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1. A big thing is nothing more than life and death.
As the name suggests, no matter how big a thing is, as long as we are not in danger of life, it is not a big deal. As long as we are still alive, we will definitely find a solution.
So, when applied to the scene of love breakup, we give ourselves a hint is "What a big deal, isn't it just a breakup? As long as I'm still alive, I will definitely meet a better one!"
2. Love is just a period of choice for marriage.
This is telling us to view and understand love correctly and to know what love is? In other words, is the person who is in love with us necessarily the person who lives with us for the rest of our lives? Obviously, the answer to this question is uncertain.
is more thorough. In fact, falling in love is like doing a multiple-choice question, and the paper has not been submitted at this time. The marriage test question is still in our hands. As long as we feel that what we are doing is wrong, we can modify another answer and then consider whether to submit the paper.
At this time, if thinks this clearly, we will be glad that we have not gotten married yet, and glad that we found that we were inappropriate before we entered the marriage. If we really found that we were inappropriate after we got married, the result would be even worse at that time.
3. Life is not only about love, but also about friendship and family affection.
In plain words, no matter how sad we are, the person who leaves us will not be sad for us, and will not not leave us because of our sadness.
So, who can our sadness affect? If we are sad, the one who has the deepest influence is our parents, the one who is related to us, because he (she) is the only person in the world who unconditionally hopes that we are good.
Secondly, it is the one who cares about us the most, the closest relatives and friends who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are the ones who are most concerned about us.
So, when we are sad because of a broken heart, we cannot only think of ourselves, we cannot be too selfish, we must also look at those who have been caring for us, think about their feelings, and think about the impact our behaviors have on them.
When we learn and consider them, we will naturally get out of the shadow of broken love.
changyanchang language:
What words can inspire a person to get out of the shadow of broken love? Regarding love breakup, we just need to think clearly, that is, "there are more than one woman and more than one man in this world" or "if a person leaves our lives, we will usher in more opportunities for choice."
There has never been so-called sadness and pain in life. If so, there is only one reason, which is "we always can't get along with ourselves."
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