Life in the world
Destiny and fortune
Distribute the way to the world • Give good thoughts to people's hearts
Although there is no body of cultivation, he is also a practitioner
Understand the suffering of practice • The door to practice
The appearance of sentient beings
The talented woman in the Republic of China Zhang Ailing said:
Perhaps every man has had two such women, at least two. After marrying the Red Rose, over time, the red one turned into a trace of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still the "bright moonlight in front of the window"; when marrying the White Rose, the white one was a rice stick on the clothes, and the red one was a cinnabar mole on the heart.
people seem to be like this, like to eat what is in the pot and think about what is in the bowl. Before you get
, you always try your best to pursue it in vain, but after you get it, you don’t cherish it.
Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng met because of literature. At that time, Zhang Ailing was 23 years old and Hu Lancheng 38 years old. The difference between the two was fifteen years old. Zhang Ailing, who was young, was not the opponent of the experienced Hu Lancheng.
According to legend, after Zhang Ailing married Hu Lancheng, Hu Lancheng was simply a fickle radish. During this period, Hu Lancheng had at least four lovers, which can be said to be hooking up everywhere.
says that "no love is always a scholar", which is reflected in Hu Lancheng even more exquisitely.
In today's life, are there many such things?
When couples get along day and night, this should be a happy thing. However, people are all fond of the old and old. After a short sense of freshness, the boring life is always annoying.
Especially in this colorful world, vows become almost worthless.
Just as Hu Lancheng wrote "The years are quiet and peaceful, and the world is safe" when he married Zhang Ailing! How ridiculous is the sentence
to future generations?
So some people say: "Marriage is the grave of love." No matter how much two people in love are, they will become at a loss when facing the food, rice, oil and salt of life.
preaching and solving doubts
A friend asked me: She has been married to his husband for three years. When he was in love, his husband was gentle, hardworking and family-oriented, and treats her very well. He has to go home no matter how late he works.
But just after the child was born last year, my husband was like a different person. Every day when I came home, I ignored it and rarely asked about the affairs at home. The conflict between the two people became increasingly serious because of these things. There were endless quarrels every day. Later, my husband stopped going home. Once, when I was looking at his mobile phone, I saw an ambiguous message between him and another woman. After this incident, I felt ashamed and the conflict between the two people became deeper. Now I am preparing to divorce, but I feel very sad inside. I ask me what to do?
I answered her like this:
Fireworks are easy to cold, and people's hearts are easy to change, especially in such a tempting world, who can keep it alone?
If you love someone, give him freedom, because people cannot be imprisoned. The more you want to catch him, the more he wants to resist. The final result will only be a loss-win situation.
Just like when we use our hands to grab the sand, the more we use the force, the less we grab it.
When we choose marriage, don’t yearn for love anymore!
When we appreciate the beauty of flowers, we can no longer ask for fruit.
days pass by day, no matter how great a person is, it is like this!
Zhuo Wenjun After receiving the letter from her husband Sima Xiangru that she wanted to take a concubine, she wrote such a poem!
After parting, the two grounds hang together.
Although it is March and April, who knows five or six years?
Seven-stringed lyrics without any intention, eight running script has no way to pass on,
nine series broke out from it, ten miles long pavilion is looking through.
Hundreds of thoughts, thousands of thoughts, and helplessly complain.
0,000 words can be said in thousands of words, and you are bored and dependent on the railing.
Come on the nine-year high to see the lonely geese, and in mid-autumn August the moon is full and the people are not round.
In the middle of July, I was burning incense with candles and asking the sky, and in June, I was filled with my heart.
May Pomegranate is like water, but it encounters cold rain to water the flower end. April loquat is not yellow, I want to be confused with the mirror.
Suddenly, the peach blossoms in March turn with the water, drifting, and the kite string in February breaks.
Alas, Lang, I wish I could live in the next life, I will be a man for my daughter.
Throughout history, no one sighed, "Since ancient times, there are many emotions and only few hatreds, this hatred will last forever"!
Let's be patient with each other. If you divorce and change another one, the result may be worse.
The enlightenment of fate
Master Hongyi said: "I met because I have to pay back my debts. I have to leave because I have paid off my debts."
The old saying also says: "It takes a hundred years of cultivation to cross the same boat, and it takes a thousand years of cultivation to sleep together."
How difficult is it for two people to come together? If it weren't for fate, I'm afraid there would be no other reason to explain it.
Flowers bloom and fade, cause and effect, everything is arranged in the dark.
Love is brave enough to love. Come, I will welcome you no matter the wind and rain. You will leave, I will send you no matter the wind and rain.
Bless each other, all lovers in this world who have deep love and shallow relationship.
