Preface:
Marriage is a major event in life. Couples should live together for a lifetime. Remember not to treat it as a joke. As the saying goes, "Women cannot marry a good husband, they will harm them for a lifetime. Men cannot marry a good wife, they will harm three generations." Therefore, when we are in love, we should be close to each other, and each other should have a deeper understanding. No car, no house, no savings, and poor living are not key issues. As long as the couple work together after marriage, work together and work together, these difficulties can be overcome and solved.
What I fear is that people with different appearances, unrighteous views, and extremely poor character are blinded by their sweet words before marriage. Once they live together for a long time, their true colors will be revealed and their true colors will be revealed. Therefore, before marriage, the other party must deepen their understanding. The main thing is to understand people's qualities to avoid the hidden dangers of divorce after marriage. This article tells the true story of Li Xiumei's blinded by her husband after remarrying. Because she was confused by a man with a bright appearance, elegant dance posture, and humorous conversation before marriage, she was confused and did not be cautious and carefully understood the character of a man. After marriage, men seek flowers and willows, often cheated, and eventually led to parting ways and divorce. Perhaps in the future, it will be a warning to those who enter the marriage hall.
Gao Xiumei is fifty-eight years old this year, and her pension is 5,500 yuan a month. Not long ago, she remarried again. The other party was a man seven years older than her. She was very nice to her at first, but after marriage, she found that he was a wolf in human skin.
Five years ago, my husband died of cancer, and Gao Xiumei and her son depended on each other. When her husband just left, she remembered every day that for so many years, her husband had cared for her, tolerant and meticulous care. When she was sick, he was in front of her bed, brought water and food, drove away the cold and asked about her well-being, and took care of her patiently and meticulously. Her husband rushed to do the hard and tiring work at home, for fear that she would be tired. Gao Xiumei originally wanted to join hands with him to grow old together, so she would prevent her husband from becoming sick and becoming blind. She left her wife early and left her to leave her life. From then on, the family was separated from yin and yang. Her husband's death was a big blow to her. At that time, it was painful and her whole body was heart-wrenching pain. Fortunately, she was accompanied by her son, Gao Xiumei slowly let go. She also figured out that birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable in life.
But later, my son was transferred to another place to work. Gao Xiumei was left in the huge home. She felt so quiet and empty, without much fireworks, three meals a day, except for the sound of pots and pans, there was no sound at home, which made her deeply understand how lonely and desolate the family living alone was. She was lonely and could only sleep all night to accompany her.
As time goes by, Gao Xiumei's desire for family affection is more urgent, and the feeling of loneliness and helplessness is very strong.
She really looked forward to having someone to accompany her, even if it was just talking, but her son couldn't count on him. He had his family and work. Gao Xiumei was very clear about these things at that time. After thinking about it, it was better to find a man to accompany her for the rest of her life.
Gao Xiumei met him in the square. Every day at home, Gao Xiumei did nothing and felt bored. After dinner, she often went to the square to watch the dancers dancing and singing. Because Gao Xiumei couldn't dance, she had to watch from the side. He suddenly walked up to Gao Xiumei and invited her to dance with him. Gao Xiumei said, "I can't dance." He said, "Come and I will teach you." It turned out that he was a retired teacher at the dance academy. , 65 years old this year, speaks humorously and funny, and dances very well. Although he is a sixty-five-year-old man, dressed neatly and has a clean and clean face. He looks like a man with a regular life. Many middle-aged and elderly women are attracted by his charm. Gao Xiumei is not like other women, and she talks endlessly around him. She just admires his dance posture and has no love for him in her heart. Every time she finishes dancing, she takes things and goes home.
But love is like this. The more enthusiastic you are to him, the more he will not care about your existence. The less you care about you, the more you go up, the more he will stay away from you. Now, Gao Xiumei's inattention attracted the old man's attention. Now that he has mastered the key points of dancing, Gao Xiumei will not take the initiative to approach the old man, but instead he is looking for trouble for Gao Xiumei to chat. I really admire the old man's eloquent mouth, with sweet words, soft and hard bubbles. He had to coax it down on the tree. Every time he had a contact with Li Xiumei, she was always filled with joy by him in his beautiful language, but her heart was sweet. Since Li Xiumei met the old man, she could not withstand the old man's attacks with both soft and hard, or took advantage of the temptation of small favors and favors. She finally agreed to get along with him. At the same time, her lonely heart was captured by the old man. After less than three months of living together, they got a marriage certificate and entered the palace of marriage, and officially accompanied each other in life together.
After marriage, I started living together first. Those few months were pretty good. The two did housework together and went shopping in the mall, went to the bar, and danced together after dinner. They were inseparable every day. Li Xiumei and the old man were full of interest in life, and each felt the comfort and joy in their hearts after several months of marriage.
But this kind of happy atmosphere did not last long, and the old man's true appearance was revealed. He often went out to drink with his friends or was intoxicated by the lack of money on the mahjong table, so he asked Li Xiumei for it. If the food at home was not in line with his taste, he would lose his temper and his face was covered with dark clouds, which made Li Xiumei feel quite embarrassed because the two had just been married for a few months. If they were divorced, they would make others laugh. Li Xiumei had to bear it again and again, and always wanted to use her gentleness and patience to influence him, but things went against her wishes. The more she gave in, the more the old man became more and more aggressive.
Until one day, a good friend of Li Xiumei told Li Xiumei that she saw the old man and a beautiful woman in her forties, holding hands and shopping together, looking a little intimate and unrelated.
Li Xiumei, when she heard her girlfriend say that his newly married wife was a person who was fickle and irresponsible to marriage and family, Li Xiumei didn't say anything about her. She pretended to be kept in the dark as before, and didn't know anything about her wife.
She began to track her husband's movements. One night at about nine o'clock, the old man got up and went out. Li Xiumei followed him. The old man sneaked to the gate of a small courtyard. He knocked on the gate a few times and saw a charming woman. He opened the door and said in a coquettish mouth: "Why did you come here? I miss you so much." The old man said: "I miss you the same way," and slipped into the yard as he said.
As the saying goes, "Take the thief and get the dirty, catch the evildoer and catch the two." Li Xiumei made up her mind this time and must completely subdue the old man who is looking for flowers and willows. So she called eight or nine men and women, friends, to catch the evildoer in the courtyard. In order not to disturb the pair of dogs, they quietly climbed over the wall. When they arrived at the courtyard, Li Xiumei shouted the old man's name. The words said, "You guy and a woman, hurry up and get up, otherwise we will knock the doors and windows and walls." At this time, the old man's legs were shaking so hard that he couldn't stand steadily. When he opened the door, everyone took the opportunity to enter and rushed into the bedroom together. They saw a white and fat middle-aged woman who was not dressed and looked about thirty-five or six years old. She was a little panicked and said incoherently, "You can't blame me for this, it was all the old man who seduced me." After hearing this, everyone did not take the woman home, so they took the old man home. During this period, Li Xiumei swallowed her anger and said, "The mantis stalks the cicada, and the oriole is behind." Today, Li Xiumei was the happiest day because she completely subdued this old man.
That's not to be careful. When I got home, the old man didn't look like repentant at all. He said shamelessly: "Who man doesn't like it? Young and beautiful women, the same is true for you women. He always wants to adjust the taste. Don't be strange about things between men and women. I won't take them home. Even if I'm worthy of you, don't meddle in other people's business. Turning around and having a blind eye, women will be happy if they are confused."
Li Xiumei was so angry that she heard this that she was so angry that she said to the old man: "I have a pension and can support myself. Why do I have to suffer such a coward? I am a free nanny for others and raise a husband who is looking for flowers and asking for help. I am really full of food. I want to divorce you."
Li Xiumei proposed to divorce him, but her husband refused to divorce him and said shamelessly: "His cheating was caused by the woman's repeated seductions. He was obsessed with the woman for a while and he was fooled with that woman. As long as Li Xiumei no longer filed for divorce, he will turn aside in the future, live a good life with Li Xiumei, and spend the rest of his life together." Li Xiumei was determined to divorce, but her husband was so obsessed with her, and there was no way. In the end, only her son intervened, and they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures. Li Xiumei has now decided that she will find a man to remarry in the future to save trouble.
Postscript:
Whether it is first marriage or second marriage, whether it is young looking for lovers, abandoning widows, finding a wife to remarry, spending old age together, marriage and family are two things that can live in one lifetime, and you must be cautious and understand each other carefully. You have no car, no house, no savings, and a poor life. You can make up for the bad character and the wrong values.
Whether men or women, they are good at socializing, knowledgeable, and talk big about the first image. The person who fascinates you may be the bright and beautiful appearance, which blinds you. After getting along with each other slowly in life after marriage, their (her) will be revealed, and some are even wolves in human skin.
Li Xiumei was attracted by the old man's elegant dance, humorous and witty conversation, appropriate dress, and glamorous appearance. However, the good and bad character are not cautious before marriage and carefully understand it before marriage, and they will only appear after marriage. Looking for flowers and asking for help but not pick up some cheating behavior, which leads to parting ways and divorce. The facts prove that the old man is really a wolf in human skin.
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