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When talking to my best friend about her ex, my best friend asked me thoughtfully:
Do you think he will still remember me now?
I didn't answer. When she asked me, she had an answer in her heart. No matter how I answered, she could not escape the meaning of comfort.
This is how people are. Even between friends who are intimate, some kind lies cannot avoid embarrassment.
The breakup between my best friend and her ex was brought up by her ex! The reason is not very sufficient, and the two of them end with a sentence of "inappropriate".
The two months before the man broke up, the two people quarreled.
As a bystander, I understand very well that all the quarrels between my best friend and her ex before they broke up were "premeditated".
When the quarrel reaches a certain level, the reason for breaking up will be easily accepted by people.
In fact, many people don’t know that the meaning behind the word “breakup” is completely different when spoken by men and women.
A woman can probably be saved. Because right and wrong are common postures that women often have in relationships.
It is most likely that a man will not be saved. Unless he meets some people who are not as good as the old ones after going around.
Men are rational after all when facing feelings. He is rational when he is with you, and so is he when he is separated. Every step, he has a clear mind and will not be influenced by emotions like a woman.
When a man loves you, it is true, and when he doesn’t love you.
After breaking up, women will fall into a painful period for a long time. After a man takes the initiative to break up, he will easily start a new relationship and a new life.
How long will a man forget his ex after breaking up?
It depends on who proposed the breakup first!
A man passively breaking up will make him unable to let go of it for a while because of his desire to conquer.
Men will break up and will soon forget you!
Generally speaking, men take the initiative to break up, and they are all prepared in advance. And his soon forgetting of a woman's ruthlessness is because of the following reasons:
First: After hormones, it is rational
When facing feelings, a man initially caused possessiveness under the action of hormones because of some favorable feelings, which made him burst out with enthusiasm.
This point destined that a man’s efforts to love are subtraction.
When you conquer and have a woman, your passion fades, your hormone index decreases, and a man returns to reason, the sustainability of this relationship will be considered decisively based on "real value".
When all the man's desire for conquest, possessiveness and exploration for a woman are satisfied in time, the man's desire for cherishing women is not so strong.
And in this relationship, when women do not have substantial "existence value", men will be decisively separated.
Remember, whether a man chooses you has nothing to do with how many promises he has given you.
He would also think of fulfilling the promise a man once gave you, but later he found that he didn't have to fulfill it, it didn't matter what he had said before.
When the woman's existence is not worth enough, the woman's flaws will be exposed once, and the man will reduce his recognition of the relationship once.
In fact, no man has changed, only who has shown human nature more obvious.
Second: Breakup is a man's "premeditated"
Have you discovered that a relationship cannot continue. Whether it is a woman who actively breaks up in order to get the accurate answer to be loved or a man breaks up in order to break up, and finally reaching a consensus on "breakup", it is a man's "premeditated".
When a man continues to love you, although it will make women feel anxious about gains and losses due to interactions, when a woman wants to get the accurate answer to being loved, the man will give her timely peace of mind.
A man decides not to love you anymore and doesn’t mention breaking up. He wants to give the woman the right to take the initiative to break up, so he escapes the responsibility of taking the responsibility for breaking up.
And a man takes the initiative to break up, which means he no longer cares about how women or other people around him view him. If he decides not to love, he will withdraw from the world of women as soon as possible to avoid being entangled!
The man who loves you doesn’t need to test with breakup. A man who doesn’t love you, no matter who proposes the breakup, will eventually achieve “consistent words and deeds” by using a real breakup.
The man who loves you will always care for your emotions. He will not let your news sink to the sea, he will not use busyness as an excuse to avoid your contact, he will give you a sense of security at any time.
A man who doesn’t love you will only ask you to be "sensible", will only compare you with others, and will only deny you at all times.
love is made. Breakup was planned. When a man no longer gives you, but treats you with an indifferent and perfunctory attitude, stop thinking about keeping him with what you think is "my good"!
Third: After breaking up, men will soon forget you
In the early stage of breaking up, men will occasionally think of your shadow in their minds, but it is definitely not reluctance, but a habit that has been established for a long time.
Some people say that men will be very casual in the early stage of breaking up, but they will suffer soon. In fact, this is not the case.
Men will soon enter a new life and develop new feelings. What's more, it will surprise women to "seamlessly connect". Do you think he will remember you?
The man who has you in his heart will not choose to leave you. A seamless connection between men has long been in ambiguous and transboundary relationships.
Men will think of your kindness unless the person he meets later is not as good to him as you, and the "benefit" brought to him is not as great as you.
Or, if he is stabbed by someone later, he will think of you to find comfort for himself.
women who think men will remember themselves are really using their innocence to numb themselves.
When a man thinks of you, it is because there is no suitable candidate around him. Only in order to make some "cheap" profitable will you have an intermittent connection with you.
Wait until a good choice comes, he will still leave if he should! Moreover, contacting you does not mean "remember you". Leaving you is the best way to forget.
advises women:
: When a man takes the initiative to break up, no matter what, you don’t look back;
: When you take the initiative to break up, the man asks you to get back together, he really makes changes for you, and you will truly believe in the rest of your life;
: A man has broken up for more than 3 months and is here to save him. Don’t believe his “love”; : Don’t please humbly and cater to save him. No matter what, don’t lose your dignity;
: When you insist on being yourself and make yourself better and better, you will find that the man who left you is not worthy of you at all!
Everyone has negative emotions. When you are willing to put negative emotions aside, you can not be bound by it. In the end, it depends on whether you are willing to do that!
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