Introduction:
If two young people have entered the stage of talking about marriage and have already discussed the bride price before the wedding, then there should not be any temporary price increase on the day of the wedding, because after all, marriage is for the sake of love and future, not a business.
Weng Mingfan and his girlfriend Qin Xiaowan grew up in the same yard since childhood. They both studied together in elementary, junior high school and high school. The relationship between the two has always been very good. After graduating from high school, Weng Mingfan followed his parents to work in other places. His parents went to business and thought that studying was useless and that it was enough to make money, so they would not ask Weng Mingfan to have a high degree.
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Qin Xiaowan went to college. She was beautiful and had good academic performance. She had many suitors in college, but Qin Xiaowan did not fall in love in college because her mother disagreed. Qin Xiaowan's mother, Sister Wen, is a single mother, and Qin Xiaowan is her only sustenance in life. Of course, her mother hopes that she can marry well. The boys who pursue Qin Xiaowan in college have different conditions. Anyway, Sister Wen doesn't like it at all.
One year Weng Mingfan revisited his old place, returned to the small yard, and met Qin Xiaowan again. Weng Mingfan saw that Qin Xiaowan was so beautiful, and she evoked many memories of her youth. Qin Xiaowan's mother saw Weng Mingfan driving a good car, and she was also handsome and looked very smart, and she was satisfied with Weng Mingfan. When he inquired, he found that Weng Mingfan's family was quite rich, so he asked his daughter that night how she felt about Weng Mingfan. Her daughter did not object to being with Weng Mingfan.
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The mother could see that Weng Mingfan really likes his daughter. Since he was with his daughter, Weng Mingfan often came to his house and brought a lot of valuable things every time he came. This son-in-law made my mother like him very much. Of course, the most important thing is that she is interested in Weng Mingfan's family conditions. Of course, the mother does not want her daughter to marry into a family that needs poverty alleviation. After they were together for two years, Weng Mingfan visited him and wanted to marry Qin Xiaowan. Weng Mingfan said that he had prepared the house and car, and the dowry was presented by his mother-in-law.
used to get along with this prospective mother-in-law, and Weng Mingfan only felt that he was very satisfied with him. Every time he came to see his mother-in-law, Weng Mingfan obviously felt that she was very enthusiastic about him and always asked him kindly: "What do you want to eat, my aunt will make it for you." At that time, Weng Mingfan only felt that the prospective mother-in-law was very enthusiastic and easy to get along with, but the relationship between the two gradually began to change, starting with asking for a bride price. At the beginning, the mother-in-law only asked for a bride price of 300,000.
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At the beginning, my mother-in-law was very reasonable and said that the most important thing about getting married was that two people were suitable for each other. She was very relieved to marry her daughter to Weng Mingfan. She would not regard her daughter's marriage as a business. Weng Mingfan also felt that her mother-in-law was really good and did not make things difficult for him about the bride price. Until his mother-in-law repeatedly refreshed Weng Mingfan's bottom line in the matter of bride price. At first, her mother-in-law said that she only had bride price of 200,000 yuan. Weng Mingfan felt that this was too little, so she offered to give 300,000 yuan, and her mother-in-law was very happy.
Since everyone was satisfied with the 300,000 yuan bride price, Weng Mingfan thought that the matter had settled, but one night, his mother-in-law suddenly cried and said to Weng Mingfan: "My relatives and friends all said that I am a single mother, and it is not easy to raise a daughter. The bride price is at least 500,000 yuan." He asked for an extra 200,000 yuan at once. Most sons-in-law decided to give up this marriage at this moment, but Weng Mingfan and his family liked their girlfriend very much, and the family was not short of money, so they agreed to give a 500,000 yuan bride price.
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Originally, Weng Mingfan and his family also tried hard to understand the hard work of raising their daughter alone. They also expressed their understanding of the bride price of their parents asking for an additional 200,000 yuan, and did not feel any grudges about it in their hearts. But on the day of the wedding, the mother-in-law cried again, "Their orphans and widows have not received many respects since childhood. Now that their daughter is married, in order to let the people attend the wedding see that their daughter is married in a glorious manner, she has to give her a 100,000 yuan fare."
will sell miserably as soon as you ask for money. This is clearly a bitter plan. Weng Mingfan and his family can be fooled by her once, but it is impossible to be fooled twice. After Weng Mingfan and his family discussed it, he decided not to get married for the time being. Weng Mingfan said: "The 500,000 yuan bride gift will be returned, and it will not be settled. "When my mother-in-law heard this, she started arguing with him on the spot: "You have been married to my daughter for so many years. If you say you don't get married, why? You are not delaying my daughter. "Weng Mingfan said: "If I say I don't want to get married, I will never think about delaying your daughter. The one who really delays your daughter is you, the mother. "
Conclusion:
It was not easy for the mother-in-law to raise her daughter as a single mother, and the son-in-law also understood her hard work. Even if she asked for a bride price for the second time, the son-in-law agreed, but the mother-in-law was completely unaware of being grateful. She said that she did not regard her daughter's marriage as a business, but in fact she has always regarded her daughter's marriage as a business, and she had to raise the bride price and get off the bus. In this way, the mother-in-law, who has a poor heart, will be disappointed and choose to let go.
