The so-called "knowledge" means "only you can recognize it after you have seen it."
It is difficult to see through the essence without a certain life experience.
When you are 30 years old or even 35 years old, you will realize that no matter how vigorous or plain your life is, you must understand these problems before you are 30 years old.
1. About marriage.
As the saying goes: "Marrying the wrong man will ruin your life, and marrying the wrong wife will ruin three generations. " Whether it is a woman or a man, "Marriage is your second reincarnation."
Good marriage can double happiness. like Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang This couple , , , love at first sight to share weal and woe, and then to being together forever, , support each other in career, and live in harmony in life, and live the most beautiful appearance of love.
A bad marriage may cost you your life. go to see the "Shanghai refrigerator corpse hiding case", "Hangzhou wife killing and dismembering case", etc., because I did not meet a good man, I lost my precious life instead.
When you reach the age of 30, if you are not married, please don’t worry. Please don’t hate marriage and hate marriage. Instead, you must learn to open your eyes wide, understand and see the other person through the other person’s words and deeds, friends around you, and his growth experience, to ensure that the three views are consistent. It is best to be a good match. This kind of marriage can allow you to be reborn and live a better life.
On the contrary, if you are married, you must carefully examine your marriage. If you are sure that the person you are entrusted with is not, stop the loss as soon as possible to avoid future troubles. Of course, many discords in marriages may be just misunderstandings caused by poor communication and insufficient running-in. After all, marriage is an art that needs to be managed. You don’t have to break up if you have quarrels. You must know how to learn.
2. About the workplace
Choose the wrong industry is equivalent to marrying the wrong man.
When I was a child, I heard that some industries are becoming more and more popular as they get older. I only realized that these are all wrong after I arrived in the workplace. In today's society, qualifications are very important, but more important than qualifications, there is another hidden factor, that is "age"!
The three years of the epidemic have made many people full of yearning for stable work within the system. One day, when a friend saw a street recruitment information, he quickly called and asked, "I graduated from Zhejiang University . I have very experience in this position, but I am over 1 year old. Can I still sign up?"
The other party directly threw out two words "No", so he hung up the phone. What a painful reality.
Sometimes it’s not that you have the chance as good as you are, but age has become a gap that cannot be crossed!
If one day you want to work within the system, don’t think about it after you are 35 years old. Moreover, even the recruitment of ordinary companies has a tight age. If you just double the recruitment requirements, you will be relaxed to 40 years old at most.
So, if you want a stable job, you might as well prepare for the public exam early at the age of 30 and give yourself enough time; if you don’t plan to take the public exam and want to stick to your own industry, then you must study the industry. If you can test, take the exam. If you can accumulate more customers, accumulate more, make yourself an elite in the industry, let the company find you, and make the headhunter proud!
3. About health
For the body, there is no obvious degeneration at the age of 30, but it means that aging and disease are still far away from us. scientific research shows that cells in the human body begin to age at the age of 25, and at the age of 40, the skin gradually becomes thinner and loses elasticity. Even in terms of energy, it is easy to feel physically weak. At this time, some diseases begin to come to you, and signs of aging are slowly appearing. So if you are unaware of changes in your body, please start exercising immediately before the age of 30.
0 Sit for a long time is harmful to the body and movement is beneficial. Care to move quickly, swim, yoga, running, aerobics, , etc. If you have the conditions, it is best to ask a personal trainer to help you customize and exercise accurately to make yourself healthier.Of course, if conditions do not allow it or want to exercise more affordable, run at home, buy jump rope and that costs a few dollars and keep jumping, and learn aerobics with free videos. These are all good exercise methods.
If you have made sufficient preparations in these three aspects, you will definitely get better and better in your long life. Come on, you and me who love life!
