For women, love is like a splendid galaxy on the road of life, romantic and passionate. Even in the mud, it can shine its own light, so that everyone passing by can feel the touch.
Swedenborg said: "Love exists in the desire to devote, and regards the lover's happiness as one's own happiness." Once many women fall in love, they will stimulate the desire to devote, even if there is no corresponding reward, they will be willing to pay.
However, many women are duplicitous and unwilling to bring their dedication to the table, because for them, as long as they give themselves, it is enough, and they do not need to prove anything to others.
Love is great to them, and it is even more selfless. In the process of interacting with the person they love, they will not give up even if they are misunderstood, and they will accept all emotions and consequences while enjoying it.
As a result, many women's behaviors and thoughts will cause conflicts when presented in front of others. Women always love passionately, but they behave very tactfully, because they long for long-lasting feelings, not short-term passion.
Therefore, in life, don’t make subjective assumptions about women’s behavior. A woman who treats you like this may seem very cold, but she actually loves you very much.
1: Secretly remember your preferences
In order not to lower their worth and protect themselves, some women will hide their emotions appropriately and prevent others from easily knowing their thoughts. It seems that only in this way will they not be easily exposed. Let down.
However, it is not easy to meet a loved one in this life. If you miss it, you may never meet again in the future. Therefore, women will not miss the person they like easily.
Even if they say they don’t like it and pretend to be very aloof, she will secretly remember your preferences, which means she actually loves you very much.
In real life, many people are always unable to express their feelings purely due to face or other complex factors, fearing that the result will cause unnecessary trouble to themselves and the other party.
However, she will pay attention to every detail of getting along with you, get closer to you from the details, remember your preferences secretly, take care of you inadvertently, and make you feel full of security. Therefore, such a woman is Worth cherishing.
Even if she talks hard, you have to understand that her intentions are very sincere, but she will not use sweet words to coax you, but when you get along with her, you will not feel pressure and will enjoy it very much.
This kind of enjoyment is not a natural process, but a woman's attention and care for you. Even if you don't say it, you should understand the reason. When enjoying her love, you should also give her care and security.
After all, in relationships, love is a matter between two people. If you want to have a long-lasting relationship, you have to put in your own efforts. If two people work hard for the same goal, then growing old together is no longer a dream.
2: I like to hate you
Many people say that women have a deep heart, but women’s thoughts are actually very easy to understand. They just hope that the people they love can tolerate their petty willfulness and temper, protect themselves without hesitation, and be firm to themselves. preference.
But women are very sensitive and will not express their attitudes and feelings very directly. If a woman always likes to quarrel with you, such behavior may seem very cold, but it is actually because she loves you.
You must know that women will naturally reduce the possibility of ambiguity with someone they don’t like, maintain a sense of proportion between the two people, and keep an appropriate distance from the other person, which will neither cause misunderstanding nor harm, and will not be casual. .
She quarrels with you because she wants to create romantic details when she gets along with you. This kind of small quarrel is a good way to warm up your relationship. Inadvertently, the two people will understand each other deeper.
So, don’t misunderstand a woman who likes to quarrel with you. It’s not because she hates you. If she really hates you, she will choose to stay away. She will not be willing to say anything to you, let alone argue with you.
In the process of attacking you, she keeps expressing her feelings and wants you to cherish her. Don't you not understand.
Three: Praising you behind your back
When a woman doesn’t want to say good things about you in front of you, but always praises you behind your back, it may seem cold, but it’s actually because she likes you.
In the eyes of women, the person they like is coated with a layer of filters, and may even be perfect. Although she will not admit it in front of you, she will reveal her emotions behind her back and praise you behind your back.
To her, you are a very proud existence, but it seems very embarrassing to say it directly. You know, women also need face very much. In front of you, naturally they are not willing to bow their heads to please you.
Therefore, when getting along with a woman, you must grasp the details and don't take it for granted. Many women mean what they say and mean it. You need to grasp the details to understand her feelings, so that you will not let down your affection.
