Regarding the bad original family, a netizen talked about her childhood, and his heart hurts after listening.
She said that her parents prefer boys over girls and never liked her.
So she not only did not feel love, but was also pushed into the abyss by her parents invisibly.
so much that she has been in a life experience of healing childhood hurt.
At that time, her home was in the countryside, and there were only two bedrooms at home.
One of them is a little larger, and there are two beds, one larger and the other smaller.
When she was still young, she slept in that small bed.
But when she was five years old, she had a younger brother and her parents asked her to sleep in another room.
The room is very small, with a bed, a table and a chair, and some debris added. It is usually used when relatives and friends stay overnight.
She wanted to sleep in the same bed with her younger brother, but her parents refused to let her down, for fear that she would overwhelm her younger brother at night.
After she slept alone to another room, she was very scared at first, but gradually felt very free and had a personal space.
But then I had a nightmare. When relatives and friends came to my house and needed to stay overnight, her mother arranged to go to that room and let her sleep with the guests.
Forget it, the male guest doesn't care about it, and she thinks she is just a child and doesn't care.
Originally her mother could let her sleep with her younger brother, or change it: mother and daughter sleep, and male guest sleeps with her father.
But her mother couldn't bear to leave and never sleep in separate beds with her father.
Later, her nightmare came. After being molested by a male guest, she even got sleepy after getting older...
She didn't dare to tell her parents at all, and she didn't understand what was going on. Every time a man stays overnight, he is extremely scared. He asks his parents for help and wants to sleep in the same room with them, but he will be ignored.
Later, she went out to work with someone before she finished elementary school, just to escape from that home and those bad feelings.
When she grew up, she understood some things about men and women, and she felt that she was dirty. Because of this, she never dared to fall in love, refused men to show kindness, was afraid and disgusted, and was always in an unhealthy state.
Later, her parents became the main point of marrying a man in the village with good conditions, but she didn't dare to resist and still got married.
After marriage, my husband found out that it was not the first time she was, and he didn't respect her. family violence and insulted her, and later gave birth to a daughter, so he lost his status.
In order for her daughter to avoid being hurt like herself, she kept swallowing her anger and kept taking care of her baby.
This also leads to no income and no way to go out to work, and it is very difficult to live.
Later, her daughter grew up, and she ran away from home with her daughter, working while taking care of her daughter. After many years, she completed the divorce procedures, which was also considered to be out of the sea of suffering.
She has many problems. She has not been loved and was ruined since childhood, so she is always inferior.
is also a pleasing personality and often doesn't know how to refuse.
cannot untie the knot in your heart, and can only suffer and suffer from inner torture. Most girls like
who have been "wronged" because of their original family since childhood will choose not to say it, keep it confidential, and think it is their fault.
did not receive the love of the family and was persecuted by the family. They were also confused and helpless, but had nowhere to ask for help.
is mostly able to rise and fall in the arrangement of fate. If you are lucky, you will get some comfort later when you encounter the cognitive influence of people with destiny or destiny, so you can see it and live a good life again.
There are also some people who live in the shadows all their lives. Is it wrong for parents to blame for
? certainly.
Just encountering such parents, it may be that they have set their own destiny and must suffer this disaster.
Things to pay attention to, disasters are inevitable, but after experiencing them, remember to encourage and comfort yourself, and don’t blame yourself, because that’s not your fault.
If possible, believe in cause and effect, accept what has happened, and forgive your parents for not protecting themselves.
The most important thing is to pay more attention to your current self, don’t sink into the shadow of the past, and be kind to yourself...
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I am Wuran, I am lucky to meet you.
