Due to the influence of the idea of favoring boys over girls, some women also have deviations in their concept of marriage, thinking that getting married is cheaper for the man. Therefore, when getting married, they think that it is not easy for their parents to raise themselves. In order to repay their parents' family, they try hard to ask for bride gifts and property from their in-laws when getting married.
Jinxiang went out to work after graduating from junior high school. Her mother told her: Your dad and I have been growing for most of our lives and have not earned much money. If you go out to work, you must make money well. In the future, your brother will spend a lot of money to get married! Jinxiang nodded in agreement.
Jin Xiang really listened to her mother very much and gave all the money she earned from working to her parents.
As the saying goes, a man should get married when he is old, and a woman should get married when he is old. Jinxiang is at the age to get married. Because Jinxiang is beautiful, the person who comes to propose marriage has broken through the threshold. Later, he got married with a young man named Li Bo.
When getting married, Jin Xiang proposed: She must give her a bride price of 200,000 yuan, and she must also buy a house for her younger brother. Li Bo said: Your asking price is too high! Jinxiang said: Is it tall? After I get married to you, I will give you children and earn money for you. The value I create is far more than this! Li Bo was angry and said: You are very valuable, so you can find someone who can afford you!
Li Bo decided not to marry Jin Xiang, and his mother, Grandma Wang, said: Son, marriage is a major event in life, that is, when spending money, she will give her whatever she wants! Li Bo said: She wants too many things, we can’t afford it! Grandma Wang said: Don’t be afraid, just take out all the loans, and pay them off slowly when you get married!
So, Li Po bought a house with a loan and handed over the key to the house to Jinxiang, and Jinxiang agreed to get married.
On the day of the wedding, when the wedding team arrived at Jinxiang's doorstep, Jinxiang did not get on the car. She said: The 200,000 yuan bride price is less, and another 50,000 yuan is added, because I am more beautiful than others! Li Bo was so anxious that he asked his mother what to do. His mother said: Listen to her, add it! Soon, someone sent 50,000 yuan in cash. Jin Xiang got into the car.
Jinxiang and Li Bo’s honeymoon period just passed, Grandma Wang smiled and said to Jinxiang: You are pregnant, you should eat more good food in the future, nourish your body well, and give birth to a fat boy for our Li family in the future! Then, Grandma Wang took out a handful of notes and said to Jinxiang: We spent a lot of money to marry you, and all of them need to make money to pay back the debt. This is the note to buy a house for your brother, and this is the note to lend to your parents' betrothal gifts...
Stop talking about it! Jin Xiang was angry and shouted: You are all liars. When I got married, I wanted a house and cash, and I didn’t ask for a loan! Grandma Wang said: You said, when you got married, we did give us a house and cash, but you didn’t say that we would not let us take out a loan. We don’t have money, how can we meet your requirements without a loan?
Li Bo said: We are married and we are a family. You are still pregnant, so you should think about the family. Forget the other money we spend on getting married, we have completed the down payment loan for your brother to buy a house and the future repayment contract. Leave it to your brother and let him repay the loan in the future!
Jinxiang lay on the bed and cried bitterly, crying while crying: I don’t have the face to look for my brother!
One morning, when Li Bo woke up, he found that there was no Jinxiang beside him. The family hurriedly searched for it. There was no Jinxiang, and then hurried to Jinxiang's parents' home to search. No, just when everyone was anxious, Li Bo sent a message from Jinxiang on his mobile phone: I'm leaving, don't look for me!
Grandma Wang immediately said to her son: She is pregnant, where can she go alone? How can I not look for her? I must find her home!
Because of the high bride price and the demand for a house for my mother's younger brother, the originally beautiful marriage turned into a transaction, which brought pain to both parties! There are many similar phenomena in life. How to prevent this phenomenon from happening is probably difficult, because as long as the traditional concept of favoring boys over girls cannot be eliminated, this phenomenon will always happen.
