"Seven Years Itch" has become a watershed to test whether a marriage is happy.
Once when chatting with a colleague, my colleague said, "I am so annoyed by my current marriage life! Especially after a day of fatigue, when I go home and see the chaotic ground, the idea of divorce is even stronger."
When my colleague talks about this, he feels like he is full of grievances and dissatisfactions and finds an outlet for venting, talking endlessly about his husband's dissatisfactions and shortcomings.
In the catharsis of these dissatisfaction emotions, I felt the depression in my colleague's heart. Many men have many shortcomings in managing and maintaining their personal hygiene.
For example: The shoes and socks you take off after returning home, even if they are only one step away from the shoe rack, they will not be placed on it, but will be thrown around casually.
Fortunately, my colleague’s husband is one of the army. For this matter, my colleague talked to my husband for six years, and it only took only seven years to get married.
Even the child was infected by her husband and learned this bad habit. After going home from school, the first thing he did when he entered the house was to throw the shoes on his feet everywhere. For a moment, his colleague felt so calm! He didn't even have the intention to lose his temper with them.
Every time I wash my clothes, I will completely flip through every corner of my house. Because, you will always find those bad smelly socks in places you can't imagine.
Because my colleagues have longer hair, they communicated with their husbands when they first got married. Whether they brush their teeth or shaving their beard, they wiped off the soap foam and beard slag splashed on the mirror, otherwise it will be difficult to clean it up after it is dry. After talking for so many years, the effect has been minimal.
These bad habits are not the primary reason for divorce from colleagues. The reason why I really want to divorce is that I see that the pots and bowls that are "stacked up" in the kitchen are not washed in time.
It also only cares about playing by yourself and completely ignores the health of the child. It either gives the child a hot overnight meal to drink or stir-fry it with unwashed vegetables for the child to eat.
When I saw the kitchen like a "trash dump", when I saw the child covered in stains and sweat on my face, I felt like a "volcano" that was about to erupt, and my anger rushed to the sky. Arguing and fighting have become commonplace.
Until one day, when she saw her husband's sloppy and unhygienic, she no longer quarreled, no longer quarreled with him, and became quiet.
Because, she realized in her heart that her husband might not change anything in this life. Maybe he didn't even realize that his habits were bad. So, I want to divorce him in my heart!
Just like the title, if a woman still has a glimmer of hope for marriage, how could she easily choose to divorce!
After all, the harm caused by divorce is radiation. The most hurt is the child!
Therefore, in the world of marriage, we should understand, support and tolerate each other, rather than oppress the other party without bottom line. Such a marriage is unhealthy and a deformed marriage.
