The man ended his extramarital affair and chose to return to his family, but he still had a mistress' friend. Will he still contact him?
The cheating man said he had broken up with the mistress, but I think the two of them still have contact, what should I do?
The extramarital affair has ended for half a year, and I am still worried. How to judge whether the cheating man and the mistress are still in contact?
This is some of the questions received in the recent private messages from Blue Party. They are all about whether men who return to their families will contact the mistress.
In this article today, Lan Fang will teach you how to analyze from three aspects: whether a cheating man who returns to his family will contact a third party.
The first aspect is, does a cheating man voluntarily leave the mistress?
First of all, did the cheating man realize his mistake?
Many men think that cheating is not wrong, or cheating is not his fault.
In this case, even if the extramarital affair ends, it is still easy for him to contact the mistress.
because he didn't feel wronged, but instead felt very wronged and was forced to leave the mistress.
Secondly, is the relationship between the cheating man and the mistress broken?
Many cheating men and mistresses love each other in extramarital affairs. Although
is separated, it is not because of the lack of feelings and the relationship is broken.
It is because of the original man's coercion and inducement, and the cheating man ended because of helplessness.
At this time, the man and the mistress still have feelings for each other, so it is natural that the old love will rekindle.
One mistress contacted the cheating man with one party, but the other party would never refuse, and there was no way to completely break the relationship.
Finally, does it still have a yearning for extramarital affair?
If a man cheats on his extramarital affair, it will not end in pain, and the memories will be beautiful.
A man who cheats on his wife will still have a yearning for extramarital affair, and he is eager to cheat again.
Can't find a suitable third party, and will turn back to find the previous mistress.
The second aspect, did the original wife give the cheating man the opportunity to contact the mistress again?
First of all, it is the attitude of the original wife, whether she is indulging in cheating on a man.
Did the original wife choose to forgive the cheating man because she admitted her mistake and begged for mercy?
. Did the original wife not take any punitive measures after the cheating man returned to his family.
This attitude will make the cheating man feel that it is not a big problem to contact the mistress if he or she is contacting him or her mistress.
was discovered and as long as you beg for mercy and admit your mistake, the original wife can still forgive her.
will naturally contact the mistress unscrupulously. The words and deeds of the cheating man after returning to the family have a lot to do with the attitude of the original wife.
is the second method of the original wife, can it restrain a man from cheating?
For a man who has cheated on, the original wife must remember that you must catch the handle.
You can use the handle in your hand, but you must not do it.
Only if you have it, you can restrain the cheating man, make the cheating man afraid of you and dare not look for mistresses again.
In addition, the original wife also needs to have the means to make use of the handle of cheating on a man.
Many original members have, but they can't stop the man from continuing to look for mistresses because they are not enough.
Many times you hold the handle in your hand and keep threatening. After a long time, a man knows that you are just a threat, and he will not be afraid.
If there is a problem with a cheating man, the original wife uses the handle and has nothing in her hand, and the cheating man will not be afraid.
So the original wife must master the degree, not only to be able to pose a sense of threat to cheating men, but not to really use the only trump card, which is the best method.
Finally, it is the original wife's mentality, can it support the continued maintenance of marriage and repair the relationship between husband and wife.
Many men took the initiative to break up with their mistress, and they didn’t mean to contact their mistress after returning to their family at the beginning.
Why did a year or longer suddenly rekindle with the mistress?
Most of this situation is because there is a problem with the original wife's mentality and she cannot pass the extramarital affair.
The original wife was in pain because of her cheating and never got out of the way. She had no intention of maintaining the marriage and repairing the relationship between husband and wife.
Come off old accounts all day long and quarreled with a cheating man. The cheating man feels that this marriage is painful. In order to escape the pain, he will find a third party again.
The third aspect, will the third party continue to be entangled?
First of all, does the third party have any fear of the original partner?
If a third party is afraid of the original wife, the probability of her continuing to entangle the original wife is low.
The third party has no fear of the original wife, which is related to the original wife's way of separating the mistress and the momentum shown by the original wife.
If the original spouse is more ruthless, it will make the mistress feel that continuing to have an extramarital affair will cause him to be disgraceful, and the mistress will definitely not dare to bother him again.
mistresses are bullying the weak and afraid of the strong. The original wife is stronger and the methods are scary. The mistress dares not provoke them easily.
Secondly, does the third party have any resentment towards the cheating man?
The third party has resentment towards the cheating man. If the two break up peacefully, the mistress will not continue to be entangled.
Why do many extramarital affairs, mistresses take the initiative to entangle, and cheating men secretly contact each other?
Because the original wife forced the man to cheat and broke up, the man cheated on him did break up, but what he told the mistress was that
was forced by the original wife, and he had no choice but to love the mistress in his heart, but he had to break up.
The mistress will not resent the cheating man, and will be reluctant to leave the cheating man, and will naturally be entangled.
If the original wife uses a cheating man to solve the mistress, the two of them will fight each other before breaking up. The mistress resents the cheating man and will never be entangled.
Finally, does the third party feel that extramarital affair is unprofitable?
Most third parties are for money. If extramarital affairs are profitable,
Even if the original wife is terrible and has resentment towards the cheating man, she will continue to linger for the money.
So when the original wife resolves an extramarital affair, it is the key to grab the cheating man's wallet and let the mistress get nothing.
There is no profit in extramarital affairs. If you continue to entangle, you may be teared by the original wife, so the mistress will naturally hide away.
At the end of the article, Lan Fang wanted to say that most mistresses took the initiative to entangle men because they gave hope to the cheating men, and extramarital affairs were profitable.
Most cheating men secretly contact the mistress because they are forced to break up and still have deep feelings for the mistress.
If the cheating man and the mistress resent each other, the cheating man will not give the mistress good or hope.
The mistress can’t get anything in an extramarital affair, and he has to face the original wife’s hand tear. The mistress cannot be entangled, and the cheating man will not continue to look for the mistress.
If you have an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
