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Editor’s note: Military love often comes unexpectedly and is overwhelming, but it is easy to fall into mediocrity or even pass away in the passing of distance and time, just like the following article. recorded.
It is difficult to tell accurately whether it is the busy soldier who is indifferent, or the immature girl who is too anxious, or this is just the inevitable running-in period of military love...
In the final analysis, the establishment of "security" in long-distance military love It's so important. If you have any experience or thoughts, please leave a message in the comment area and analyze it for this girl.
In July of this year, I added him as a friend by chance. I didn’t know that he was a soldier at first. We chatted for about two days, and we happened to catch up with him coming home on vacation. I also happened to stay in school in the city where his home is. So on the first day he came home, we met. He treated me to my favorite ice powder, and then we went to the road and he talked to me a lot. I seemed to understand a little bit about his career and work.
The next day, when he was sending me back to the dormitory, he confessed to me . It was expected, but it was caught off guard. It was like a deer bumping into each other every time he thought about it. Just like that, we were together. .
In the next 20 days, we met every day, ate together, went to the arcade together, watched movies together, and took a lot of photos together... I was so happy. Even if there was a little friction, it was resolved quickly. . I took him to meet my good friends, and he invited my roommates to dinner and sent them a WeChat message asking them to take good care of me.
August 1st was the day he returned to the team. I went to see him off, holding the flowers that read on the card, "My love is across mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can be leveled." I cried so hard that I couldn't bear to leave him. I'm done. I was preparing for a long-distance military relationship, but it didn’t seem to be as simple as I thought.
was okay at the beginning, he would reply to every message I sent him seriously when he was free , would take good care of my emotions, and would have time to video call me every day, even if it was only ten minutes, I thought we It will continue like this well... ····
Later, he became busier and busier, and he could not say a few words a day . He also turned a blind eye to the daily routine I shared with him. He never responded to my messages properly, nor did he take good care of me. The emotions, even a few minutes of video are gone.
I told myself to understand him. He would come back and come to me when he is done with his work. But this is not the case. He is never-endingly busy. The feeling of not getting a response to his joyful sharing is really true. It’s so uncomfortable. was obviously available before, why can’t it be done now?
I went back to my dormitory from the library alone last night. It was dark and windy on the road, and suddenly I couldn’t stand it anymore. I cried all the way back, but I didn’t tell him. I just sent him a message saying that I had I'm a little sad. He's not here and hasn't responded. I sent him a video of the dried flowers I made and I still haven't received any response. He just sent me two voice messages at 12.00. I'm very happy. He said in It’s not that he ignored me, he was in a meeting for something and he told me to go to bed early.
At 4.20 in the morning, he sent me a message saying that he was off work. The next day I told him that I had finished eating. He immediately sent me a picture of him eating, and then "disappeared" again. I asked him if he still liked it. If he doesn't like me, he still hasn't replied, until now.
talked to him last week. said it will be fine in the future. How about it? is in love now, so I feel that the news I posted is not nutritional and does not want to return. Will it respond if you get married? Maybe he feels that I will really mature when I get married. The same thing as he thinks about house prices and interpersonal relationships. Work hard I want to maintain this relationship well, but he seems to be unwilling to walk a little bit about me at all. It doesn't matter how long you can go to him, you can rush, from the end, the end of the result, the final result, the final result, the final result I don't regret it.
is here. I don't know what I will be with him in the future. probably waits for him to tell me that the two words will really be dead.
Author: Xiaojing
Source: No. 1 Section
