text/Da Meng
1. Volume start
After a hundred years of cultivation, you can cross the same boat, and after a thousand years of cultivation, you can sleep together.
A man and a woman can become a husband and wife, and they are destined to be destined to be together, and they also have the opportunity to control themselves.
Indeed, love is the most attractive form in interpersonal relationships. Two people who are not related by blood have become a family after emotional tests, which is the greatest rare thing in their lives.
Real love is to ask for nothing else, and the two of them have their sincerity combined together.
However, protection is always more testative than conquering, and it will be more difficult to be protected by it easily.
It is not that we don’t love each other over time, but that in love, men need three essential things in addition to the care given by women.
2. Men want, women's loyalty
The tradition engraved in their bones makes men hope that their wives can remain loyal in their marriage.
Betrayal of marriage with any form and any excuse will make men feel discouraged by their feelings and have the idea of quitting.
True feelings always exist in the form of mutual loyalty, otherwise, the relationship between husband and wife is destined to fall apart.
Even if you are close lovers, you cannot completely control your partner, maintain your sincerity forever, and make the marriage smooth and the opportunity to run for a long time is hard to come by. A woman's loyalty is undoubtedly an increase in the stability of the marriage.
Otherwise, no matter how many people you love, they will be strangers overnight.
Just like Zhang Chengcheng in " Anjia ", he was originally Xu Wenchang's heart. In order to buy a house, the two of them made a fake divorce. According to the agreement, the way they get along is to divorce and never leave home. They still have to maintain loyalty to each other and remarry after the purpose is achieved.
Unexpectedly, Xu Wenchang experienced a sad thing. After get off work, he went home early, but found that his nominal ex-wife, actually his wife, took another man home and did something to betray him.
Afterwards, no matter how Zhang Chengcheng defended and apologized, Xu Wenchang was determined to treat fake divorce as real divorce.
Due to the woman's infidelity, the man is desperate about marriage.
A woman’s loyalty is a man’s sense of security. If you want a marriage to last, loyalty is indispensable.
3. Men want, women understand
The existence of marriage is not only to satisfy the continuation of life, but also to nourish each other between souls.
A good couple relationship can be heart-warming when they are together. You don’t need to talk to people outside. Keep your emotions clean and say it to your partner to know, which is safe and comfortable.
Just like in " Bottom Line ", Fang Yuan regulates the child raising issues of divorced couples at work. The couple quarreled in front of the children regardless of their feelings. The child was so scared that he cried. Fang Yuan carried the child aside alone, played with the child, and then held the child to deal with all the conflicts between the child's parents.
Learning that the child wants to live with his mother, Fang Yuan chose to respect the child's opinions and make a judgment.
, but unexpectedly, the couple found Fang Yuan again because of the child's raising issue, and asked Fang Yuan to be responsible for the last treatment result. Fang Yuan was not sure of this. It was not until the child said he lied when he made the first choice that Fang Yuan knew the whole story.
Due to the child's dishonestness, Fang Yuan's work resume was covered with dust. Although he did not show it in front of his colleagues, he was depressed when he returned home.
Seeing this, his wife hugged Fang Yuan in her arms and relieved all his grievances and reluctance with companionship and listening. Fang Yuan also vented his emotions and quickly adjusted his state.
The understanding of women is the explanation that men need. A woman who can give a man's understanding can gain the trust and respect of the other party.
A woman’s understanding is a good start for maintaining harmony in marriage and will make men feel that they have found the right person.
4. Men want, women’s sincerity
In a marriage, if there is no sincerity as the background, the two people are together not because of love, but because of other considerations, they are destined to be not happy, but will become the beginning of pain.
A man cannot get the true heart of a woman. If he falls in love with someone who does not love himself, his heart will suffer a huge blow.
is like Li Xiangqian in " Ordinary World ", falls in love with Tian Runye at first sight and starts a fierce pursuit.
However, Tian Runye does not like Li Xiangqian, but likes Sun Shaoan , so he turns a blind eye to Li Xiangqian's show of kindness and even chooses to avoid it.
Until Sun Shaoan married another woman, Tian Runye knew that the love he was pursuing was no longer possible. In his emotional weakness, Li Xiangqian's love offensive had an effect and the two got married soon.
is just a tragedy that has been destined from the first night of the wedding.
Tian Runye refused to be with Li Xiangqian and turned a blind eye to the man who had become his husband. In order to avoid having a husband and wife relationship with Li Xiangqian, he applied to be transferred from his original job and went to another city alone.
The loveless marriage tortures Li Xiangqian, not knowing where he was wrong, nor how to break the deadlock, and his worries are inseparable. Until an accident occurs and a leg is lost, Li Xiangqian's efforts awaken Tian Runye's soul, and the two become a loving couple.
There is no real marriage, it is a cold ice cellar, no matter what, it cannot be warm.
5. Conclusion
Entering marriage does not mean that love disappears, but that love has entered a new stage. In a new stage, if you want to taste the sweet fruits of love, you need to withstand more tests, put in more effort and effort.
The word "husband" of a husband and wife is separated and "two people". Only when two people move towards each other in their relationship, be loyal to each other, understand each other, and be sincere to each other, can a relationship go further and further.
I am Dameng, an emotional counselor, committed to healing myself, and want to help more friends who encounter emotional problems solve problems. If you have emotional problems, please come to me.
