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And what about some women? Although they will buy things from acquaintances, they do not blindly follow, do not blindly believe or buy things blindly. They will consider whether the quality and price of the item are appropriate. If the actual quality and price are not very good, they will not buy them from this acquaintance.
And the result of this kind of soberness in the world is: you can buy real things.
There is also a phenomenon that has been happening frequently at the moment, that is, many people are deceived, so why are many people deceived? Because I am not sober, because I always want to take advantage of it, because I have not distinguished what is reliable and what is not reliable.
is like suddenly receiving a call from a stranger and hearing the other party say, "You have some problems with a certain fund in a certain bank. You need to verify the personal information you reserved in the bank..."
At this time, people who are not sober will easily believe it, thus leaking their personal information to strangers, resulting in being cheated. Sober people will not be induced by the other party. They will consult the official or go directly to the corresponding bank to consult to prevent themselves from being cheated.
is self-evident. In big interpersonal relationships, if a woman is sober in the world, she can better avoid being tricked and deceived.
2. In love relationships, women can make more reliable choices by being sober in the world.
Everyone likes beauty and yearns for beauty. This is human nature and understandable, but love is not determined by external beauty. Whether two people can be happy together depends on whether the inner and three views of the two people are in line with each other.
And what about some women? Some women are particularly persistent in the outside world, such as some current spouse choices require "a height of more than 1.8 meters, a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan..." Let's not talk about whether these requirements are realistic, but assuming that if you find such a partner that meets the requirements, will you definitely be happy after marriage?
is obvious, and may not be happy, because the external manifestations that can be intuitively seen in height, appearance, current salary level, region, etc. can only satisfy our pursuit of current material life, and it cannot determine whether our married life is happy or happy.
And those unconscious women will be very persistent in the pursuit of these external manifestations, and thus make mistakes, allowing themselves to suffer from emotional ravages and hurts again and again.
On the contrary, those sober women do not have no requirements for their external image when choosing objects, but have flexible requirements for their external image. They value the inner more than the external.
For example, can you talk to the other party? Do you feel comfortable when you are together? In terms of daily life and behavior, can you accept certain behaviors and styles of the other party?
For a sober woman, if a man's inner and comprehensive qualities can meet her requirements for choosing a spouse, she will appropriately relax some of her external requirements, so that she will be more likely to have a happy marriage life.
In one sentence, it is: true love gives scarce resources, and true scarce resources are a person's inner qualities. A sober person in the world can see this clearly and make better choices.
So, in a love relationship, if a woman is sober in a human world, she can make more reliable choices and will be more likely to be happy.
changyanchangyu:
How important is it to be sober in the world? Women can keep money by being sober in the world and avoid being tricked or deceived. Women can be sober in the world and make their mind better. Women can be sober in the world and make their mind better. Women can make themselves sober in the world and make themselves make more reliable choices and better find their own happiness.
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