Ancient people said:
"Water is full, overflowing, the moon is full, and loss; complacentness is defeated, and self-pride is stupid."
In life, human nature is indispensable and human nature is the worldly style and the way of dealing with people.
There is a sense of proportion in everything, there is room for speaking, and there is distance between interactions, which requires wisdom. People with low levels of
often have a high opinion of themselves and do not know how to grasp a degree.
Even if it is famous and beneficial, it will still leave people with the impression of losing prices.
And a person cannot lose the price, see if he has these four behaviors.
1 Awesome
As stated in "Sequential Flowers Bloom":
"The greatest stupidity of human nature is self-righteousness."
Arrogant people are often self-confidence and good at being a teacher.
The stupidity of an arrogant person is reflected in his vision and pattern.
They may have some experience or knowledge, and may have achieved certain status and achievements.
But they like to show off and give in to the "country" and are often proud of themselves.
Their vision and pattern are limited to the perspective.
A truly has a realm, a person who has seen the world, a person who is humble in dealing with the world, and a person who knows his limitations.
Even if you succeed, you are still simple and low-key.
If a person forgets his original intention, is arrogant and arrogant, and is "floating" in dealing with people, he will sooner or later fall.
Just as the actor who broke the scandal today, Li Yifeng .
In recent years, he has achieved certain success in his career, and has also gained a certain position in the entertainment industry, becoming the first generation of traffic youngsters.
Looking at the entertainment industry, there are only a few traffic students who can compare with it.
However, he fell into trouble and ruined his future.
traces the root of the source, because after he achieved great success in his career, he became arrogant, relaxed his vigilance and decisiveness about his behavior, and lost himself in various compliments, praises, and echoes.
You said, is this the greatest stupidity of human nature?
There is no one-time life, no one feels inferior at the trough, no one is arrogant at the peak, and always maintaining an original aspiration and awe is to respect others and even more respect one's own life.
2 Flattery
In "Smile" tells a story about flattery.
There was a scholar who had reached hell because his life span ended and saw Heaven King .
The King of Hell suddenly fart, and he immediately presented the article " fart ok " to this fart:
"Gao Qian's golden buttocks, spreading the treasure spirit. It is vaguely like the sound of silk and bamboo, as if the smell of musk orchid. I stand at a disadvantage, and it is not as fragrant as it is."
The King of Hell has added ten years of life under his flattery.
Ten years later, I will live to hell again.
Hell King asked Xiao Gui who this person is?
The little devil said, "This is the scholar who is doing nonsense!"
In life, we always meet all kinds of people, and there are not a few people who flatter and flatter like scholars.
They have low bottom line, low self-esteem, different appearances and profit-oriented goals.
They speak of right and wrong, like to compliment, and blow rainbow farts.
gives people a sense of hypocrisy and price loss.
The good medicine is good for the disease, and honest advice is good for the action.
You can listen to good things, but don’t take them seriously.
It is valuable to maintain a clear mind and correct cognition in the face of flattery.
When interacting with others, it is even more rare to not deliberately flatter and please, and not humble or arrogant.
3 Scheming
There is a saying that goes like this:
"The only thing that cannot be seen directly is the sun, the heart of the people."
Indeed, the heart of the human heart is separated from the belly, and it is difficult to distinguish whether it is a human or a ghost.
Especially in this society that focuses on interests and reality, we have learned to be good at everything and be full of scheming.
In the face of interests, yesterday was a friend, today may become an enemy;
In the face of reality, today is an acquaintance, tomorrow will be like a stranger.
So, we began to have some precautions and reservations. This kind of scheming is actually a kind of protection for ourselves.
We can leave our scheming for ourselves, but don’t use it to hurt others.
Some scheming is intrigue and intrigue, one set in person, one behind the scenes, everything is profitable,
even thinks others are fools, but they don’t know that most of the time, they are just too lazy to care about their little abacus and tricks.
When you "play with" others with your scheming, others are quietly staying away from you because it is really a waste of money to be scheming.
When fame and fortune pass by, and take advantage of all the advantages and selfish scheming will eventually gain nothing.
4 Show off
The more a person shows off, the more it lacks. The sentence
has some truth.
High-profile and show-off people reveal shallowness and inner barrenness in their every move.
show off everywhere and show off everything. I think it is very face-saving, but in fact it is very cheap.
There is a friend who always shows off how strong he has, giving people the feeling that nothing he can't do.
show off his glory in front of people and gets carried away, so there are always people asking him to help with his business.
But in fact, not everything can be done, which makes him lose some face, taste the thankless taste, and even becomes a laughing stock of others.
Some people often show that they are rich, which arouses jealousy and are discussed behind their backs. They will also be borrowed by people who have not been in contact for many years. If they don’t borrow, they are afraid of losing face. If they borrow, they will most likely go but never return.
So, being low-key can avoid a lot of trouble for you, this is a kind of cultivation and wisdom.
No matter how successful, rich, or glorious you are, you can only gain a happy life if you are low-key and humble, and indifferent and open-minded in dealing with people.
