Love is the yearning of many people, and it is also a romantic and great existence in the world. However, everything in the world has its two sides. While love is so beautiful, it is also permeated with lies and deception.
Many people always exaggerate the possibility of love, thinking that as long as they meet love, they will be able to stick to the saying "The mountains have no edges, the heaven and the earth are in harmony, and only then can I dare to be with you." However, when love enters life, only then do we understand the meaning of meeting. Pressure for more.
When you have real experience, you will understand that not all promises can be fulfilled. After all, ideals are full and reality is backbone. Many men can make up very beautiful lies in order to get you.
For men, love words are the lowest cost, but they are also the most effective. All relationships in the world have their shelf life. Even if they are determined to grow old together at the beginning, few men can always stick to their original intentions.
Therefore, in life, just listen to these "love lies" from men, and don't take them seriously.
"I am responsible for supporting the family, and you are responsible for being as beautiful as a flower."
If a man says "I am responsible for supporting the family, and you are responsible for being as beautiful as a flower" when dating you, you will be happy to hear such a "love lie" , but don’t take it seriously.
You must know that if you want your relationship to last forever, your love will inevitably return to life. When you experience the trials of life, you will find that a man's promise is just talk.
If you are only responsible for your beauty, and when the other person gets tired of you, then he will break his promise and in turn despise you for not having any abilities. At this time, your beauty will have no effect.
And once you get married, you don’t want to be idle. Even if you don’t have a job, you still have to take on the affairs of a housewife. Then the things you face will be more complicated, and it will not be easy to gain the respect of your family and partner.
Many women choose each other desperately because of such lies. Until they enter marriage, the lies will be exposed bit by bit. By this time, it is already too late, so don’t believe in such promises from the beginning.
You must stick to your job and don’t crave for a man to support you. Although he will swear to you when he pursues you, when he really betrays you, he must be unswerving. At that time, you There is no choice.
Therefore, women must have their own independent ability and be able to live well even if they leave each other. In this way, the relationship between each other will achieve the icing on the cake and become the confidence and guarantee for themselves in the relationship.
Only with confidence and protection can women not be easily let down. Men's promises cannot be trusted. Instead of placing happiness on others, it is better to take it into your own hands and move firmly towards your own future.
"I will marry you when I have money."
For men, once they choose their partner, they will want to marry them immediately. If they hesitate, they are likely to miss it. If they miss it, it will be difficult to get them back. , I will choose to seize the opportunity from the beginning instead of focusing on other positions.
In life, if a man says "I will marry you if I have money", his words are a "love lie". Just listen to it and feel comfortable. Don't take it seriously.
Someone who truly loves you, even if there are no conditions, will find ways to marry you home instead of improving their economic status first.
Because he knows that no one in the world will stand still waiting for another person. If you don't seize the opportunity, you will lose it.
So, don’t believe such excuses. His excuse is because his heart is not sincere enough. He does not love you enough to marry you. His lies are just to hold you back until you find the one you really want to marry. leave you.
For women, marriage is a lifelong matter, and it is also the guarantee of their own happiness. Do not consume your feelings in unguaranteed relationships. In many cases, only by decisively giving up on people who are not sincere can you meet true happiness.
"I only love you in my life."
Every relationship has a shelf life. When each other's patience and enthusiasm are gone, the so-called love will slowly fade away over time, even without the tempering of life. , will also dissipate in the wind.
If a man says "I will only love you for the rest of my life", such a love lie is only a temporary comfort. No one can consistently stick to his or her heart for a lifetime, who knows what will happen.
Once lies like this enter your life, they will be full of holes. Let alone loving you alone, even loving you is difficult to do. When the love for you recedes, this promise will become pale and feeble.
So, don’t listen to love with your ears, but learn to feel love with your heart.
A person who truly loves you will reflect his love in his heartbeat. There is no need to prove it and he can feel it at any time.
