The key to whether a relationship can survive lies in the sincerity of both parties.
If only one party is sincere and only one party works hard, then no matter how the relationship goes, it will only end in parting ways. After all, relationships are always a matter between two people. If one of them chooses to give up, it means the end.
As for whether a person truly loves you, there are traces to follow.
Especially in the process of chatting, you can tell from the way he replies to your messages how he feels about you. Does he want to have a future with you, or is he patient and perfunctory with you, or is he clear about it? Bored of you?
Some people can pretend to be a perfect love partner when they meet you again, but when you turn your back, all their impatience and disgust towards you will be revealed in a place where you can't see them.
When he sees your message, he either cannot read it back or responds with a few random sentences. If you ask him why, he can always find hundreds of reasons to be busy. But in fact, he is not busy, just because he doesn’t want to be with you. You chat just because I don’t care about you.
As a human being, we must not get used to deceiving ourselves and others. If the same reason appears several times, we may regard it as an occasional accident, but if it happens frequently, it can only be man-made.
In relationships, if a person repeatedly neglects you, it means he doesn't love you enough, or even doesn't love you at all.
Stop bothering people like this who reply to your messages.
01: Read and cannot reply
If you have ever stayed by your mobile phone, waiting for someone to reply to a message, you will easily understand that the waiting process is very difficult, and emotions are often a process of ups and downs. From the beginning, you are full of heart. Expectation, then delusion from time to time, and then self-deception.
You can always find various reasons to comfort yourself and lie to yourself that he is too busy, so you wait and wait, but the result still does not go as you want. It is not until later that you realize that it is not because he is busy, but because he is busy. It's not that he didn't see it, he just didn't want to reply.
If you can't read your messages anymore, please stop bothering them.
Those reasons cited as being busy are just because we don’t care. After all, for us who are never away from our mobile phones almost 24 hours a day, it is impossible not to have time to reply to a message.
So, if a person always can't read your messages, then forget it and just pretend that he didn't see it and don't bother you anymore.
02: Perfunctory reply
When you chat with a person, his attitude towards you can be seen from his reply.
If a person will always reply to you with words such as "um", "ah", "received", no matter how lively you chat, in fact, you should understand that his attitude in replying to your message at this time is very perfunctory. .
He has no interest in your chat at all. It is just to maintain the relationship between you that he does not directly ignore your message, but he only handles it in a routine manner.
His perfunctory treatment of you is firstly due to his own mood, and secondly, he hopes that you will be smarter and stop disturbing him.
So, if the other person is always very perfunctory when replying to your messages, then you should be more sensible and don't let the other person hate you from the bottom of his heart.
In fact, you should understand that when you truly love someone, you should talk about everything, rather than being silent. If you have nothing to say, then stop bothering and leave yourself some dignity and dignity.
03: disappear completely after a few perfunctory sentences
I wonder if you have encountered a similar embarrassing situation: you were chatting with a person, but he disappeared after chatting for a few words. You have been waiting for him to reply to your message, and you have been waiting for him to reply to your message. Comfort yourself that he is just busy, but the next second, you find that his name appears in the circle of friends you just liked.
At that moment, you understood that he was not busy doing anything, he just didn't want to chat with you.
Some people are like this. When they are in a good mood, they will chat with you for a few words when they encounter your dialog box, but once they no longer want to chat, they will disappear immediately, not caring whether you are waiting for their reply.
As for someone who really cares about you, he will not disappear without saying a word. If something really happens to him, he will definitely tell you in advance.
So, if you meet someone who always responds to your messages with a few perfunctory words and then disappears completely, then don’t bother him anymore, because he doesn’t mean anything to you and he doesn’t want to have any further relationship with you.
In interpersonal relationships, who is willing to give you sincerity and who will only give you false love can often be seen in the details.
is like saying the attitude of replying to your message.
People who truly love you will not be perfunctory with you, while people who don't love you will feel impatient even if they are perfunctory.
Time flies by, and a person's time and energy are limited. In the years to come, I hope that you and I can love the people who are worthy of love and go to the distance we want to reach.
Some people don't need to bother.
I am Aya, a writer of heart-warming emotions. How lucky I am to meet you in this life! Please give us a follow and let’s learn together!
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