1. After 2 years of marriage, I lived a mess
After my wife divorced, I had been married to her for two years. I originally thought that if I left a marriage and then married her, all I had left was happiness.
But I found out, but after I got married to her, I was really wrong. The new happiness I wanted was not reflected in the second marriage.
She is not very good at taking care of people, and her family is in a mess. After being with her, I realized that she is a person who can’t even take good care of herself, let alone taking care of her family, let alone taking care of me.
I have always wanted children in recent years, but she doesn't want to give birth. She said she is still a child herself, how could she take care of children?
I think a woman must be mature in mind and be more suitable to enter marriage. Otherwise, the other half of the marriage is too hard. There are some errors in
, which you must experience before you can understand. Just like I only know now that I used to divorce recklessly, it was really my own mistake, and I am paying for it now.
2. I really regretted it after 5 years of remarriage, but I didn’t have the capital to divorce
When I divorced my ex-wife, I felt so guilty that I distributed most of my property to her.
I hope that the woman I voluntarily abandoned can still live a good life after separation from me, and will not lower the standards of life, and will not blame me for this.
When I remarried, I found that a marriage without money could not move forward.
Only now my wife knows that most of my property was given to my ex-wife and I was having trouble at home every day. Since the day I remarried, my family has not had a peaceful life.
When the family is in quarrel every day, I don’t have much intention to make money. When the family’s economic income plummeted, there is not much happiness in the marriage.
Although our child is nearly three years old, she does not have it. She is content to live with me, because I am not a man with much money now.
When a man has no money, it is the time when he is most disliked. I also worked very hard, but it seemed like a curse. After my ex-wife and I divorced, my career fell to the bottom in all aspects.
Perhaps my biggest mistake is that I shouldn’t divorce my wife, and now she is just my ex-wife.
No matter how unhappy my current marriage is, I will not divorce at will, because I have indeed reached the age of being unable to afford the marriage and have no capital to divorce.
Life is like this, living it either well or badly. Regret is just my own regret. In my current marriage, she does not cherish our marriage much.
Although I regret it now, it’s too late. Maybe my ex-wife is indeed my wealth. Even if my life is falling a lot, I only ask to live my current life.
3. Remarried for 8 years, and my life is still OK now
I have been remarried for 8 years. My ex-wife and I divorced because of each other's disloyalty to the marriage, so there is nothing worth nostalgic for her.
We can't talk about whoever hurts first, it should hurt each other.
So when I chose to divorce, I was also very decisive and fought for everything I should fight for.
Maybe men are really like this. Only when they face the person they like will they be merciful and ruthless. When facing the woman they don’t love, they will also choose to be ruthless.
I got married for the second time and it has been 8 years since now. In recent years, we have lived a good or bad life, and I think life is OK. Our relationship is better than the relationship between me and my ex-wife. As long as two people trust each other, they can live their lives.
Because I have been hurt in my marriage, I cherish the second marriage very much, and it is all thanks to my current wife.
As a man, I don’t want to live a single life. I hope that when I get old, I will still be surrounded by people who got married when I was young.
The older people are, the more they cherish each other and the more they cherish their fate; the older they are, the more tolerant and open-minded they will live, because you will find that those things you once dislike and those you can't stand will one day be completely accepted and tolerant.
After hearing what these three men said, it turned out that men who divorced their wives might not be happy.
The happiness of a marriage requires the right time and place, and the careful management of two people is required. Only in this way can the relationship continue to move forward in a long and stable manner.
I hope men will have more responsibility in their relationship, more responsibility in their marriage, and love the women in their marriage.
Don’t fall in love easily. Women outside of marriage are irresponsible to the family and betrayal of marriage.
Men sometimes like to enjoy the freshness and excitement outside of marriage, but only a small proportion of men who actually divorce their ex-wife and marry their lovers.
Since you have met someone in your marriage, please cherish it. Don’t be half-hearted and don’t be moved easily, because a man’s unintentional mistake may ruin his stable happiness in the rest of his life.
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