Introduction:
For the elderly, the most feared thing is that they are old and don’t have enough money to spend. They live a life of squandering food every day. They dare not buy clothes they like and eat food they like. This kind of life is really hard. Some elderly people have bad intentions. Since they have no money, they find a rich wife and let the remarried wife take charge of their lives. Not only are there people to accompany them, but their financial conditions can also be improved. It is really a killing two birds with one stone.
You should know that in addition to the sadness of having no money in his later years, being single in his later years is also very painful, so many single elderly people will remarry. Some elderly people have a simple purpose of remarrying, but they just hope that there will be someone to accompany them in their later years. The two of them support each other to spend the rest of their lives, but some elderly people have impure goals. They don’t really want to find someone to live, but want to find an ATM to meet their material needs, and even have to remarry their spouse to supplement their children. Such a requirement is really incomprehensible.
A 60-year-old man was widowed and found a remarried wife. He wanted to live a good life with the other party and share the joys and sorrows in the future, but he did not expect that the remarried wife had been calculating him. After getting married, he repeatedly put forward excessive conditions. Finally, the old man roared in pain: "You eat and live in mine, and now your son wants me to pay for his marriage. It's too much!" What's going on with
? Let's look down together.
60-year-old Mr. Zhao's self-report:
My name is Zhao Minfa, I am 60 years old this year, and now I am a retired person. When I was young, due to work reasons, I often worked in other places. Most of them could only go home once every few months. Fortunately, my wife was reasonable and never got angry with me because of this. Instead, she diligently prepared everything at home. Every time I go back, I can see a clean and tidy home and lively and sensible children.
I naturally knew that I owe my wife, so before I retired, I planned my old life. As long as I retired, I would take my wife out for a self-driving trip. She always said that Yunnan is very beautiful and said that she wanted to see the sea. She had never even been out of the city in her life and yearned for the outside world. I would not let my wife down and promised her that as soon as I retire, I would take her out to let go and play to make up for her debts for so many years.
But heaven is very cruel. Before I took my wife to fulfill these promises, my wife died in an accident. I was heartbroken and cried so hard that I was too angry. I was even admitted to the hospital. I was in a very painful life every day and cried all day. Fortunately, my good brothers were always by my side and my son's comfort, so I gradually accepted this fact.
Because this incident had a big blow to me, the unit approved me for half a year of vacation. After the holidays, I also reached the age of retirement, which was equivalent to I retired early.
At that time, my friend advised me that since this is the case, it would be better to follow my son to the city to relax. My son also agreed with him and said yes, but I didn't plan to bother my son, because I know that my son is in trouble now. He married a capable woman and earned more money than my son. Therefore, his daughter-in-law always talks about it at home, and his son can't raise his head. Although I don't oppose this style of strong women and weak men, I am not stupid. My son has no dignity in his own home. If I go over, then I shouldn't follow him to see his daughter-in-law's face? So I waved my hand and refused.
After I thought carefully, I decided to go out for a trip first to make up for my regret for my wife. Although my wife couldn't see it, I carried my wife's photos with me, and I believe she could see it in the spirit of heaven.
I went to Sanya first. The air on the beach is salty, the sand is very thin, and there are many small shells. If my wife is there, she will definitely smile happily; later I went to the Yunnan flower sea that my wife is thinking about. The flowers here are indeed very beautiful. If my wife is there, I will definitely take a few beautiful photos of her.Looking at the beautiful scenery in front of me, I not only admired it, but also felt more regretful: I would have taken my wife to travel once early.
After returning from traveling, I went back to my hometown by myself. I thought I would never marry my wife for the sake of my wife and live alone, but reality is not a fairy tale. After only half a year, I had the idea of finding another wife.
That morning, I got up to drink water as usual. Who knew that during this process, I suddenly felt dizzy and then lost consciousness and fainted directly on the ground. Fortunately, I got up early every day to open the door for ventilation. When a neighbor passed by, I saw me lying on the ground and quickly sent me to the hospital. I saved my life. It was this accident that made me realize how terrible it is to live alone. For my health, I have to find a partner.
At my age, I really don’t find a wife for love. I really just want to find someone to live together. I have someone to chat with you in my later years. When I get sick, I have someone to take water and medicine around me, just like a roommate in my rental. I asked my friend to pay attention to me and introduce me to the right candidate. About a month later, I met Xiaomei.
Xiaomei is three years younger than me. During the process of getting along, I found that she is a very virtuous and polite person. When she goes shopping, she always bargains. It can be seen that she is a woman who can live a life. I also found that Xiaomei is very attentive to me. I didn’t know her for a long time, so she bought me gifts such as hats and knee pads. Although they are not very expensive, they are also their wishes. From this, it can be seen that Xiaomei has a little bit of affection for me.
So, after we got along for half a year, I proposed to her, and Xiaomei agreed very readily.
Since I wanted to marry her, I naturally couldn't treat her badly. So I invited all my relatives to have a banquet in the best hotel in the city, and bought Xiaomei three gold coins and a diamond ring. Relatives and friends all expressed their blessings to us, and Xiaomei's relatives also cast envious eyes.
Because Xiaomei is usually gentle, I always respond to Xiaomei's requests. Usually, Xiaomei wants me to accompany her to the mall. I will pay for whatever clothes and jewelry I like. I will also be satisfied with what fruits and seafood Xiaomei wants to eat. Even Xiaomei wants to buy high-end skin care products, and I don't blink a set of thousands of dollars. After all, she is my wife now, so I have the responsibility to be kind to her and not make people complain about me.
Xiaomei didn’t have a formal job when she was young, so she doesn’t have a pension now, and she doesn’t even have a house. Before she met me, she lived with her son in the rented house. It can be said that Xiaomei enjoyed her happiness after marrying me. Although I am not a unique person, I am willing to spend money for her. More importantly, I know how to respect her.
Some men feel that they are responsible for women's daily expenses, so women should do housework, but I am different. Even if I have all the living expenses of Xiaomei, I still share the housework with Xiaomei. My idea of doing this is very simple, just hope to have a certain relationship with Xiaomei. Even if there is no love, family affection is good. If I get sick in the future, Xiaomei can help me.
I think I am as good to Xiaomei as my original wife, and I also enjoy such a remarriage life, at least I am not alone. Until some time ago, Xiaomei's approach really disappointed me.
That day, Xiaomei made a rare table of dishes. After I finished my meal, I was about to wash the dishes, but Xiaomei smiled and made a pot of tea for me, asked me to go to the living room to rest, and then she was busy cleaning herself.
I was in a good mood and felt happy. At this time, Xiaomei cleaned up the dishes and said to me, "Old Zhao, my son is in love, but you know, our family's financial conditions are not good, and my son is still renting a house, but the woman also said that if there is no bride or wedding house, they will not marry. Anyway, you have money, pension and savings, please help us. My son will definitely remember your kindness in the future and support you in the old age."
Xiaomei's words made me feel like I was in the ice cave. I thought Xiaomei was virtuous and kind, so I made a table of delicious food for me, but it turned out that there was another idea. I have seen her son several times. She is 1.8 meters tall and has a strong body and a smart mind. Logically speaking, as long as you are willing to focus on serious things, you will definitely have a future. But this kid is usually lazy and doesn't even have a serious job. He stays at home to play games all day, and has a bit of appearance. Let the girl make money to support him. If she doesn't work hard, she doesn't have enough food to eat, and she also wants to rely on her parents. I told me that such people are not worthy of a wife.
And this is not my own son. Speaking of which, I am not familiar with her son, and I have met four times before and after. With this little friendship, I want me to pay. You know, the bride price and the down payment of the house are hundreds of thousands. Although I am rich, I am not a sucker. Raising a son for other men is not a confused mind.
the more I think about it, I become more angry. I don't want to hold it anymore, and directly scolded Xiaomei: "Touch your conscience, how do I treat you during this period? What do you want? I didn't buy it for you? You eat, live and spend mine now, and I give you money to spend, but now you still want me to take out the money for you to raise your son. Don’t you think it’s ridiculous? I don’t know why you have the nerve to speak out. Moreover, I have a son myself, so I don’t need him to support me. I will find a way to get married and don’t put my ideas on me. I have some money, but I am not a boy with money! "
Xiaomei saw that I was so fierce, and she cleaned up the dishes and stopped talking. After this quarrel, Xiaomei did not mention this anymore, but she became much colder to me. She hadn't even come back to bed in a few nights recently. I probably understood that Xiaomei felt that I couldn't give her what she wanted, so she went to find the next house again.
I always had a thorn in my heart. Did Xiaomei show me affection for me because she knew I had a little money? Thinking of this, Xiaomei's purpose was not simple from the beginning. I was really touched by Xiaomei. Now that the relationship is so stiff, my marriage with Xiaomei can only come to an end.
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