Aunt Xu and her husband both work in the factory, and 50-year-old Aunt Xu retired.
Just a few days after retirement, her husband fell ill. The lung cancer had spread and there was no way to undergo surgery. He left a year later. Aunt Xu and her husband are both first loves. Except for her husband, Aunt Xu has never contacted any men. Both of them are in love for the first time and get married in more than half a year. As for family life, Aunt Xu's mind is just love and children.
After my husband left, my child graduated from college and was admitted to civil servants. Aunt Xu took out all the savings in the family and paid the down payment for her son to buy a house. My son is responsible for paying the mortgage every month, and the house price is indeed quite high, and there are also a lot of mortgages every month. I have to pay 1,000 yuan a month to supplement my son's life.
Aunt Xu’s monthly living expenses are 2,000 yuan, and she is enough to use it alone and can still have some savings.
The sisters who retired together sometimes get together together. Others are paired up, and Aunt Xu is alone, so she often avoids it.
Aunt Xu has nothing to do at home. She told her friends that she wanted to find a relaxed job. Her friends told her that the salary of easy jobs is very low now, so she simply went to find a man to live with her. She just bought vegetables and cooked every day, and she could still earn money from working.
Aunt Xu lives alone at home, and it is also a good thing to find a wife to live with.
Friends introduced him to Master Li. Master Li is 51 years old this year, one year younger than Aunt Xu. He is still at work. Master Li is in very healthy. He often runs and swims.
Your master divorced his ex-wife three years ago. His ex-wife sold the house and moved to the city where his daughter worked to live. Master Li has no real estate now, he rents a house to live.
Aunt Xu feels that Master Li is very sunny, and among his peers, Master Li looks younger and more energetic.
Master Li also liked Aunt Xu when he saw Wenwen's quiet Aunt Xu. After more than a month of knowing each other, Master Li moved to Aunt Xu's house and started living together.
Master Li’s monthly salary is more than 5,000 yuan. She is willing to go through the marriage procedures with Aunt Xu and is willing to hand over all her salary to Aunt Xu for management.
Aunt Xu believes that you should live together for a while first, and then consider completing the marriage procedures.
As for Master Li’s salary, before completing the marriage procedures, Master Li will take out 3,000 yuan per month for household use.
The two of them started to live together. In the first three months, their lives were still very sweet. Aunt Xu was also very nostalgic for Master Li's strong body.
Master Li will do housework with Aunt Yang every day after get off work, and will accompany Aunt Yang for a walk at night.
Three months later, Master Li became lazy and did not do any housework. He also often drank and played mahjong with his friends. Sometimes I even don't come back all night. Aunt Xu is also difficult to accept this behavior.
She talked to Master Li seriously about these things, but Master Li always disagreed.
Slowly, Master Li told Aunt Xu that he could not give Aunt Xu another 3,000 yuan a month. He said that he often played cards with his friends and drank with him was not enough, so he could only pay 2,000 yuan to Aunt Xu.
2,000 yuan. The ordinary life is basically enough. Occasionally, Aunt Xu subsidizes it herself.
Because Master Li often goes home drunk, Aunt Xu feels very angry, and Aunt is very disgusted with this lifestyle.
The two people have become more and more quarrels. Master Li is very irritable. When he quarreled with Aunt Xu, his fierce look often scared Aunt Xu.
Aunt thought that she had not completed the marriage procedures with him. If this continues, she really can't stand it.
Aunt Xu told Master Li seriously: It is not allowed to stay away all night in the future. When having a party with friends, you should stop playing mahjong in moderation and reduce the number of times. You must pay 3,000 yuan in living expenses every month, otherwise everyone will break up.
Master Li received an ultimatum from Aunt Xu and was honest for another month. A month later, the old problem broke out again. After the two had a big quarrel, Aunt Xu and Master Li decided to break up.
A week later, Master Li found a house to rent and moved out by himself.
After Master Li moved away, Aunt Xu was quiet for more than a month, and she was reflecting on her mistakes in finding a partner.
She thinks that Master Li is young and not very mature. The key is that his personal cultural quality is low and his temper is very irritable. In the future, he will not be nostalgic for such a man, no matter how handsome he is or how good his figure is, he must stay away from it.
If you look for a man again, you should find someone with culture and high quality. Such people get along with each other more civilized, and will not make Aunt Xu feel scared.
After a year, Aunt Xu's friend introduced him to Teacher Zhang, a retired high school teacher, who is 67 years old and is more than teenage years older than Aunt Xu.
The two met. Teacher Zhang was very moved when he saw Aunt Xu. He liked Aunt Xu's quiet temperament and beautiful appearance. And Aunt Xu's generous and decent dress.
Teacher Zhang is gentle and elegant, and speaks softly, with a white face and a shaved beard. The hairstyle is neatly combed. Although there are a lot of gray hair, the whole person doesn't look so old.
Aunt Xu was a little hesitant. He thought that Teacher Zhang was too old and that the two of them lived together, and they didn’t know if they could adapt to each other. Teacher Zhang told Aunt Xu that he is in good health at present, he pays attention to health care, is very accustomed to healthy eating, and does not smoke, drink, or play mahjong.
Aunt Xu, I was very happy when I heard that Teacher Zhang didn’t drink. He agreed to Teacher Xu’s request and the two started to fall in love.
After the two fell in love, Teacher Xu often invited Aunt Xu to watch movies and visit the park.
When it’s time to have dinner, Teacher Zhang likes to invite Aunt Xu to a Western restaurant, which Aunt Xu likes very much. The quiet environment of the Western restaurant makes Aunt Xu feel that love is very wonderful.
After half a year of dating, Teacher Zhang and Aunt Xu began to live together. This time, Aunt Xu moved to Teacher Zhang's house.
Teacher Zhang and his daughter live in the same community, with a house of more than 130 square meters. Aunt Xu and Teacher Zhang live enough.
The first month after living in Teacher Zhang's house, Teacher Zhang took good care of Aunt Xu and cared for her. Teacher Zhang's salary was 8,000 yuan. He gave 4,000 yuan a month to Aunt Xu, responsible for all living expenses at home.
Teacher Zhang asked Aunt Xu to rent out her house. Aunt Xu thought this idea was good, so she did as she did.
Teacher Xu arranged his life in an orderly manner, and Teacher Zhang was also very satisfied.
Since the third month, Teacher Zhang often calls his daughter to come home for dinner. The daughter has a family of three, plus Aunt Xu and Teacher Zhang, and Aunt Xu has to cook two meals a day.
Only on weekends did Teacher Zhang's daughter and her family not come to have a meal.
This way, the living expenses of 4,000 yuan a month are barely enough, and Aunt Xu feels very tired. After all, she has to make meals for five people. There are many things to do when buying vegetables, cooking, cleaning, and cooking. Aunt Xu is often busy from morning to night all day.
At the beginning, Teacher Zhang also helped. Later, Teacher Zhang no longer interfered in any housework. When he was free, he watched TV, read books, or lie in bed to rest.
He told Aunt Xu: He is old and needs to rest frequently.
Aunt Xu came to Teacher Zhang's house and wanted to cook for five people. The 4,000 yuan living expenses given by Teacher Zhang were just enough.
Aunt Xu is awake. Teacher Zhang lives with him, not only to let Aunt Xu take care of his life, but also to use Aunt Xu to take care of her son, daughter-in-law, son-in-law and grandson.
The emotional life of the elderly is really not that simple.
Aunt Xu decided to leave Teacher Zhang, she found the tenant of her house and terminated the rental contract.
Aunt Xu took time to clean her house. After half a day, Aunt Xu asked someone to move her things back to her home.
Teacher Zhang tried to keep him, but Aunt Xu refused firmly. Teacher Zhang watched Aunt Xu move, without saying anything or helping. The two broke up lightly.
Aunt Xu's experience of living with her two times, she completely understood that these single old men were more cunning than foxes.
These two old men lived with Aunt Xu, not because of their relationship, nor because of their purpose of taking care of each other, and always wanted to use Aunt Xu to take care of their lives.
Aunt Xu decided to live alone in the future. Even if she dies alone, she will never find such an old man to live with her.
