The imbalance of male-female ratio makes some men unable to find the object, but in fact, the reason why the object cannot be found, or the fundamental reason is not the imbalance of male-female ratio. The imbalance of male-female ratio only accounts for a small part of the reason. Moreover, data shows that the imbalance of male-female ratio in China is currently effectively decreasing and has dropped to a range that can be deviated. It can be seen that the relationship between men who cannot marry is not very important because of more men and fewer women. So which relationship is it?
I personally think the most fundamental reason is the economic development. The economic development has enabled all men and women to have the same job opportunities and receive the same treatment. Some women are even given higher treatment than men, which is somewhat different from the traditional Chinese idea of high men and low men. However, even if Chinese women and men have a bit equal salary, their requirements are still traditionally upward compatible. This is very difficult. In the past, men and women asked men to find partners to be strong and just have a job. Now they require houses, cars and savings. The so-called three members are even more difficult.
So the frequent development is the fundamental reason. We see that in the past, if a woman was widowed, she would soon find a man to live by the way because she couldn't live alone and didn't dare to live, and she wouldn't even think about it. And many women dare not divorce even if they do or harsh , because they are homeless after the divorce. And in China, all this is slowly changing. Feminists think I am living a good life alone, so why should I marry a man? It's so hard to do laundry and cook for him, and give birth to a baby for him. All of this is aware that all previous concepts are changing, or that some normal products after the improvement of the status of Chinese women. In other words, women have high requirements, which leads to not marrying casually and men cannot marry their wives. This is the real reason for being single.
From another perspective, in any era and any society. It is extremely difficult for poor people to marry, so do you say that only a single man can be found now? It is impossible. Bachelors should be a product that has always existed. But those bachelors would think that my current bachelors have so much money and are so much better than the previous bachelors. Why can't they marry a wife? In fact, when we compare, we should not compare forward, but we should compare sideways. Just say that you are not much better than the people before, but you are much better than the people now. If you are still at the bottom of society, it is normal for you to not be able to marry a wife.
In summary, with the development of this social economy, the economic foundation of determines the superstructure . So, the status of women has risen to this society so far, which is a very good situation. It is understandable that women say they don’t marry easily enough, and they don’t get married easily. What everyone should understand more is that if the proportion of single men and women increases, we should also understand, after all, this is also an inevitable product of economic development.
