It is said that "men don't shed tears lightly, just because they haven't reached the point of sadness." It's not that men don't shed tears, they just don't shed tears easily, but if their sadness is touched, men will not be more able to control it than women. live.
Just like a big happy event like getting married, a father will also behave differently. For the man's parents, they are overjoyed because there is an extra person in the family. For the girl's parents, it is because their daughter has changed from a relative to a guest, and they are naturally very sad.
Such sadness is not only reflected on the mother's face, but also on the father's face. Some fathers will feel sad, while others cannot control the tears.
html On September 1, Xuchang, Henan, a video of a father marrying his daughter resonated with netizens. Many netizens said they felt the same and could not bear to watch such a scene.
It is reported that the father’s little cotton-padded jacket got married, and he had raised it for more than 20 years. He wandered around in front of him every day, and suddenly he was about to get married. Naturally, the father’s heart felt empty, as if he had raised it carefully for more than 20 years. How can you not feel sad when the flowers of the New Year are suddenly taken away in their pots?
The videographers were busy taking photos of the bride. Many relatives and friends surrounded the bride like stars holding the moon in their arms, and their faces were all filled with joy. After all, it is a wedding day, and even the bride smiles happily from time to time.
Behind everyone, an old father in his fifties looked at his married daughter from a distance, but his face was full of reluctance. Thinking of the scenes of his daughter growing up, he couldn't help crying. .
This is the little princess that I have loved for more than 20 years. After walking out of this door, she will be a guest when she comes back. And after marrying and becoming someone else's family, it is not known whether she will be treated well.
When the old father thought that his daughter would go to a strange family, face a group of strange people, and might have to carefully read people's faces, he felt bad in his heart. He was reluctant to leave and looked at his daughter with tears.
Everyone was immersed in joy and did not notice the old father behind him. The father felt that this was his daughter's big day after all, so he tried his best to control his emotions and raised his hand to wipe his tears.
But the tears still flowed down unsatisfactorily. The father simply covered his eyes with his hands, fearing that others would see him and laugh at him, and also fear that his daughter would see it and affect her mood.
Netizens also expressed their thoughts after seeing the scene where their father could not help crying. Some netizens said that when they got married, their father burst into tears; some netizens said that seeing this father was like seeing themselves ten years later, and they could really understand the father's mood.
Zi Mo Chat Fun Facts: Father's love is like a mountain. Many times, father's love is hidden silently in their hearts. They are not good at expressing it, but their love is deep and great.
From the time when their daughters were born to the time when they became tall and graceful girls, their father's love has always been with them as they grew up. Although some fathers were running around every day to make a living, they still cared about their daughters all the time.
In fact, as the man’s parents, you should also be considerate of the girl’s parents’ feelings and be kind to their daughter. After all, the girl is also her parents’ little princess in her natal family and is loved by her parents in every possible way. She left her parents for love and came to a new environment. We should give her double love and treat her like our own daughter.
Only if the husband's family treats the girl he marries well can the girl's parents feel at ease. They will not feel the loss of a daughter, but the satisfaction of having a new relative.
