It’s so difficult for men to start a business and take care of their families. A man’s nature is to never give in, so he keeps working hard during his growth. But if a man wants to succeed, he cannot rely solely on his strength. The premise is that he must understand what is most important to him?
If a man wants to succeed, he must not work hard blindly. He must have a plan to distinguish the primary and secondary things. A man should pay attention to four responsibility fields in his life. Only by cultivating well can he have a gratifying harvest. These four responsibility fields are as follows:
Responsibility Field 1: Plow the family's responsibility fields well.
Family is always a strong backing for a person. Only when family matters are handled properly can you be at ease and worry-free when doing other things.
Men should take good care of the elderly in their families. The most important thing for being a son is to be grateful for your parents' upbringing. Even if your parents do not give you a rich and noble life, you must do your best to be filial to your parents. Filial piety to parents is not a burden, but nourishing one's character. Your words and deeds are the best education for your children, and they also set an example for your children.
Men should raise children well at home. Men have elderly people and young people. While taking good care of the elderly, they should also pay attention to the education and cultivation of their children, because this is a responsibility and a continuation of their own life.
If you can’t do these two little things well in your family, then a man’s life will be incompetent. If your family responsibilities are not fulfilled, and if you talk about other responsibilities, others will not believe that you have this responsibility.
Responsibility field 2: Plow the responsibility field of marriage well.
Men all hope that their career will be successful, and they seem to feel that their life will be perfect with infinite power and huge wealth. Little do people know that there is something more important than career and money to men, that is, having a good wife.
A good wife is a good wife to a man. She can gently comfort you when you are exhausted, and remind you to grasp the right direction when you are proud and complacent. A good wife can help you take care of your family affairs and will allow you to work hard without any worries.
The importance of a good wife is self-evident, but a good wife needs to be loved by a man. A man spoils his wife is a true expression of love and is also a result of responsibility. Men understand their wife’s efforts and understand their difficulties. Therefore, they will value their wives and cherish them. Even if they are bad wives, men will not be tempted by women from outside.
Responsibility field three: Responsibility field for farming well.
A man is equivalent to a flag of the family. He must work hard to support his family, and this flag of the family can be forever flying.
A man’s career is not big or small. As long as he works hard and responsibly, the final result will not be too bad. If you are afraid, you are afraid that men will not have the sense of responsibility, and have limited abilities but are more determined than the sky.
If a man wants to succeed in his career, he must first learn to bend down, study and summarize his experience seriously, and take action decisively at the right time. Don’t be complacent if you succeed, and don’t be decadent and discouraged if you fail. You must always have high fighting spirit and perseverance to not give up until you succeed.
Only when a man succeeds in his career can he take on the responsibility of his family and be worthy of this banner of his family.
Responsibility field 4: Plow the healthy responsibility field.
Men should take good care of the elderly, raise children, love their wives, and work hard for their careers. The premise of all this is to have a good body.
Men are very tired, they have to bear everything and bear all their worries. They are bound to have problems in their bodies. Therefore, men must pay attention to taking care of their bodies, undergo regular physical examinations, and grasp their health.
Men should know that your body is not only yours, but also your parents, children, wives behind you. You are their hope and their backer, so your health is particularly important.
This field of men is both a responsibility and an obligation. As long as you do your part well, I believe that everything will not be bad.
