Big bull busy marriage emotional case series
Keywords: divorce, lover, marriage
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You won’t really think that love is everywhere after divorce? Or do you think it is better to find someone after divorce than me?
I don’t have the energy to persuade you again, and if you say you’re divorced, we’ll divorce. I want to tell you in advance that one day you will understand that a man better than me will not fall in love with you. You will regret this step sooner or later, and you and I have no way out at that time...
The above is from a marriage case. When a couple is having a divorce, their husband advises their wife.
Because of emotional conflicts, a woman wants to end her marriage. After her husband advised her several times, she became more stubborn and had to divorce.
woman once said: I want to live a simple life and have been disappointed by me for 7 years. You are right, I will be better than you if I find someone.
The man said: You don’t have to turn such a big bend, don’t make excuses. You just have someone outside and you dislike this family.
The woman asked him back: So what? Is there no one outside you? I dislike you, not this home.
man said: You believe whatever others say, don’t you think it’s sad? I forgive you once and live a good life for your child.
woman said: You are still pretending to be innocent, I am not as hypocritical as you, I dare to admit that he is better than you. It’s impossible for us to be. I don’t blame you for being ruthless, and don’t blame me for being ruthless.
Later, the couple divorced. Even though they had two very young children, the marriage inevitably came to an end. Two years later, the woman talked about her emotional mistakes and her regrets that year...
11. I quietly became a beggar who had feelings
Next, I will tell you about the marriage case of this lady. Just telling it in her tone, I will only tell it truthfully and briefly organize it to improve readability.
Actually, I really want to say that I have regretted it a long time ago. I can say regrets to many people, but I don’t have the courage to say to my ex-husband. I still care about him and our children even more.
In this world, isn’t it normal to break up or divorce?
is suitable, and don’t keep anyone inappropriate. Youth is precious and cannot withstand the squander of several relationships. Since the couple has divorced, they should work hard to live the rest of their lives. Why bother to remember?
I really couldn't figure out why so many people gradually regret it after divorce?
Before divorce, I don't think I will regret it. It was not until later that I experienced some powerless things that I slowly felt the feeling of being in the whirlpool of emotions that I could not escape.
Before I knew it, I had already turned myself into an emotional beggar. I fantasize that someone loves me, but I can't meet someone who loves me.
fantasy about divorce, I gradually realized that I have always been wrong. It turns out that among all the people I have loved, only my ex-husband is sincere to me...
I am a woman with bad luck. From love to marriage to divorce, I have experienced many things that I can't help myself.
As early as the year I went to college, I was full of passionate desire for love. Many men pursue me, and I especially like to take it for granted.
At that time, I was young and ignorant and always thought love was simple. With my eyes, my appearance, and my wisdom, it is not too difficult to find a man who loves me for the rest of his life.
But later I was not very lucky. I fell in love for several times, but finally married a very ordinary man.
I should have married my ex-boyfriend back then, and agreed to get married on the second anniversary of my relationship. But after working, we broke up and got married because of some emotional misunderstandings.
That year, I had a little conflict with my ex-boyfriend and broke up in anger.
ex-boyfriend once begged me that we could have been back together. It was my husband (ex-husband) who comforted me and encouraged me, which made me miss the opportunity to get back together with my ex-boyfriend.
I'm not saying that my husband (ex-husband) is not good enough, after all, I'm not qualified to say anything about him. I just want to say that compared to my two ex-boyfriends, my husband has not done enough in many aspects.
2. Before getting married, the couple did not owe
people. Who can say that everything you have done in your relationship can have a clear conscience?
I am just an ordinary woman, a little vanity. Faced with so many choices in love, I couldn't have a clear conscience, but I did it without losing money and owe it...
That year, I accidentally got pregnant with my husband's child, and my husband was so happy. He took me to meet my parents for credit, and the two elders were very excited and urged us to get married. In order to reassure me, they took me to see the wedding room that had been prepared long ago.
Ex-boyfriend was very sad after hearing this and was extremely disappointed with me. After calling me the last call, he never came to pester me again. I really wanted to explain seriously, but he didn't want to come out to meet and always hung up the phone impatiently.
I was in great pain at that time, and no one understood my grievances. I was in a dilemma when facing these two men and didn’t know how to choose.
Although my husband has been generous and has prepared a house in the city, I feel very heavy. Because my husband has been hiding it from me, he has a house, which is obviously a precaution against me.
I locked myself in the house and cried for several days. No one wanted to see me, I just wanted to calm down alone.
I prefer my ex-boyfriend when facing major events in life. After all, my husband and I don’t fall in love simply for love, but mainly to be serious and angry with my ex-boyfriend.
I did this just because I felt wronged and punished my ex-boyfriend in anger.
There were too many things I didn't expect, because I accidentally got pregnant and could no longer explain it calmly. Although I was wrong, I didn't mean it.
I think love is not about what you have done, but about who you are thinking in your heart. I still love my ex-boyfriend, but his words to scold me were so bad that it further hurt my heart.
After calming down for a few days, I figured it out. Since the situation is done, I must be rational in the major affairs of marriage. For the sake of the child in my belly, I agreed to marry my husband with tears in my eyes.
My husband knows the story of me and my ex-boyfriend, and we also know that we are inseparable from each other. I explained my thoughts truthfully, and my husband said he understood me and thanked me for choosing him.
So, even though my relationship is a bit complicated, I didn’t owe anything before getting married. I didn't ask him to accept me, he asked me. If he disliked me, he would not accept me at that time...
3. Ordinary marriage, extraordinary love
When I got married, I silently swear that the couple will work together to live a good life in the future. But this marriage is not what I imagined, and I become more and more unwilling to accept it as I go.
The woman's heart is emotional and delicate. Her husband has changed his heart after only 6 years of marriage. His changes cannot be hidden from my eyes, nor from my heart. When he loved me, what I said was like an imperial edict. Later he changed, and my words were like nonsense.
I want to live a good life, but he can never give me a sense of peace of mind. After 6 years of marriage, I gave birth to children for him, but in the end he didn't understand my hard work...
That day, a good sister had a conflict with her husband and was beaten out of the house by her husband and had nowhere to go. I went to comfort her and rented a house with her and lived there temporarily.
When she had lunch in the afternoon, she cried and told me a lot of things.
She said: This man is all people who are fond of the new and old, and if you have some money, you are not yourself. You all praised us for being a handsome man and awesome woman back then. It's only a few years since he found a lover outside, no matter me...
Seeing her crying fiercely, I was indignant, but I didn't know what to persuade her. Her husband's family conditions are very good, so I can only persuade her to make peace. I can't persuade her to divorce, right?
She continued: So many people pursued me in the past and loved me, but in the end I chose such a heartless person. If I had known this, I would rather marry an ordinary man.
I said to her: Don’t make trouble with him, you will suffer a loss. He might just be for a freshness, just as it's over. If you are not at ease with him, make preparations. You cannot give up your family to other women for nothing.
She said: I have been preparing for a long time, so I can't get them cheaper. Sister, I also say something to you with my heart, that we women are the weakest in marriage. You have to be careful of your husband, otherwise I am afraid that you will be the same as me.
I was shocked and said: My husband is okay, I am busy with my career and family. I have been very good to me over the years.
She said: Since you say that, just pretend I didn't say anything. In short, my sister reminds you that men are the same, they are the same, you should prepare early...
Originally, I felt that my husband had a secret, and with the hints from my sisters, I felt that I was extremely depressed.
was influenced by her and I began to be suspicious from that day on. Living an ordinary marriage, thinking about uneven love, and longing to find a sense of peace of mind...
4. Another relationship quietly breeds
As a woman despised by my husband, who knows my distress and grievances? Sometimes I can’t even understand myself, let alone my husband?
I had a lot of expectations for marriage, but later I didn’t look forward to it. Love used to be my greatest sense of security, but later I lost my sense of security...
I was thinking randomly and felt that there was someone outside my husband. That feeling was very real, which made me anxious and often quarreled with him.
After 6 years of marriage, we are all 33 years old, with children and daughters. My sisters say that many men at this age will change their minds and let me be wary of my husband.
Although my husband's family conditions are average, there are too many women who are casual about their relationship in this era. I was afraid that the women outside would approach him, and even more afraid that he would not be able to control himself.
I hope he will spend more time with me, but he thinks I'm annoying and wants to separate the bed with me. I was even more sure that there was someone outside him, otherwise he wouldn't have done this to me.
Whenever I think of my missed ex-boyfriend, I feel very sorry. I should have many choices, either choose to live a down-to-earth and peaceful life or marry a man with real conditions.
But I chose my husband who is not as good as high as low, and I regret it very much. It’s hard to describe the feeling, and I long for someone to understand my troubles and relieve my anxiety.
is worried, I have to consider it for the future.
During my saddest days, a man broke into my life. Although he is not my ex-boyfriend, he treats me sincerely like his boyfriend.
He has been divorced for 3 years and has a 5-year-old child. We met on a boat at water park , and slowly became close friends.
In the chats that open our hearts again and again, we finally crossed the friendship and had some relationships. At first, I knew it clearly. Even if I saw him every few days, I never thought I would fall in love with him.
I just long for the feeling of being loved and cared for. For the sake of my family, I chose to calm down and didn't want to show off my husband easily. As long as my husband is kind to me, I am willing to continue my marriage.
But over time, we have really cultivated feelings. When I wanted to let go, I realized that I had fallen deeply in love with him and never wanted to separate again...
5. For happiness, I showed off to my husband
dating for half a year, and I gradually felt his sincerity. Although his family conditions are not as good as his husband, he loves me and understands me. It feels like I have regained my first love, and my husband can't give it to me.
I am particularly embarrassed about how to get through this relationship, after all, I don’t want to get a divorce. But looking at my husband's performance, I am getting more and more disappointed with my marriage and my life is very hard.
When I was indecisive, the sister divorced. I don’t know what she has experienced. She got married less than 2 months after her divorce and was happier after remarriage.
She advised me to be brave and not to suffer all the time. Always have hope, happiness is not far away.
She didn't know that I had a lover outside, but her words resonated with me. While I was still young, I decided to show off to my husband and ask him to understand.
That day I asked my husband: I have been married for almost 7 years. This is not the life I want. Can we still live it?
My husband asked me what I wanted to do? I said I wanted to get a divorce, but I was too tiring to live like this. He said I was full and I was looking for trouble if I had nothing to do.
I told me about divorce 4 times that month. First of all, I really don’t want to pass it, and secondly, I can also test my husband. If I was wrong, I would give up on the idea of divorce in time. This is considered a two-handed preparation, it depends on how my husband performs.
My husband always doesn't care about my grievances.
That day I asked him: Do you treat me like this mean you have a woman outside? I beg you, get a divorce.
He actually mocked me: Don’t stop, do you think I am as casual as you? Do you think other women are people like you?
Although I disturbed him to rest, his words were too hurtful. I gave birth to two children for him, but he even exposed my scars. Is this something a man can say? If you disliked me back then, why should you marry me?
I cried that night, but he didn't comfort me. I felt his guilt and became more sure that he had someone.
A few days later I decided to showdown and he said I would regret it. I felt that he was sarcasticating me. He was like he saw it with his own eyes, saying that there were people outside, saying that I despise my family, and labeled me randomly.
didn't understand his own affairs, and he actually doubted me.
I dislike him, not his family! Don’t say that he is just guessing, so what if he sees it with his own eyes? Does he have no lover? Do he dare to swear with his conscience? What qualifications do he have to say to me?
6. There are rare special cases in love
I know there are many things in love that need to be considered carefully, but when it comes to the point of turning against each other, I don’t have so much energy to consider, I just want to divorce early.
Before divorce, I advised myself, how can there be perfect things in love? No matter how it was in the past, no matter how many pity I could not forget, I always have to face the front of my choice rationally...
unknowingly divorced for 2 years, and many things are different from what I imagined.
I missed him. He (the lover) can only speak big things, and he is reluctant to let me change my phone. He was so poor that he had a bad temper and couldn't give me any sense of stability.
has followed him for 2 years, and I don’t want to continue. But he kept pestering me and didn't let me chat with others. I am almost 36 years old and gradually become a beggar in love. I really want to find someone to live a down-to-earth life. Sometimes I cry with sorrow, why didn’t I meet a good man?
sisters advised me: If he loves you, he will not let you shed a single tear. You made the wrong choice, let’s try to remarry first.
Her words made me suddenly enlightened, but I couldn't find a chance to talk to my ex-husband. Thinking about it, I was so sorry for my ex-husband, only he was sincere to me...
This marriage case ended here. A woman's story a few months ago, without a follow-up. She should be in love again, I wish her happiness.
Regarding this case, I don’t express too many opinions, just tell it truthfully. There are many similar marriage cases, and I have talked about them in the past, and each person has a different experience.
Some marriages are OK, but there are always people who are fickle. Life is a little unhappy, and I feel that I am not lucky and I chose the wrong person at the beginning.
When they encounter difficulties in marriage, what they consider most is not how to manage a good marriage, but whether to divorce. This is related to past emotional experiences. The concept of love has been developed and it is difficult to change it again.
After divorce, love is everywhere. Is it better to find someone better than your ex?
This is a good toxic chicken soup, and in the end many people believed it.
Of course, it cannot be denied that some people with clear conscience have indeed met better people, but not many of them. Those who have conscience are even rarer.
For most people, this principle is not difficult to understand.
But many people always think that they are an exception. If others don’t meet good people, it doesn’t mean they can’t meet them. When there is no way out, you still have bad luck. In fact, there is no need to fantasize about it. This type of person is the same as anyone with.
Even if divorce is nothing great, you should think about what type of person you are before divorce. Those who are close to vermilion are red and close to ink are black. People with casual feelings cannot meet sincere love. Only the best self is worthy of the best person.
