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Most women hope to have a good relationship with the opposite sex. At the right time, they meet someone they are in love with, and the two hit it off and developed a beautiful marriage.
But this is just a beautiful expectation for love after all, and most of the feelings in reality are not satisfactory.
Whether in TV series or novels, the plot of "She loves him and loves her" often appears. In fact, this kind of thing often happens in real life.
The person you like likes others, but the person who likes you cannot meet your requirements for your partner. In this way, many women cannot meet someone who is suitable for them at the age of marriage.
Of course, this does not mean that women will die alone. In fact, every woman should have a beautiful love.
But the premise is that you have to endure loneliness and wait, and try to cultivate yourself while waiting, so that you have the capital worthy of being loved.
Some women have late love luck and only exploded in middle age.
Of course, this is not necessarily a bad thing.
Women at this stage have more social experience and their vision will be more accurate. If they interact with men at this time, they will not easily suffer losses.
Don’t worry, when you reach middle age, as long as you do these three things well, a man will take the initiative to chat with you, and your love luck will not be stopped.
See how three women do it, hoping to give you some experience in managing relationships:
Zeng Huaqian , 38 years old, clothing boss: A man takes the initiative to flirt with you, it must be because you are beautiful enough, otherwise he would not be willing to look at you more.
No matter when, a man's eyes will only be attracted by beautiful women. This is an unquestionable fact.
However, some women have long flowering periods, some have short flowering periods, some have early flowering periods, and some have late flowering periods. They may not be so popular when they are young, but when they are middle-aged, they have more charm.
This is determined by personal growth characteristics. Some people become more charming as they get older, and they become more bright and charming as they get older.
is like the famous actress Yu Feihongyun. When she was young, she was not outstanding among the beauties in the entertainment industry. The towering cheekbones are slightly mature in all aspects.
But as I grew older and my temperament settled down, I became more and more radiant and more beautiful than many female stars.
Sometimes, the tracks are different. Some are suitable for running the first half, and some are suitable for running the second half, but there is always a chance to play.
So, you must seize this opportunity and don’t think that no one wants it when you are old. This idea is very wrong. Every age group has advantages, but it is just that you are good at grasping it.
You must dress up. Men are all visual animals. If you don’t dress up, you cannot attract men. This is true.
Of course, you don’t need to overdress up. At least you can look good by cleaning yourself a little.
You should know that there are no unpretentious women in this world, only lazy women, and wearing makeup can make you look better. This is true.
Liu Jianrong, 39 years old, elementary school teacher: It doesn’t matter if you don’t look good, just be able to dress. If you can match it, it will really enhance your temperament and make people look more attractive.
The overall appearance of a woman is nothing more than starting from the face, figure, and matching, and these can be improved through makeup and outfits.
will be very helpful when paired with clothes. It can make a person's temperament stronger, and others will look very unusual.
One of my sisters is in her forties. She is actually not very good at wearing it, but she loves dressing up more than her peers. She especially likes to wear white T-heating pants, which looks very youthful.
And my brother-in-law is particularly fond of my sister. Part of the reason is that my sister dresses up very beautifully and he feels very proud of taking it out.
Don’t blame men for reality. We women also like to look at handsome guys. Everyone has a heart that loves beauty. This is human nature.
The saying "people rely on clothes" is really good. If you wear the right clothes, your overall feeling will look particularly good and you will look younger.
. From the perspective of vision, men are attracted by you all at once, and they will naturally "chasing you" with you.
In this way, even if you no longer have the advantage in your age, you are still a flower among your peers, which can attract many handsome and handsome middle-aged men. It is of course very good to take the lead in the track.
Just choose any one of them and you can choose the outstanding ones, which is much calmer than when you were in your twenties.
Wang Nanyu, 40 years old, flower shop owner: If a man wants to take the initiative to flirt with you, you must learn to be patient and not be able to walk even if a man gets close. This will easily be deceived.
I have lived for so many years and ate rice for so many years. I actually understand the little thoughts of men. If they are not good enough to me, I will never let go.
Take the matter of spending money for me as an example. I don’t want to spend money on men who don’t want to spend money on me and I don’t want to contact them at all.
The men who spend money to find the QQ will be eliminated by me at the beginning because after all, I understand what they are thinking.
First of all, it depends on whether they are generous to me. No matter what their financial conditions are, they are at least willing to spend money on me.
Don’t think I’m very realistic. This is the fact. If you don’t want to spend a man’s money, he will not cherish you even more.
At that time, you can’t get money and love, so you can’t get both people and money.
There is a man who comes to approach me, and I won’t be so positive and happy. It depends on what he gives for me first.
When I watched the movie "Sleepless Night in Seattle ", I remembered a very interesting line:
I like and am used to keeping a distance from changing things, so that I can know what is the most unabandoned by time. For example, loving someone is full of variables, so I took a step back and watched quietly until I saw the sincere emotions.
Really, women should be like this, keep calm in everything, and take a step back to see a lot of things clearly.
If he only talks sweetly and can't come up with the actual things, then sorry, this is not my dish.
Don’t just look at a man and you can’t walk. If you hook him up, you will meet him. In this way, he will think you are worthless.
There is nothing wrong with being arrogant or not, at least not suffering any loss.
Time Emotional Class:
When people reach middle age, if you want to attract men's attention, you must first start from the appearance, put on more makeup, learn to dress, and attract attention in appearance.
With external advantages, you must make good use of this advantage. You cannot be in love and be brain-like. You should accept all men. Don’t regard age as a shackle on your own. You must believe that you are worthy of being loved and the best. Don’t choose someone who is not so suitable for you just because you are old, otherwise you will suffer a lot after marriage.
In fact, when you have the capital to attract men, even if you do nothing, there are men who are rushing to marry them home.
So, don’t be afraid of age, you should reconcile with yourself and do your best no matter what stage of your life.
