, the psychological counselor also came out to mediate. The psychological counselor said that Wang Xiaoyi wanted to do it well, and the role of his son and younger brother was too good. He put the role of his husband at the last place and did not care enough about his wife, which led to his wife feeling very wronged at the in-laws' house. asked him to do the role of his husband first and maintain his small family so that he would not be tired and live a relaxed life.
Then the psychological counselor also persuaded Mengge that life is to be managed. If you have conflicts with everyone in your husband’s family and your words have already hurt them all over, they will still open your heart to see if it is tofu or steel? As a result, Meng Ge said that he had this temper. He was like this before getting married. The psychological counselor immediately criticized him. Don’t say this. If you don’t say this, your husband still thinks that your marriage has hope. After you say this, your husband will feel that your marriage has no hope. Don’t think that your marriage is not good. Just change someone. Your problem has not been corrected. If you change someone, you will not be good. . After listening to the criticism of the psychological counselor, Meng Ge also thought for a long time.
Finally, the mediator asked them what they were thinking. Both parties said that they did not want to divorce for the sake of their children, but Meng Ge said that she could not forgive him for his parents like that, but Wang Xiaoyi still refused to bow to his father-in-law. The mediator immediately criticized him severely, Your problem remains unchanged, which girl is willing to live with you, if you beat other people's parents, will they live with you? ?
After listening to the mediator's criticism, Wang Xiaoyi sat next to his wife and held her hand. However, at this time, Meng Ge suddenly laughed. This smile completely angered Wang Xiaoyi. The mediator asked her what she was laughing at? Meng Ge said that he finally apologized to me. In my heart, he felt that he was always right. The mediator said that he had changed this? Wang Xiaoyi also said in annoyance that this smile has lost the meaning of mediation today, and it will be the same tomorrow.
Meng Ge suddenly asked the mediator, what would the divorce judgment be judged if the current situation is like in the current situation? The mediator asked her why she asked that? Meng Ge said there was no way to go, so why can’t the mediator criticize him? You should quickly handle the relationship and apologize to your parents as soon as possible. If it really doesn't work, let your parents beat him up and vent their anger. After all, he is wrong first, and I hope you can calm down.
At this moment, Meng Ge's sister called and yelled, "What's wrong with you? You dare to fight with your parents, and you have a way to live?" Wang Xiaoyi whispered in a low voice, saying that he was really too impulsive just now, and the mediator also said that it was indeed wrong for him to beat the old man. He would take him to apologize to his parents-in-law as soon as possible and let his sister do ideological work for the elderly. The sister also agreed to comfort her parents and prevent the conflict from continuing to expand.
Meng Ge said that every time he quarreled, her husband said he wanted to divorce. After that, tears couldn't help but shed. Meng Ge said that he didn't want to divorce and couldn't bear to leave his children, so every time he filed for divorce, he didn't say anything. The mediator criticized Wang Xiaoyi, you are a big man, who talks about divorce all day long, what kind of man is he? Wang Xiaoyi lowered his head and said that he would not file for divorce again in the future.
In fact, the relationship between the two is pretty good. Meng Ge proposed divorce because she was worried that her parents would not forgive her husband. So the mediator asked Wang Xiaoyi to call her parents-in-law to apologize first. He just said sorry, but his mother-in-law was furious and scolded Wang Xiaoyi as a junior. In front of everyone, she also said she would never forgive her behavior and was determined to have zero tolerance.
After the mediator's persuasion, the parents-in-law calmed down and then said that Wang Xiaoyi would come to the door to apologize later. After hearing this attitude, Meng Ge finally let go of his worries and no longer mentions divorce and hugs her husband. The adjuster also finally advised her husband that if there is any conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, don't just stand on the side of their parents. The wife is for heartache. The two will grow old until they grow old. Wang Xiaoyi said that she will correct it in the future.
can only say that the couple is living like this, and they have a big problem with both. Meng Ge's words hurt too much, and his face is lost when he disagrees. No in-laws will like this. Although he didn't do anything out of line, his in-laws have a lot of opinions about her. He doesn't think he is wrong, and the loss is due to this personality.
As for Wang Xiaoyi, he valued family affection too much and regarded his wife almost as an outsider. He was always important to parents, sisters were important, brothers were important, and then wife was the wife. This was definitely wrong, and he also beat his father-in-law and mother-in-law, which was even more untolerable. This irritable temper could not be changed, and his life would not be able to live in the future. His parents-in-law were even more stubborn and called his daughter if he had disagreements. The couple's relationship was already in danger. As a result, when parents-in-law, parents-in-law, and sister-in-law got involved, they were afraid that life would not be easy in the future.
What would you do if you were Meng Ge? Do you think Wang Xiaoyi should be forgiven?
