We need to take the initiative to get along with lovers. You run towards me and I run towards you. This kind of relationship is sweet;
If two people want to last for a long time, we need to each other. You care about me and I care about you. Only by getting along with you like this is happy.
Work hard alone, no matter how much effort you use, it will be useless.
Some people, if you are too enthusiastic, not only will you not be cherished, but it will make people feel redundant.
Whether it is a couple or a lover, don’t take the initiative to do these three things, you will lose as soon as you take the initiative.
01. No matter how much love you, don’t lose yourself
Some people, in a relationship, have completely become the state of "you".
Just be happy , just be comfortable, I will try my best to become what you like, and I can do whatever you ask for.
So, in order to cater to the other party, he lived like he was disgusted by himself.
In order to make the other party happy, he forgot that he also needs others to care for.
people always think that if they give everything they have, they will make the other party cherish it, but they don’t know that they can’t move others, they will only move themselves.
A person lives without himself and gives too much, and the other party thinks your efforts are not precious.
is too easy to get, and we often don’t cherish it, and so is the relationship. We can love someone, but we cannot give up ourselves and love others.
If the person you care about doesn't care about you at all, then you must learn to stay away from him, otherwise you will be hurt sooner or later.
02. No matter how much you love, don’t bother the other person
A relationship, don’t lose yourself, and don’t bother the other person at the same time.
Don’t pester the other party and ask:
Where did I not do well enough? Why don’t you cherish it?
In fact, sometimes, whether it is good or not is one thing, and whether the other party cherishes it or not is another matter.
Don’t worry about everything, always look for problems in yourself. Sometimes it’s really not your problem, but the other party doesn’t take you seriously.
A person who doesn't take you seriously will not see even if you give much.
Because you are not someone in his eyes, your efforts will only be useless.
entanglement of a person is impossible to cherish except for being disgusted and feeling that you have lost the price.
It is not scary to be loved, it is scary to be stubborn!
03. No matter how much you love, don’t lose the bottom line
Love others without the bottom line, and in the end, you are destined to have nothing.
Some women, even though they know that the other party will only lie to her, they will still believe what he said in his mouth is sincere next time.
So, I was deceived again and again, and finally cheated became commonplace. I was still going on, feeling wronged myself, but I couldn't move the other party.
Some women have been treated violently, and have been endlessly treated. They don’t know how to withdraw, so they have been living in pain and cannot extricate themselves.
is not treated fairly and has no bottom line patience, which is mostly worse.
No matter who we get along with, the bottom line cannot be lost. That is the foundation between people.
has no bottom line and will not be respected; without principles, you will only be bullied! It's the same with anyone.
