2. Marriage
After several meetings, I became familiar with each other. The topic is that there are more men and fewer women. Maybe it was because both parties were not young, so we naturally became a couple. After becoming girlfriends, I realized that he had been married before and was a flash of divorce (the introduction only told the two that they were not married when they were talking about marriage). Now, thinking about it, they were very skilled and bold at that time, and they didn’t mind choosing to be together. I got pregnant unexpectedly half a year later, and the family of both parties decided to hold a wedding four months later. Since we did not retain our first child during pregnancy, we were still in our own home for a short confinement period after the operation. After reading it, Xiao Q sent me a message saying that we had broken up. At that time, I was confused and went straight to the scumbag's house regardless of her physical condition. I just wanted to ask clearly. If it was because he despised me for being too ugly during my confinement period or there were other people, I had to smash his house to stop. My uninvited surprise him, but fortunately it was not as bad as I thought. I told me the real reason, because he was a divorced family, Xiao Q awarded his father, and his brother was raised by his mother, and his father also formed a new family later. Although both parties will ask about Xiao Q's marriage issue, it is still at the point of getting married. It takes money to hold a wedding. At this time, both parents said that they could not contribute money and efforts, and for this, it was another bloody quarrel. This stupid man felt that he would never get married in this life, so he would no longer have to hurt this fragmented family. Looking at the selfish and pitiful "scumbag" in front of me, I thought of the first time I came to his house. The kitchen was covered with dust and the floors that were leaking and wet with water in the kitchen pipes were almost growing. An old-fashioned wardrobe at home seemed out of place with this high-end community. Several gaps in the bedroom door of different shades were traces left by his parents' fight. He has been living in this house since his parents divorced. In such an environment, he is withdrawn and not good at talking and has extreme ideas, so I didn't understand at first. I decided to give him the love he had never enjoyed, so that he would not be alone, and that he would feel happy because of me. Our family didn't agree to the bride price, so we finally gave it to Xiao Q's mother.
3. After marriage
After marriage, we had a sweet and noisy year. Whenever I think of his family, I can't help but treat him well and urgently want him to join my family. My original family is happy and happy. As a wife, I learnt the meticulous work of the kitchen and make dishes that I am not good at. He always tolerate my bad temper, but he still feels very happy. Over time, I found that many places of our lives are always different. For example, I like to eat meat, but he doesn't eat meat; I hate to eat sour, but he likes to eat sour; I eat salty, but he eats light; I like to eat fried dishes, but he likes to eat fried and cooked...
I met delicious food in the company, and no matter how far I am, I will bring it back to share with him. Once the fruit I just bought was washed and found that he had eaten all the food, which made me furious in an instant. It was only at that moment that I realized how much impact the original family had on a marriage. I might have to accept that you only felt sorry for others in this life, because no one in an incomplete family taught them how to do a relationship to love each other more. After marriage, I also found that he was addicted to games and could play games all night long as he didn't go to work. When dating, they also go back to their homes during the day and at night. I don’t know how obsessed they are. Until I became pregnant the second year after marriage, I began to lose patience with him...
4. Pregnancy
In the early stage of pregnancy, I was emotionally unstable, and I often made trouble because of trivial matters. Because of the first year of marriage, Xiao Q occasionally did not tolerate my bad temper. I cried almost every night in the first three months of pregnancy, and during the day. Because there is no elderly person in the family who is willing to take care of him, his life and diet also falls on Xiao Q's shoulders. A man who is careless by nature, the three meals of pregnant women are basically based on what he thinks are vegetarian nutritional diversity. At five months, he found out that the child in his belly had congenital heart disease . At that time, he felt that the five thunders were thunder, why was it our child? After going to an authoritative hospital and checking all the information, I realized how important the first three months of pregnancy are for pregnant women.We left this child because it was hard-won for us, not only because we spent a year from pregnancy preparation to pregnancy, but also that we have been together for more than five months. It is impossible to imagine that a life we have nurtured had to be dealt with before we met.
We are still continuing this marriage. Although we have new and continuous problems, we will be more cautious about this relationship because of having children. Our story is not to be continued...
was written at the end
I hope my story will allow sisters who are preparing to get married and not yet married to clearly know what kind of people they should choose to combine with in the future and what kind of family they should choose to. If you think it's worth it, be brave once.
