Emotional marriage and love expert says: Don’t marry a man with poor hearts, and don’t marry a man with a bad family in his original family.
People who have experienced it said: Don’t pursue anything you love or not. Money is the hard truth, and material things are the foundation of life.
However, women are emotional after all. When love comes, they have no extra brain to think. As long as lovers can finally get married, they are willing to accompany them when they have enough water.
Only after suffering all the hardships of life can women wake up, but it’s a pity that they can no longer look back.
Ms. Zhang is a woman who married a poor man for love. Ms. Zhang admitted that if time came back, she would never choose to marry a poor man, because marriage to marry a poor man is even more tragic.
days just passed, and her husband cheated on her
Ms. Zhang is 38 years old and is the mother of two children.
The reason why Ms. Zhang has such a deep feeling about marrying a poor man is because she married a poor man. She has been with the poor man for many years. Life is just over a little while Ms. Zhang finds that her husband cheated on her.
Ms. Zhang is exhausted physically and mentally, and has no expectations for marriage and life.
Ms. Zhang really couldn't figure out how high her husband was, and she didn't have much income and didn't have much achievements. Why did she have the ability and courage to find a mistress? Ms. Zhang didn't understand what the mistress thought. Her husband didn't have much money, and she was not young or handsome, so why was she willing to waste her priceless youth with her?
In this relationship between three people, only Ms. Zhang is the only one who is rational, and only Ms. Zhang is the only one who is injured. Her husband and mistress are selfless in love and have no shame.
survived the most difficult time, but did not win a good life
Ms. Zhang remembered that when she just got married, the two of them were lying in a 20-square-meter rental house, and they were counting for three meals a day, and their first child was also born in a rental house.
At the most difficult time, the couple ate instant noodles for a month and ate a fast food worth 8 yuan together.
But neither of them complained, but lived hard, warming each other. Life gradually got better. They changed from a 20-square-meter rental house to a one-bedroom rental house. Later, they changed to a two-bedroom residential house and one-living room residential house. Later, they bought a house by themselves.
In order to make the family lively, the couple decided to have a second child. Although the house has not been completed and the pressure is still very high, Ms. Zhang believes that life will always get better.
After finally completing the house, the children grew up slowly, and their husband's monthly income also increased to around 10,000 yuan per month. Ms. Zhang thought that the rest of her life would be a good life. But unexpectedly, my husband actually cheated on him.
All the efforts have been fed to the dog
The husband's cheating is so firm. No matter how hard Ms. Zhang tries to keep her, her husband is devoted to her and takes less and less care for her family. Even if she is forced to stay at home, she still has a cold face, not saying, not responding, not answering.
In order to bring back the husband's thoughts, Ms. Zhang reasoned with her husband, talked about the past, and tried to exchange her husband's conscience. However, my husband's conscience had already fed the dog.
The husband said to Ms. Zhang: "For the sake of your many years of followers, I will not divorce you, but don't worry about my business. If you can bear it, you will suffer it. If you can't bear it, get out."
Looking at her husband's cold face, Ms. Zhang met this man again for the first time. Thinking about the time, because of love, she married him, who was poor and innocent, and was willing to work hard with him. Nowadays, life is better and the children are in pairs. But the beautiful image of the past has changed suddenly and has become the furthest and most familiar "stranger".
More than ten years of hard work have fed the dog.
Advice: Poor men are careful to marry
In fact, although their lives are much better than before, compared with those who live a good life, their lives are really ordinary. A house to settle down, a car to transport, and a husband’s monthly salary is about 10,000 yuan. Apart from that, they don’t have more.
However, even with such conditions, the husband still cheated.
Ms. Zhang couldn't figure out where the husband got the confidence to cheat. Two children had to be raised. Although the house had been paid, as the children grew up, there would only be more and more places to spend money. The couple is already middle-aged, and both are making money and careers have been established.
After so many years of hard life, it has been easier for me to live a little bit. How could I be so ungrateful and so short-sighted?
It was not until then that Ms. Zhang understood why so many people who have experienced it advised young people not to marry poor men when they get married, because most poor men are not only poor, but also poorer.
