"Thank you, I didn't give up on me..." The best manifestation of Wu Jiayu is achieved in Wu Jiayu!
In Chinese philosophy, there has always been a thought called "Fallen leaves return to their roots and be buried in peace!" If there is someone who intends to forcibly dig up their parents' graves, they will definitely be scolded as an unfilial son.
In 2015, something like this happened in Liulin Township, Zhushan County, Shiyan City, Hubei Province. The 28-year-old girl Wu Jiayu found an excavator. She ignored the dissuasion of relatives, friends and clan elders, and planned to forcibly dig open the graves of her parents and open the coffin to collect evidence.
That day, the sky was cloudy and it looked like it was going to rain. Wu Jiayu stood in front of her parents' grave. She first tilted her head three times, and then directed the excavator to start digging around the grave with tears in her eyes.
"You unfilial daughter, you actually want to open your parents' coffin!"
"How can you touch your parents' coffin in the world? Stop quickly!"
1992, 5-year-old Wu Jiayu saw his parents commit suicide in front of her. From then on, she became a helpless "orphan", and could only live alone in the world with the vague impression of her parents in her mind.
So, why did she insist on opening her parents’ grave after she was “infiltrated” for more than 20 years? She knew that this was an "unfilial act", but in order to get her younger brother back, she had to do this and could only do this.
From the beginning of my memory, there were only grandpa and grandma in her life, and only vague memories of her home and parents. When I was a child, I saw that others were loved by my parents. Wu Jiayu would ask my grandmother: "Grandma, my dad and mom, where did they go?"
At this time, the old man could only tell her in secret tears: "Xiaoyu, my parents have gone far away, it will take a long time to come back!"
When Wu Jiayu was 9 years old, one day when he came home from school, he encountered heavy rain. Other classmates had parents who gave him umbrellas and raincoats. Only she ran back home alone in the heavy rain.
As soon as she arrived home, Wu Jiayu threw herself into her grandmother's arms, and she cried so sadly. Grandma dragged a box from under the bed, containing a diary and a map left by her parents. The diary records the marks and pains of parents looking for their son Wu Jiayi. Only then did Wu Jiayu realize that he actually had a younger brother.
In the summer of 1990, Wu Jiayu was 3 years old. My father farms at home and takes care of the siblings.
Summer is the slack season, so my father took her and her 2-year-old brother to take the train from Shiyan to visit her working mother to Shanxi. When they were on the
route, when the train passed by Wuchang Railway Station, their wallet was stolen. They were penniless and had to work in a restaurant near Wuchang Railway Station, intending to earn some travel expenses.
It is really difficult for a man to work with two children. At this moment, a middle-aged man came to the restaurant, speaking a pure Shiyan dialect, and became friends with his father.
Wu Jiayu's father
Sometimes he would help take care of Wu Jiayu's siblings, but what was unexpected was that this person was actually a human trafficker, and his eyes had already been aimed at the 2-year-old Wu Jiayi.
That day, the middle-aged man came again and began to tease the Wu Jiayu siblings. But when he turned around, he hugged the Wu Jiayan and disappeared into the vast sea of people.
The sudden blow made the family fall into grief. After Wu Jiayu's parents sent their daughter back to their hometown, they embarked on the long journey of finding a child with all their savings.
Wu Jiayu and his mother
In the two years after that, the couple traveled all over the country, but still did not find their own son. They wrote all the bitterness and pain of finding a son in a diary, and each article was filled with tears.
"Yan'er, what are you eating today? Mom can't forget the yen. We have been in Yunnan for more than a month. When I get well, I must come out to find you..."
"Yan'er, I always dream about you at night. Where are you? My yen, you must remember your mother's face, and mom must find you."
Two years of running around to find a child, the couple spent all their savings and were burdened with heavy debts, but in the vast crowd, the son was still missing. After
, the couple began to complain and blame each other. Their hearts were filled with disappointment and they had already developed a desperate feeling about life.
0 July 23, 1992, this was a day that made Wu Jiayu feel so distressed, and it was also a day that she would never forget in her life. That day, both of her parents chose to commit suicide.
Wu Jiayu vaguely remembered that she and her mother were in the room that day, and her father suddenly ran in, wrapped her up with a quilt, pushed her to the window, and was holding something sparkling in his hand.
Then, Wu Jiayu heard a loud bang, almost shaking her eardrums. When she recovered from her senses and crawled out of the quilt, she saw a big hole appearing on the roof.
"At that time, I remembered that the sky was blue, so I called my mother loudly, but my mother didn't answer me. It was pitch black all over the world. I was very scared..."
After the parents left, Wu Jiayu became an "orphan". The day before his father committed suicide, he left a last word for his daughter:
"No one can understand what life I live, tears and sweat have been The scriptures habitually make me intoxicated by sadness, desolation and pain. What is even more terrifying than now is that I have no value or meaning of life. Dad, you can only rely on yourself in the future. Dad, I'm sorry for you..."
Looking at the diary left by my parents, Wu Jiayu finally knew the truth. It was because of her younger brother that she had no parents. While she was sad, the 9-year-old secretly made up her mind to find her younger brother back and fulfill her parents' wishes during her lifetime.
Because my grandparents are old and have no source of income, Wu Jiayu only went to elementary school for three years. He left his hometown at the age of 15 and worked odd jobs in a factory in the county town.
Having a meager income, Wu Jiayu was reluctant to give up food and clothing. She saved up the money little by little, intending to use it to find her younger brother.
. During her work, Wu Jiayu also started a journey of looking for her relatives. She learned to surf the Internet and began to post some missing person notices on the Internet, which was about finding her younger brother.
"My younger brother's name is Wu Jiayi. When he was two and a half years old, he was abducted by a human trafficker at Wuchang Railway Station. There was a diced meat on his ear, and the birthmark he had when he was born."
5 In five years, Wu Jiayu spent all the money he saved and all the rest time in the process of finding his younger brother.
However, since there were no photos and the parents did not leave any other clues, the missing person notices issued by Wu Jiayu were actually all sank to the sea, and no one left him a message or reply.
20 years old, Wu Jiayu met an honest young man in the factory and finally married him. After marriage, the two raised two children, which was considered to have a stable family. But in Wu Jiayu's heart, she never forgot that she also had a younger brother, Wu Jiayi.
There are two children to raise, and the husband needs to go out to work to earn money. Wu Jiayu's way of finding his younger brother is still stuck in posting and joining a group to ask.
In 2012, she came into contact with the " Baby Go Home " child search website, so she registered an account on it and posted dozens of parent-seeking posts every day.
That day, a volunteer suddenly added her friend and sent a photo with a small diced meat on the ear of the boy in the photo. Wu Jiayu was ecstatic. She felt that this person might be her younger brother.
If you need to confirm whether there is blood relationship, you need the closest relatives to conduct DNA comparison and screening. Wu Jiayu asked her uncle to compare with the man, but after the result was released, she was very disappointed.
At this time, the doctor told Wu Jiayu that it would be best to provide his parents' DNA data, because even if it is a uncle, the probability of errors is high.
After learning that the blood relationship cannot be determined by the sibling's DNA, Wu Jiayu made a decision in her mind. She planned to extract the DNA data of her parents, because only in this way can she find her younger brother. But her parents were buried in peace more than 20 years ago.
If you want to find the living, you have to disturb the dead. Wu Jiayu fell into a dilemma, especially after she told her uncle about her thoughts, everyone unanimously opposed her opening of the coffin for her parents.
Because in the countryside, Wu Jiayu's approach is actually disturbing the peace of his ancestors, and it is an "unfilial" act in everyone's eyes.
On the one hand are parents who have passed away for many years and younger brother who is alive but cannot be found. Wu Jiayu still made up his mind. Many years later, when she mentioned this, she said:
"I feel very unfilial as my daughter to disturb their peace. But I was thinking that if I find my younger brother back, I will be the greatest filial piety to them."
And this matter cannot be waited for, because the doctor told Wu Jiayu that her parents have passed away for so many years, but they only have hope of extracting DNA. If they continue to consume, the longer the time, the more they may not be able to extract it.
On November 23, 2015, Wu Jiayu, with the strange eyes of the villagers, accompanied by his mother's family, and under the witness of the police from the Criminal Police Brigade of Zhushan County Public Security Bureau, Hubei Province, dug up their parents' graves, took out their parents' remaining teeth and bone parts for extracting DNA information.
Fortunately, after many efforts, the forensic doctor finally successfully extracted DNA information from his teeth, and the police entered its data into the national public security organs' information system for finding abducted and missing children. After
, there is a long wait and torture. Every day when Wu Jiayu wakes up, the first thing he does is to check his cell phone to see if there are any strangers turning on the phone and sending messages. Such days lasted for more than a year.
In February 2017, Wu Jiayu finally waited for an opportunity. She suddenly received a call from the program team of CCTV's large-scale public welfare search program " Waiting for Me ", inviting her to go to Beijing to participate in the recording of the program, because a boy was also invited, and he is likely to be her younger brother.
Wu Jiayu and her husband
Wu Jiayu was very nervous. She was afraid and happy. It seemed that her younger brother was right in front of her. She could touch her with her hand, and she was afraid that the ending would be despair again. This boy was not her younger brother.
But no matter what, Wu Jiayu doesn't want to give up such an opportunity. Even if there is a slight hope, she is not willing to give up.
On the show that day, Wu Jiayu had been looking for her younger brother for 27 years and suddenly appeared in front of her. The siblings hugged their heads and cried bitterly.
mentioned Wu Jiayi. After being abducted, he was sold to Zhangzhou, Fujian, and was later renamed Lin Yihui. When he grew up, he found that his four sisters did not look like him at all, so he became suspicious of his identity.
In 2015, perhaps because of the induction, just when my sister Wu Jiayu opened the coffin to extract parents' DNA, Lin Yihui also entered his DNA information into the National Public Security Bureau Information System Network for Finding Abducted and Missing Children. In the two years after
, the public security organs conducted surveys and visited Wu Jiayu's parents and Lin Yihui's DNA five or six times. Finally, they concluded that Lin Yihui was Wu Jiayu's younger brother Wu Jiayu, who had been abducted for more than 20 years.
After the siblings recognized each other, Wu Jiayi couldn't wait to ask for a look in his hometown in Shiyan. He wanted to go to his parents' grave and kowtowed three times to comfort their spirit in heaven.
0 On April 17, 2017, Wu Jiayu took his younger brother back to his hometown in Shiyan, Hubei. The siblings knelt in front of his parents' grave to burn incense and comfort him. Wu Jiayan cried and said:
"Mom and Dad, Feng'er is unfilial, please open your eyes and see, your Feng'er is back!"
Since both parties have families, after a brief reunion, the siblings can only return to their own lives. The only difference is that in this world, they have one more relative to each other.
Now, Wu Jiayu and his younger brother Wu Jiayi maintain close contact. No matter what happens, they will discuss with each other, and sometimes they will confide in each other when they encounter unhappy things.
Wu Jiayu's "Opening the Coffin and Looking for a Family" finally got a good ending, but how many such tragedies are still happening again? When the child is abducted, he can only leave behind a fragmented family.
We only hope that in this world, there will be no more traffickers, because if a family loses their children, it will be no less than a "demonstrous disaster" to them.
is here. I wish all children in the world to grow up healthily and happily, and to grow up safely by their parents!
